Can you get out of the sister zone?

[Anonymous]

i think i’m falling for my guy best friend and he asked me how to break up with his girlfriend and now he hangs out with me a lot more and texts me a lot more, today he told me that i was like a sister to him and that he loved me. is there a way to get out of the sister zone?

[Zealashton]

OK first, stop all at once, invit him and his girl friend to your place, and commly disguss the situations,
and see if you guys can all talk it out, like adults. .
If he refuses to do so. Then he's not worth it. But
there is a alternative option

I have to ask is he a scum bag how many wemon has he had in his life

next call up his girl friend, and ask to meet with her at your place.
Say I would like to talk to you about something
and I want to do it in person at my place. OK, its something that I want to talk in privet about, if you don't mind. So plase and thank you
when she comes over. You tell her that you may be intrested him her boyfriend, and all the stuff.
And apoligize for the news. And ask her, would you like to make it a peligamy relation ship? I wouldn't mind. Tbh, but I would like your opinon on what he is like, if we could arrage to do such a thing
but if we do disced to do it. We need to be carfull of him will he be loyal to us or not. I don't want to be your enemy or anything, but you do like him and I like him, and I don't want to ruin that for you. By invadeing, so if you don't want to do it, I sudjest we both just dump him before we end up with a regreat that can't be fix.
Furthermore lets call him over to your place, and you can call him over to discuss the situation. And have achat about it
.
That's what I would say if I where you in your shoese.
I would then sudjest both you and his girlfriend
say things that pressure him. And qestion weather or not he can handle the responseablity of having a peligamy relation ship.

Furthermore
if he's a getto person behavure, just run. Eruapian style behaviure is more respectable.

But honnestly
I'm fin with 2 girls one guy realtion ship. But anymore then that is too much. there's lots of benefits but its hard work, it will be hell. But it will be the best thing ever if it works out.
But you and his girl friend need to come to geather discuss , and then call him over.
Cheating is wrong.
But peligamy is fin, why, cus everyone talked about it, like adults.

I may be a virgin white man in his 30s but I am more smart then the avrage person.

[Avicenna]

Boldly telling him you want more, assuming he's single. But make sure this wouldn't be a rebound situation.

[tomea1k]

Guys can be stupid Just tell him how you feel It might be hard But it's the best thing you can do For both you

[Asker]

see but we are like best friends so it might ruin our friendship

[tomea1k]

But you like him more than just a friend You won't lose Him if he is your best friend

[strongcabbage]

either he will say yes or no. if your friendship gets ruined then you probably werent friends to begin with