Girls, help with my pregnant girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Well my girlfriend is now 22 weeks pregnant and for about... 10 weeks now all she has done is start arguments, been nasty or push me away from her. We live together and obviously sleep together and all I do is try my 100% best to get everything right so she knows I'm always there for her. I comfort her I complement her when she says she's looking fat I try cuddle up to her in bed and always do my best to make sure she wakes up happy and goes sleep happy I buy her gifts and she hates me doing it and doesn't even say thanks for anything I get u till I have to say what do you say?

I live 2 hours away from my parents house with her and wen it comes to seeing her parents we stay down there for a week and when it comes to my house with my parents she always lies and makes up things to go home. I hate the girl she has become and I don't know what to do about it.

[Rcjh1987]

I'm going to be honest here, when I was pregnant I'm sure at times I was difficult to be around, although I loved every moment of being pregnant I sometimes couldn't control my emotions. . case in point I was craving McDonald's french fries and my boyfriend was like well let's go.. Somehow I accidentally spilled all of my fries and started crying, he laughed of course because I was crying over FRENCH FRIES gave me his and I knocked those over, I started to really cry then, they don't tell you your sense of balance goes crazy. . I'm not trying to excuse her behavior but her body is going through so many changes aches pains stretching hormones feet hurt swelling nauseous, if I ever acted not so nice I always apologize. with your parents though she might not be sleeping well it's not her bed she's used to which is very uncomfortable, I always hated staying with my boyfriend because it wasn't my bed, she might be getting leg cramps which are the worse man I cried sometimes when I got those damn things. try getting her a pregnancy pillow for her comfort it should help. . if you need anything else you know my username feel free to message me hun..

[Asker]

Thanks for that I really appreciate it thank you.

[Rcjh1987]

your very welcome hun just try to bare with her hugs

[tizz704]

She is just pregnant and crazy! Every woman gets like that when they are pregnant. Talk to her about how you are feeling in a gentle way so she's more aware of it but make sure you are SUPER sweet and not coming off like you are fundementally unhappy but just that you are feeling bad that you can't seem to help her stay in a good mood. Maybe a good way of approaching it would be to ask her if there is anything she feels that you could do to support her or keep her happier in this time because by asking that you are acknowledging she is going through a hard time.

[Anonymous]

She's really stressed out. I've done this to my boyfriend because I was stressed. He didn't do anything to deserve it. I was just not considering his feelings because I was stressed out in the environment we were in & we were going to be in a long distance relationship soon & I was afraid of him not loving anymore. So that always came into mind. He gave his all to make me feel better too. I was just always thinking negative. Maybe she is just thinking really negativly right now. She is pregnant you know? Being negative will cause you to unfair & unreasonable. This is just a phase. She will get better & see the errors of her ways. You are an amazing guy to stand by her still even after how difficult she has been. She will be better I promise.

[shadowlegend]

Buck up. She is carrying your baby. She can act, do, say or be whoever she wants at this time, and if you're a decent man, you will be nothing but supportive to her.

[Asker]

If you would have read it all properly you would have known I do nothing but support her

[ForReals23]

she either was like that to begin with and she doesn't care anymore OR its the pregnancy hormones, I have heard of this happening before, its pretty normal.

[Kaylove96]

It's the effects of pregnancy. The things pregnancy does. Those kinds of things are normal for a pregnant woman and she's probably stressed out and dealing with the hormones

[DessieDoo]

Its the hormones from pregnancy. It will pass. I was the same way but it ended when I gave birth.

[xxbebosxx]

that's the pregnancy talking