Why did my male coworker vent to my friend instead of talking to me?

[Anonymous]

Well work friend about what happened between us the other day.. why would he tell our problems to my so called friend instead of confronting me about it

[HollyK21]

You could always just ask🙃

[Asker]

Yeaa but he been doing that multiple times already behind my back

[HollyK21]

He did that behind your back after you asked? I feel pretty sure you have not addressed this with him and instead talk to that one coworker of yours who stirs up trouble.

[Asker]

No he comes up to her saying what happened between us instead of coming to me

[Asker]

Why would
I want her to know the problem

[HollyK21]

Because she’s a drama starter and you already know that. She most likely asked him about you because like I said before, she wants you to also have a guy at work you flirt with so that she doesn’t feel so bad about what she does behind her man’s back. It is very obvious. You keep feeding into it too I don’t know why.

[Asker]

Noo he came
Up to her talking about me what happened the other day

[HollyK21]

Did she tell you this or you witnessed it

[Asker]

She told me what he told her which is true what happens

[HollyK21]

I don’t believe her.

[In_Trance]

ask him why