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2 mo

Was this organizer’s comment rude and a sign of disrespect toward me?

Been going to this organizer's events for some time.

Today she was complaining abut how people cancel and don't inform her or they don't show up and it's embarrassing for her because she holds thse events for people to make friends etc.

She said I'm the only person whose consistently come for her events etc. And another girl added to praise me, "Yes and she's coming from so far away too!"

And this organizer made a face and said: Yeah but she sometimes cancels.

Like I was right there. I was so annoyed but didn't want to rock the boat so I said nothing. I was so uncomfortable for the rest of the event and embarrassed.

It made me feel like I'm not even sure she values that I'm coming out she's taking me for granted.

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2 mo
Also for context in my entire life I have canceled on an event ONCE around a year ago. A lot of people cancelled that day I was hardly the only one.

After that there was a trip I had shown interest in. She had said she would ask people about the carpool etc. and then just never got back to me.

I knew it was on purpose, but I let it go.

Like i really feel not only was this uncalled for hte worst part is she said it in front of everyone and pretty much ruined the event for me I wish I hadn't
Was this organizer’s comment rude and a sign of disrespect toward me?
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