What bothers me most about this is that in the comments you're trying to excuse your way out of this because "you're just a woman", as though it is only natural that because women are emotionally built the way they are, it is excusable to allow a guy to continue to kiss you and even return the kiss, despite the fact you're committed to another. Using that logic, a guy can force himself upon a girl "because he's a man and think about the temptations men feel around pretty women, any man would do the same" etc. That is NOT excusable. When you're in a relationship you are agreeing to your significant other that you are not going to give in to your primal urges to find love/sex/affection/pleasure from anyone beside them.
Yes you should tell your boyfriend about it. A relationship built on lies is nothing but a lie itself.
If you are around the guy in question and he is not taking no fir an answer what if he takes things physically further next time? If you absolutely love your boyfriend you would not have made out with the guy. I say tell him if you are ready to loose him or you are ready to loose the guy that has been after you since you were 14. Your boyfriend will want to either break up or have you firmly do something to eject this person from your life.
People don't just go around randomly pushing people against walls and kissing them. You lead this person on. Which makes you an emotionally cheating person - which by extent makes you a horrible girlfriend. Dump the boyfriend. He deserves better.
I 'got into' the same situation years back (a woman kissing me at a party). I told my then girlfriend, who promptly broke up with me. (I had 'caught' her kissing another guy a while back.)
I told her because I wanted to be honest. Years later, she actually apologised to me.
I know I screwed up, but honesty matters to me in a relationship. If someone I was with admitted to something like that, sure I would be sad, but at the same time, I would take it as a sign of commitment that they decided to tell me about it.
I guess it all comes down to what you believe in. Which I personally think is more important than any relationship.
if this was kind of rape.. than you should report the guy.. and share with your bf.. he would understand you..
if this was a moment which you wanted too and actually you made some moves like inviting him.. this is your fault and there will be a second round probably.. you should share with your bf but probably he will break up with you..
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yea sure, I do think you should tell your boyfriend that some guy did that to you
BUT make not to leave out the part where only 'at first' you didn't like it and then you started making out and probably enjoyed it...
yes do tell him and let us know what happens please :D
I'm sure you flirted with him before it even started... and on top of that you had plenty of time to push him off of you. Tell your boyfriend and let him deal with this his way... if he wants to break up then so be it
And you secretly liked it. We get it. Why don't you ask the right question "Should I break up with my boyfriend?"
yeah, you should. this is a relationship problem, and he is apart of that and should know all problems and deside what to do. But I think he wil not dump you over this, but he probably would if the guy you kissed told him. Because this guy obviously has no problem doing what he want, even if it hurts other.
You never stopped it 'at first' wo I think you do need to sit and talk with your fella because you're clearly not commited to him x
So you didn't want it, then you did, then you regret wanting it, now you want to cover up the fact that you enjoyed it. Would you want to know if he kissed a girl and latter regretted it?
That is soo hot by. just imagination
im gonna try that on ma gf :)
And I dont think its a good idea to tell your bf about it
and tell that guy to stay away from u or else ull go to police
Wouldn't you want your boyfriend to tell you if he did something like that? I think it's only fair to be honest. If I did something like that, my guilt would eat me alive.
That's not right you shouldn't tell him if you dint want to hurt him... but don't do it again
Absolutely! You wouldn't want it to slip out later or find out from someone else. If he did it you'd want to know.
Well what would you do if you were in his position? if he told you that he didn't like it but continued to make out with a girl? Think about that and that should lead you to deciding what to do.
Becs use you started making out with him you fucked up... tell him and take w/e happens as a life lesson and experience.
It's rape, or well at least sexual assault. Report him
Yeah you should. Care to explain how this came about? Was it at a party or out at a club/bar?
i guess you should.
BUT... if your bf wants to smack him down stop him... YOU should be the one to smack him down!!!
Yes, you should. Tell him that you obviously didn't like it. But tell him to not get crazy. Is this a guy that he will see again?
What do u want ur bf to do?
If you tell your boyfriend tell your boyfriend you also made out with him.
Why are you so insecure? Handle it yourself.
Sure. Tell him you cheated on him. He'll be glad.
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