We went back to their place, played video games. Drank more. Well, Reynold and I ended up in his bed. At this time he knew I had an office crush on him. And well one thing lead to another and we had sex. We were both extremely drunk so it's all a bit blurry.
Well by that Sunday he talked to me about it and let me know he wasn't interested in any kind of a relationship. I thought he meant friends also so I was hurt a lot. I told him I'm fine with not being friends. He stated that no he still wanted to be friends. The next day at work was a bit weird, I ended up feeling guilty and told him that I would stay friends. I even went the next weekend to have fun to show I can be friends. He even turned down sex because of professionalism but wanted to stay drinking buddies.
Since then he's been ignoring me a lot, even work-related. Not really talking to me the way he used to. I have decided to move on and I'm not even going to bother anymore. He makes me feel so insecure.
But wtf? I feel like he's messing with me on purpose now. I feel like I am making the right decision by keeping my distance from him. I'm just confused about why the hot and cold.
Am I missing something or am I making the right decision by distancing myself personally from him? I'll be fine professionally, I don't think he would bring it up at work because there's a promotion he wants and I'm the same way too. I wouldn't bring it up.