Have you ever felt this way?

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're a nice and kind person who always care about the others, always been there in their hard times, always made them happy, always made sure that they are doing good... etc

You send them messages to check on them and wishing them the best, but in return you were never been treated the same, some barely even send you a message, even if you went missing for days, it shows how you're there for everyone but there's barely anyone there for you and when they lose you, that's how they react...

"Don't take someone for granted"

[sage2021]

I guess that I feel like that too. You're just lucky that those people didn't steal almost everything you owed TWICE on top of not caring about you. I'm still dealing with that. 😔

You are a wonderful person and I know that you deserve to be treated better by people, way better!! But they broke the mold the day you were born because you are very special and you genuinely care about people. I know this true from my own relationship with you Son.

I guess people just don't care about others like they used to and yes, it hurts when they don't. It's not right by all means.

I know for sure that your reward is waiting for you in Heaven and God himself will reward you for everything that you do for people and he will also know how they treated you in return.

God will one day say to you "Well done my good and faithful servant."

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thank you a lot for this wonderful realistic answer, i know one thing for sure, you're a person who were there for me for two years now in my sad and happy days, you have never hesitated to ride that crazy life roller coaster with me, never cared about what will happen, you were just happy to stand by my side as simple as that, thanks 🥰

You are one of these rare, VERY rare people who gave me even more then i gave them...

[sage2021]

I cherish our close relationship. I've never had another one like it, and I know that I never will again. You are a very special man Tony!
I will always be here for you and communicate back with you.
One way relationships aren't worth having.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thank you, same here 😊

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're welcome

[elizamichale1]

I m exactly like that coz i try to make n keep everyone happy...

About other people not showing the same care is usually common...

[TonyMetal___1986]

Then you're able to know how a man like me feels, no need to explain more...

[elizamichale1]

I do honey n i wish it could change for good for u

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks miss Eliza and i wish you the best too 😌

[elizamichale1]

Thanks honey😘😘

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[TonyMetal___1986]

You're welcome

[elizamichale1]

😊😊

[TonyMetal___1986]

😊👍🏻

[NathanDavis]

nope... I never do caring expecting "pay back"

however, there's always been reciprocation so... I had not had to feel that way either

[TonyMetal___1986]

Good 👍🏻

[exitseven]

I had a girlfriend that made me feel that way. I kept waiting for her to "get it" but she never did. I finally dumped her.

[TonyMetal___1986]

You did the right thing, we all have limits for how much pain we can take, especially when you're always giving but receiving nothing in return, except pain and emotional breakdown...

[EmmaMary]

I'm both afraid and sorry to say That's Life.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Yep but don't forget that people are free to choose what they want to do, act and feel in the life...

If i can do it than others can, it's just that they don't want or are careless enough to forget about you...

[Cidknee]

It all sucks! It seems anyone with a truly happy life has to be faking it.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I agree, don't be fooled by a smile, no one knows what's inside a person...

[Cidknee]

Heh, you sound like my mom. She said things like that and regarding someone getting caught doing something they shouldn't, she'd say, " you never know whats in a persons mind." Or you don't know what theyve been through. Stuff like that.

[TonyMetal___1986]

She's 100% right my friend...

[Cidknee]

Yep!

[xawyx-3]

I happened a few times :/

[TonyMetal___1986]

Yes, only a good person will feel the pain not a croc with 0% emotions...

[xawyx-3]

Indeed, I agree...

[Agape93]

Nope

[TonyMetal___1986]

Can you explain more 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Agape93]

Sure. For example, @DarkCarousel is someone i absolutely adore. I can check on her till the cows come home. But if she doesn't do the same, I dont care. I dont need her to, to care for her. Same with anyone else I love.

[TonyMetal___1986]

BUT, when you care about someone, it's good if they care back, you're doing it cause you love them and if they truly love you, they will do the same for you...

[Agape93]

Inconsequential for me. If they do, great, but I dont need that validation.

[TonyMetal___1986]

"If they do, great", i'll take this part of your answer...

[Agape93]

Lol.

[TonyMetal___1986]

If they don't, the local bear is waiting 😂👍🏻