Should I keep it professional or stay friends with this coworker?

[Anonymous]

We was cool I guess here and there even tho we did have disagreements here and there but he would come back making it up the other week I was working near him and I was kinda in my feelings and was just doing what I was assigned too this guy/friend comes over and says something along those lines… you’re not helping julii? She has lots of put aways I tried explains to him that I didn’t know she needed help and that I was taking care of my assigned job than minutes later he stops by again says Daniel received this much how much have you received? I was like there is one I pointed anyways after that I realized I got upset bc I didn’t wanna speak to him and weeks later he don’t speak or I usually he greets me anyways few days later he says good work today… I was like thanks… so I don't know if I should just continue how I am with him now professional only work related conversations or go back to friendship?

[Anonymous]

Friends

[Asker]

Why friends?

[Opinion Owner]

Do you really wanna date your coworker? or the president of your company?

[Asker]

Who said we dating you see how mean he was to me I wouldn’t even consider him friend

[Opinion Owner]

Let me go back and look

[Opinion Owner]

You can try again and see what happens. Do you have a crush on him

[Asker]

No seems like he do bc he always has something to say to me

[Opinion Owner]

Is that good or bad?

[Asker]

My question to u

[Opinion Owner]

It probably is maybe he’s got a crush on you and sometimes guys don’t know how to handle it so they act like they don’t like you like kids stuff

[Opinion Owner]

So it could be possible,

[Asker]

He has his moments his a married man so

[Asker]

Bc one day he will check up and act all caring the next so distsmt

[Asker]

Distant

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, that’s no good. That’s just asking for trouble and if he was that kind of a person he would just wanna have sex and have a little fun on the side. It wouldn’t be a relationship and I don’t think he would leave his wife in most cases, they wouldn’t do that.

[Asker]

Yup most definitely

[Asker]

So I don't know what’s his problem bc usually he is always so supportive and with good words my way that day I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

As long as he’s not your boss, I wouldn’t worry about it. He’s got no power over you. He’s not a supervisor is he

[Asker]

Yea but they boss look up to him bc he knows many jobs so he can say a word

[Opinion Owner]

I would not worry about this guy just do your job and take care of your business

[Asker]

Why he be like that?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he likes you I don’t know or maybe he’s bipolar

[Asker]

What does liking me gotta do with anything

[Opinion Owner]

Like I was saying earlier, some guys don’t know how to handle women so to get their attention they take the tough guy approach just so they can talk to her

[Asker]

That’s what someone else told me bc I was little distant from him that day

[Asker]

But than he be chatting to my closest friend to some days

[Opinion Owner]

But how does he talk to her professionally or trying to pick her up?

[Asker]

Work related and about his family kids

[Asker]

He don’t do that to me

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know exactly what he wants with you, but what do you want with him?

[Asker]

Looks like he wants my friend now

[Opinion Owner]

What does your friend want? Does she say anything?

[Asker]

No says his professional and work friendly to her

[Opinion Owner]

A little bit confused does he like her or not or is it professional?

[Asker]

I don’t all I’m saying is lately he been chatting to her comfortably

[Asker]

She says it’s a lot of work related but she can be hiding

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you’re not gonna fight with your friend over This guy it sounds like you’re interested in him.

[Asker]

No I’m not…. Just don’t understand why he did me like that

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know some people are players and wanna have sex. That’s not good.

[Anonymous]

Stop asking