Should I tell my boyfriend that one of his friends grabbed my butt?

[vaestrada2]

I went clubbing with my boyfriend and his friends over the weekend. Well guys, being guys they were grabbing each others butts because I guess they think it's funny. lol Anyway, I was standing next to my boyfriend at the bar waiting for our drinks when I felt someone grab my butt. I turned around and it was one of his friends and some girl that another one of his friends is seeing. He pointed at her and she shook her head no and saying that she didn't do it. (It was the first time I had met her) and then he proceeded to laugh and say, "If your boyfriend is gonna grab mine, I'm going to grab yours."

It was really awkward and I didn't even know what to say and my boyfriend didn't even realize what had happened.

I decided not to say anything there, because I didn't want things to get bad, but I want to let my boyfriend know because his friend should not be touching my butt, especially because I've NEVER given him any reason to think this is ok.

Should I tell my boyfriend?

[kyshy23]

If it makes you feel better tell him. But if you know it was a joke, and he's not gonna do anything else just leave it alone. However if anything like that comes up again, you should then let your boyfriend know.

[Butt3rcups]

I would let him know it happend. I. would tell him that his friend thought it was funny and you didn't want it to happen but remember. Its not what you tell him it how you tell him.

[vaestrada2]

I've been trying to figure out how I'm going to tell him, because you're right, it does depend on how you bring it up.

[Deft_maiden]

No. Leave alone. He could have been drunk or whatever. But he does something like that again tell him off yourself then tell your bf.

[mystix]

this weird behavior all the times my friends pretend to hump my vehicle and make gay poses beside it. If they ever tried to grab mine id kick theirs lol.

[vaestrada2]

It is! I don't understand it at all.

[michael0314]

what good will come of telling him? settle it yourself

[vaestrada2]

I would agree with you completely, except that I know that other girl saw, and I don't want my boyfriend to find out without me telling him first.

[michael0314]

at which time you tell him you handled it yourself. further occurrences are a different matter. he's your boyfriend, he doesn't own you. it's your body, your personal space and you select who you allow into this sphere, your boyfriend included. never forget that.

[vaestrada2]

Very true.

[Prof_Don]

If I was your bf...i would want to know that one of my friends is disrespecting my girlfriend. Tell him (in private).

[KingsOfleon88]

What a douchebag

[foolycooly1001]

yes

[Konnour]

Tell it.

[Anonymous]

You should tell the dude