Am I in the sister zone?

[crazyinlove1]

so I've known this guy for about 2 years now and recently I've started to like him romantically. Since skool started we've been getting closer and I walk with him to the bus stop while he waits to get picked up. anyway today when we were walking to class he grabbed one of my binders and our arms kinda touches anyway when I got to my class he touched my shoulder and said bye, then after skool when we were walking alone one of our friends sees us and starts walking with us and as we were talking says are you two like bro/sis or dating. and my crush/friend says I'm his little sis eventhough there is a few months age diff. then our friend left and we kept on walking and he was kinda playing with me and lightly pushed me... anyway I'm confused am I sister zoned or did he just say that cause our friend was there at the time? p.s. he doesn't talk to me about other girls... and he doesn't call me bro or dude he calls me by my first name or calls me by the nickname he gave me , white girl fyi I'm kinda tan/white. please help!

[bobair]

Almost any girl can escape the "friend zone" simply by flirting or amping up the attraction.

My recommendation is this - start teasing and flirting with him a little more. Don't completely change and don't smother him... just be slightly more flirty. This includes those shy look-aways girls do. Playfully punching his arm when he teases you. And most importantly touching him more. Like playfully squeezing his arm to feel his muscles, then making him feel your girlie muscles. Or feeling his chest.

Just ask him what he thinks of your new perfume... and ask him to slowly smell it on your neck. Then smell his by sloooowly leaning in to smell his neck. That'll give him goose bumps.

Do you text? You should start texting each day just to say hi, or to meet up for drinks, etc.

Basically you need to be so inviting that he can't help but to ask you out.

You're a beautiful flower and he's the bee... make yourself available and inviting, but only to him, and he'll either get the message or perhaps he's just not interested.

You won't know where you stand until you slowly escalate things a little more.

Hope this helps?

~ Robby
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[BadGrim]

cause you friend was there at the time. you should try talking about the possibily of more then friends. it may be weird at first but, if your friends then the words won't hurt your friendship. words are just words but there a powerful tool if used right.

[orangerose]

You must continue to love her

[crazyinlove1]

huh? I'm a girl .

[cheesesteak7]

wtf incest...

[crazyinlove1]

no, were not related at all! what was meant was what is our relationship... like some people view other people as little bro's or little sis's even though they aren't related