Guy kissed me and I pushed him off. Will my boyfriend be mad?

[Anonymous]

Ok I desperately need advice!

I'm at home in Seattle for winter break, my boyfriend is in LA. I went out with high school friends to a bar the other night, and one of my guy friends from high school kissed me. I pushed him off right away and was like, what the hell I have a boyfriend, then I left.

I feel like I didn't do anything wrong, it's not like I kissed him, and I pushed him off right away. But I'm still terrified to tell my boyfriend.

What do I do? Guys, if your girlfriend told you this happened, would you be mad at her even though it wasn't her fault?

[nframbach]

If your boyfriend hangs out with your friends than tell him exactly what happened and leave nothing out so that way if somebody else tells him but you hadn't yet than he may get suspicous and think maybe you went out to the bar to cheat..(That would be my suspicion)

But on the other hand, lets just say its the opposite and there's no way in hell that your boyfriend would ever know this happened and your absolutely sure he would ever know. Than you did the right thing and keep it a secret.

As for your other ?, I would be annoyed that somebody tried to pick up my girl like that and would like to kick his ass and send him to the hospital if I ever met him. But another side of me would be a bit flattered that I have a real catch.. But as secure as I am, I would also wonder what she was doing at a bar cause neither of us ever goes out drinking, she even says she hates going to bars

[MuirnBeathaDan]

Honestly if he gets mad about it he is jealous and mistrusting and you may want to spend your time with some one more understanding.

[Anonymous]

Frankly, if you boyfriend has a problem with it then he's an idiot and you can do better.

Clearly you were loyal to him.. More so because you're so worried about it hurting his feelings. You did absolutely nothing wrong, some dude just got the wrong impression.

You probably should tell him though, purely because, if he hears it from someone else he'll get suspicious about why you didn't mention it and then think it was something more than it was.

Just tell him straight.. If anything, he should be annoyed at the guy, not you.

[CrystalMinds]

Depends on how jealous your boyfriend is. If he's quite chill then tell him. If you don't tell him, he might hear it from someone who knows about the kiss and he'll be upset you didn't tell him.

Best thing is to tell him. You didn't do anything wrong, you pushed him away and your boyfriend deserves to know. He may be upset for a while, I mean, who likes to hear someone kissed their partner? Not a lot of people... But he should appreciate your honesty.

[Loools]

He'd probably be mad at the guy, not you. You should tell him, he'll appreciate the honesty, and if he hears it from anyone else after he hears it from you, he won't suspect you of doing anything wrong (like cheating or something).

[iwish46]

If my girlfriend reacted the way you did I wouldn't be mad at her. It's not like you could have controlled what happened.

[Anonymous]

Every woman is entitled to a secret or two lol this can be one of those times or you can tell him. I only say this, because it was a kiss that you pushed off. If it were more I would tell him.

[Yellowsmurf]

I'd be way mad at the dude and probably ask her to keep away from him. If she was honest about it I wouldn't be mad at her, that'd be unfair.

[benos4752]

I'd be mad at the guy, not my girlfriend.