Does he hate me now after our disagreement and silent treatment?

[Anonymous]

He is one who approached everyone and greets them or says goodbye after the disagreement we had hardly speaks and not even greet or anything I kinda been more approachable and respectful to him hinting im not upset at him but yea you think he just hates me now?

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Won’t speak to me again

[rgb008]

don't deal with anyone who does the silent treatment. it is immature and stupid. he is a grown man and can speak about his problems when he is ready. silent treatment is what kids do.

[Still-alive]

i haaate the silent treatment. i need communication badly. if they need time to process thats fine but eventually we gotta talk it through y know.

[Asker]

@Still-alive how do i resolve this bc this isn’t typical way this guy acts with anyone

[Still-alive]

i'd just leave. like rg says this a super immature tactic and should not be entertained with your engagement. its game playing to me. you don't want someone like that

[Asker]

@Still-alive but I did the same to him

[Still-alive]

you did the silent treatment on him? yeah don't do that. you either talk it out or you just aren't compatible with each others. these immature tactics don't work and just inflame things

[Asker]

@Still-alive what you mean compatible with each other?

[Still-alive]

if you can't resolve problems like mature adults via direct communication to me its bad sign you aren't compatible with each other and it likely won't work out. if you were a healthy couple you could just do that without much issue and not rely on petty games to 'teach them a lesson' or something...

[Asker]

@Still-alive the thing is we ain’t couple we coworkers

[Still-alive]

welp i suggest dating other people. you two don't sound like you're compatible as i said

[Asker]

@Still-alive well clearly his married

[Still-alive]

He’s married? Lol cmon what’re you doing?

[rgb008]

Girl…he’s married 😭 why are you even asking this

[Asker]

Bc we work together

[rgb008]

Who cares? Everyone has married coworkers. Either control yourself or get a remote job. You’re a walking HR case lmfao

[Still-alive]

keep your distance from him and keep it professional. Probably would be great if you put all this extra context in your initial post by the way

[Asker]

@Still-alive what you trying to say here?

[Asker]

Walking hr case?

[Still-alive]

Keep it professional. Don’t get into or start unnecessary drama with him.

[Asker]

@Still-alive this isn’t the first time by the way

[HollyK21]

Who cares? More drama for you and your pick me “friend”.

[HollyK21]

Go ahead and delete the comment lol I’ll just say something next time. Weird BS deserves to be called out.

[Anonymous]

There is not nearly enough information here to give you a good answer.

[Asker]

We had on and off situations

[msc545]

Sounds like you basically ruined this relationship. Congratulations.

[Asker]

Wym ruined?

[msc545]

Which part of the word" ruined" are you having difficulty understanding?

[Anonymous]

He is afraid of conflict

[Asker]

I was calling him tho