I'm 26, he is 37. He has never married, never had a long term relationship. I had one and it turned out that this guy was my third cousin. Still shocked and confused, and hurt... we were together for 7 years.
Anyways... my coworker and I have become close and he is basically doing this:
- started calling me everyday and we used to talk for hours until last week
- has started touching me both accidentally and intentionally a lot (hugging, shoulder massaging, little hand touching and lingering,... etc)
- he has pet names for me including a one he used for his ex
- he is flirting with me a lot...
- he doesn't want to hear if I start talking about my third cousin
- he confided in me (he was a manager previously) so I got to know a lot of an inside information
- he asked me out many times, but never really insisted to a specific time and date so I decided that he is toying with me and it was a joke
- he seems to have mentioned me to his friends, cause once a friend of his called and he said "u cannot come by, cause I'm taking (my name) home"... I was shocked cause he mentioned me so freely and his friend didn't ask "who is she?"
- he is talking about his private life a lot and is also talking to his friends on speaker while in my presence
- he asked me if i have found a boyfriend many times
Also:
- he sometimes is sexually objecting me and it hurts my feelings (made comments about my body being juicy, and about my ass and other body parts being "hot")
- he says things like "I should make you a baby", I will make you my wife, we should make love...
- I get the feeling like he is playing mind games with me sometimes... he is playing hot and cold
- he has become different two weeks ago when he had a mysterious trip and when he returned he said that he has slept with a Ukrainian refugee lady... I'm not sure why he did tell me this, but it hurt me
I'm not sure what's going on between us, but I'm super confused...
