Should I tell my boyfriend that his friend squeezed my ass?

[Anonymous]

He was drunk but I don’t know whether to mention it to him when he wakes up.

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He played it off as it was a joke and others saw

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But he once told my boyfriend that he’s only interested in girls with boyfriends

[Ripper_E]

It would be better if his friend tells him, so you should tell his friend if he doesn't 'fess up, you will.
You didn't do anything, but I would want to know if my friend did something to my girl, drunk or not.

[pumaOH24]

Nope.. I wouldn’t tell on him. If he does it again when he isn’t drunk then you probably should. Take the drunk squeeze as a compliment and move on.

[AmourHoney]

It’s not a compliment though.

[pumaOH24]

What was his reason for squeezing your ass then?
Does he only do stuff like that to women who have boyfriends and not to ones that don’t?

[AmourHoney]

What gave him the right to do it? Touching someone like that without consent isn’t cute nor a compliment, it’s harassment. Especially if the person already has a partner.

[pumaOH24]

🤔
I’m sure his judgment was quite cloudy when he was drunk. I wasn’t there so I don’t know in what way he meant the joke squeeze to be.
I can tell that you didn’t appreciate him doing it whether he was drunk or not.
Did he do the squeeze just to do it or was it because he was attracted to you even though you were taken?

[AmourHoney]

I’m not the author of the post, so I can’t answer that.

[Asker]

I don’t know, but I always thought he was flirting with me when we first moved here, he’d ask me what I like to do in my spare time and what music I like and once I caught him peeping through a fence which I did tell my boyfriend so he brought it up with him and the guy just said he was looking to see who was there but he was already peeping when I turned around and didn’t say anything to me until I saw him

[pumaOH24]

Compliment probably wasn’t the right word but I couldn’t think of another way of putting it. If I was on the receiving end of a squeeze from a drunk woman that I knew at a party I wouldn’t be mad. I would take it for what it was at that moment and carry on.
Now if it was something that they did every time they were drunk then that’s different.
It would be more of an annoyance instead.

[Asker]

He also slowed danced with me but as a joke as my boyfriend wouldn’t and it was for like thirty seconds, which was before the ass grab

[pumaOH24]

If it was during the dance, then I guess he saw an opening to show you his “interest “ in you.

[Asker]

Nah it was after

[jennifer_bloom]

You should definitely tell him - if you don't and he finds out from others - he might think you condoned what happened to him - and he might distrust other males in your life

[NicolaD]

Put it down to a drunken error, hopefully your boyfriends friend will be as embarrassed about the whole affair as you obviously are.

[truthbeknown]

I would tell him more for the sakes of not keeping secrets and not necessarily because you are looking for trouble against his friend.

[Oram52]

Tell your boyfriend immediately. Not acceptable regardless not to mention it might get worse or your boyfriend might not be happy finding out what happened from someone else.

[Ayer93]

Tell your boyfriend. If his "friend" can go so far to grab your ass, given the opportunity I'm sure he'd go further and that is definitely someone you know has no respect for you.

[chriscdi]

Id say mention it to the guy that did it and if he has no apologies or remorse or at least a tad or embarrassment or regretfulness then you tell your boyfriend

[genericname85]

i'd say let it slide once but if it happens again, tell your boyfriend to do something about it.

[genericname85]

no actually you should try to speak to the guy directly fist. tell him you're not ok with it. if people missbehave, you gotta give them the chance to correct their behavior.

[Anonymous]

ass is ok if he squeezed my boobs or something i'd tell my boyfriend

[SentientBrick]

Yes, you should. MAJOR VIOLATION OF BRO CODE!

[SentientBrick]

Also he sounds like a sleazy douche bag who's continued existice is a blight apon all sentient life Or something... Lol

[Asker]

How do I tell him? He’s currently at work with him right now and won’t be home for another four hours

[SentientBrick]

Tell him when he gets home from work. Let him get settled then say you have something you need to talk about. Sit down with him and tell him what happened EXACTLY and then how it made you feel.

[JosyJosy]

I'd talk to the friend first

[2shredded]

Nah just tell him not to do it again

[Pauliho]

Tell him. Sounds like a disloyal mate to me

[sunofdavis]

Yes if you're a loyal girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Yeah tell him. Dont put up with that crap.

[nekochan07]

You should.

[reptocarl]

I’d like to know

[ChocolateCheesecake]

Obviously