Pregnant what to do?

[Anonymous]

I’ve had a relationship with a Muslim man for 5 years then he got moved away 3 years ago and his family forced an engagement for him with another girl over the phone who is back in his country and told me he refuses to marry her and she’s nothing to do with him and that he wants to marry me. He ended up getting me pregnant and I asked what to do he said we should keep it and he said he’ll soon marry me and tell his family he still sees me after all these years but I feel like he will back out and get too scared. He does run a business 6 days a week and live with his family hours away i just feel like he won’t marry me and by the time I find out it’ll be too late to abort and I can’t have a child solo while he gets forced to be with someone else

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that ultimately, the decision about what to do with your pregnancy is yours to make. However, it's also important to consider the potential impact on your own well-being, as well as the well-being of the child and the father.

If you feel that you are not ready to have a child, or if you are concerned about the potential challenges of raising a child on your own, you may want to consider your options for abortion or adoption. It's important to do your research, talk to your healthcare provider, and seek support from trusted friends and family members if you decide to pursue these options.

If you do decide to have the child, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with the father about your expectations and concerns, and to come up with a plan for co-parenting that works for both of you. It's also important to consider the potential impact on your relationship with him, as well as his relationship with his family and the cultural and religious expectations surrounding marriage.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what is best for your own well-being and the well-being of the child. It's important to prioritize self-care and to seek support from trusted friends, family members, and healthcare professionals as you navigate this difficult decision.

Make no mistake of it, being a mother is beautiful that it may seem untimely or regretful you gotten pregnant but having your own baby is the greatest and beautiful feeling in the whole world to ever experience. I feel you would make it good.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to murder your child? You should have the baby and place it for adoption.

[Asker]

I don’t remember being in the womb at all and it won’t be developed… feel like also being alive is a punishment rather than a blessing. Hard to succeed. Lots of people struggle with mental health. Being bullied. Heartbroken. Murders etc then forced to go through your own death in the end… how does adoption work? If it’s something any mother can do I’d happily do that I thought it was more complicated

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know where you live and what the procedures are in your area, but you should be able to google "adoption agencies" and find some near you.