My boyfriend is a snitch. Now I have to tell my parents I drank/smoked ONE TIME. HELP!

[Anonymous]

My parents have always been really strict, and for no good reason at all. I've always brought home good grades, never gotten into trouble at school, ALWAYS gotten home in time for curfew. But even after respecting their rules ALL MY LIFE... They never let up on their rules. I talked to them about it, and they were not up for any reasoning whatsoever. So... I did something dumb. I thought, if they are going to be uptight and strict with me anyways... They might as well have a reason. Of course... I wouldn't tell them what I would do.

So, I decided to try drinking and smoking ONE TIME.

When I thought I was sober again... I called my bf, but he noticed something different about me. He made me tell him what was wrong... So I admitted it to him.

He was really disappointed, to say the least.

He told our youth minister at church... And now he is making me tell my parents.

They are going to FLIP OUT.

I did it ONE TIME. ONCE. It wasn't going to hurt me.

if I did it everyday... I would understand.

How should I tell my parents without them getting so worked up about everything?

I'm really angry at my boy friend... Should I forgive him?

[conchaloris]

Just be straightforward with your parents and get this over with. There´ll be some consequences, but who cares, you should feel bad about it if you hadn't partied at all.

About your boyfriend, its understandable he´s kind of upset. Apparently, you have NO experience whatsoever with alcohol. Chances of you getting drunk and kiss/have sex with some dude at the party were kinda high. So I guess its alright for him to be worried.

However, if he ALWAYS acts like your parents... that does seem like a nuisance to me.

[Reeses-pieces777]

just be calm about it. but I would have been more discreet lol I don't know in highschool, I would hang out with my girl friends who when we had a party obviously, I drank but not a lot and it's only for the occassion. but I don't often. like only a few times a year

i think it's good that your boyfriend worries about you. I wouldn't be mad about it but see what you can work out with your parents...