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There is only one particular bully (female) I truly dislike so much. Honestly if I ever bump into her and she tried greeting me, I imagine saying '' You manipulative, fake person''.
Unlike other bullies, she elaborated things. She included prolonged manipulation into it, pretending to be my friend twice, using my former forgiving nature, calling my house twice (even go to talk to my mother on the first call and my mother was happy I was making a friend... so making fun of my mother too), writing on my yearbook ''your best friend'', etc. That sounds like an emotional sadist, not the typical bully that's straightforward mean. Plus when we were in our 20's, I heard from my friend that she really hasn't changed at all. Some people just don't change.
I don't care about the others. They were the typical mean kids that call you names and isolate you. With that girl, I feel it was a lot more than just bullying.
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It is normal for some but not healthy at all.
Good point
i was bullied by a kid that was 17 in the 9th grade. He got left back 2 or 3 times he was so stupid.
He did not com back after 9th grade but his bullying caused me to get into weight training. When I was in my 20s I wondered whatever became of this kid. Maybe I would pay him a visit after I had grown up.
I looked around online for him but was unable to find a trace of him. I figured either he was in prison or dead.
yeah if they don't show up online, that's what it means; either they're locked or died. It can also mean he set up his FB in private and doesn't want to be tracked down.
The bullies failed to ever realize the impresions they make on us years later. They don't realize we can remember them years later. I still know their first and last names lol.
I can usually find most people on line. There are a few tricks I have picked up over the years. I could not find a death certificate for him but he never got past the 9th grade so I doubt his life turned out very good.
Sounds normal to remember it still if they went further than your average bully. Still resenting them, it happens. I won’t say that is unusual but I’d hope you’re over it. I’d hope you just kinda roll your eyes when you think of them but not still actively be resenting them this many years after.
True. I've moved on in the way that in spite of all the difficulties in my life and dealing with heartbreaks, I found better people later on and I'm now happily married.
it's is common
yeah, the other bullies never went out of her ways of faking a friendship twice nor calling my house, being a phony. I consider that too elaborated for just bullying.
A bully (whether emotional or physical) usually tends to be obviously about their hostile behavior towards you an you already know they're total jerks. There is no prolonged mind games.
Nope not normal how long ago did this happen
A long while back. I guess that's my mind recognizing how toxic behavior plays out and since that was a painful memory, it makes me not ever fall for another manipulative person nor crocodile tears anymore.