Is it okay to let my guy best friend to touch my butt?

[noalevi]

is it okay if i let my guy best friend to touch my butt
like i dont feel like its a big deal but lots of people make it and i dont want him to think im a slut or anything
i wouldn't let any other guy touch my butt but he is my very close friend and 1. i dont mind 2. i dont want to make things awkward

i asked my friend and she said to not let him (espeicily because he likes me) and because i have a big butt and it can make him...

[D_Bone_Steak]

Oh... just a guy friend huh?

Yeah right. I think there's a much better chance that your guy friend has just been pretending to be your friend to get some of your butt. Probably because he feared outright rejection, so he's found a less direct method of coaxing your acceptance of him. I see it's progressed to touching... so, is he flirting with you yet? I'd bet money that he's let you know he wants a girl like you right? Or if you have a boyfriend, he's done the "I would treat you better like such and such" or the you deserve better line right?

I could keep going with a list, because these guys are a dime'a'dozen. You like the attention... he likes the idea of getting closer to getten dat azz. It is what it is, I just wished you ladies would actually stop thinking these thirsty dudes are "just a friend" or "just a nice guy," just because you like the attention.

Doubt me... offer him a bj or some sex and watch how fast he'll take you up on that offer.

[OlderAndWiser]

Would it be okay if your father or mother was present?

[noalevi]

what do you mean?

[OlderAndWiser]

Would you allow him to do it if your mother or father was present and watching you two?

[noalevi]

well obviously no
but i wouldn't have sex if my parents were watching even if i was married..

[OlderAndWiser]

So you want the thing with your friend to be sexual?

[noalevi]

god noo

[OlderAndWiser]

Then why wouldn't you want your father or mother to witness his caresses? Why would they disapprove?

[noalevi]

cuz im not supposed to see him

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Why is it that you are not supposed to see him? How old is he?

2. Most guys will assume that if you allow them to touch your butt, you will allow them to touch you elsewhere. You don't want any physical relationship with him, so you are sending the wrong signal to this guy.

[noalevi]

1. my parents think he is a trouble maker
2. i always tell him that we r just friends (not in those exact words but he gets the idea)

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you feel the butt of your friends when you are with them?

[noalevi]

yh all the time and they touch mine but with my girl best friends so now that my guy best friend does it i dont really know if its okay or not

[OlderAndWiser]

Your parents think that he is a troublemaker. They are probably right. You are inviting trouble if you allow him to touch you in any intimate places.

[traegirl]

do you kinda like it?

[hellionthesagereborn]

No, its not. Why does that have to be asked? That's intimate touching so if your letting your guys best friend do that your saying your sexually interested in that guy. So no, that's inappropriate and will make the guy think your interested in him and your boyfriend to think that your cheating on him.

[CuChullan]

If you like that attention from him, whats the problem.
Women's butts are so special.

[noalevi]

it doesn't do anything for me i just dont know what it makes him think if i let him touch me like that

[CuChullan]

If you're not comfortable with it, you must make that clear to him. Some guys use friendship to take liberties.

[TheBigSoftie]

I have a couple things to say on this subject.
1. Allow him to do that
2. Can I be your guy best friend?

[ButterflyLove2]

LOL!!!

[Sam870]

If you too are mature enough to respect each others boundaries and you don't mind then why not! So what people think. If on the other hand its mis leading and or felt like disrespect on either of you then kill that shit. I wish I had a big female butt I could touch right now

[jon28805]

My opinion is that if your guy friend likes you then I don't think you should let him touch you like that unless you like him too. It will be very frustrating for him.

[TripleAce]

Whatever lol. Whstever feels comfortable for you
It seems like you kinda want him too. So sure

[JellyDonutguy96]

but still others might disapprove of it,

adults and other staff

[noalevi]

i dont want to date him im good where we r and it also doesn't bother me if he touches me like that cuz we r just friends
but should i tell him to stop?

[JellyDonutguy96]

yes tell him

It wouldn't be appropriate if I wanted to touch my female friend's breasts

it's not appropriate if they want to touch your butt,
it's still a sensual body part

[noalevi]

@JellyDonutguy96
will it make things awkward because i really like being with him especially because im a girl and none of my friends play x box so he is the only guy i can play it with

[JellyDonutguy96]

no

that's if you want to pursue a relationship with him

but if it's just as friends then yeah it is awkward

[Celtero]

It'll probably escalate from there you know... he'll want to touch other things afterward.

[noalevi]

he probably won't cuz he knows were just friends

[Celtero]

Sweetie, there isn't some magic friendship shield that will prevent boys from wanting to be sexual with you.

[winterfox10]

It's a little more intimate than most girls would get with a platonic friend, but if you're comfortable with it, and enjoy the attention; go with the flow

[scottalanmiller]

Just fine, not a big deal.

I think your friend is being petty and jealous.

[worldscolide]

yeah not cool it might lead him to believing that you want something more than friendship, i know it would me.

[Wise4myage]

If you feel ok with it, then go for it. But keep in mind he will likely want to touch you in other places.

[Albin_fredriksson]

I think its a very good idea to let him touch you. You never know what happens next.

[Sam368]

You shouldn't let him do that. At least, ask him why he act like this. If he confess any interest, even if it's only sexual, you can take your decision.

[Scarecrow13]

It really depends and is up to you. It appears that you don't mind.

[noperoo]

Not a good idea there is only one reason he would do that

[jacquesvol]

Keep it private and avoid sex.

[noalevi]

lol we won't have sex for sure

[Hunterb]

Just don’t have a kid in highschool

[noalevi]

i won't lol

[Stephanaoff]

No, except you like him too

[your_ego]

it's okay

[JellyDonutguy96]

no

it's wrong