my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and we are in the "comfort zone". For the past 2 months I've noticed that he'd rather just stay home when he is hanging out with me. We live together.. so we basically see each other everyday. It's understandable that since he sees me everyday he has a different kind of fun when he's out with his friends. Anways.. I've been asking him out to go out to eat, catch a movie, walk at a mall, or just anything out doors.. he either replies, " I'm tired lets just stay in" or "lets invite so and so.." I haven't had a date night with him for a while and I really miss it. Just last week we went to go watch Catching Fire... I wanted it to be a date but he ended up inviting all his friends. It made me feel a bit sad because I felt like he doesn't want to spend time outside the house with me and just have a good time.. just last night I asked if we can go out to eat somewhere.. he replied "its up to you.." but with his friends he's all for it.. or even planning where to go.. he can't even plan things with me.. and its really upsetting me..
another thing is this morning I have bought tickets to EDC LV 2014.. I've been wanting to go for years now so I bought 2 tickets for him & I.. I emailed him the tickets and I did not get a thank you. the reply I got was "thats way too expensive.. the price isn't settling in well with me.. but ill go for you".. I bought these tickets because his favorite DJs will all be there and he has never been to a rave and I want him to experience it.. now I feel like I'm just dragging him with me. I talked to him again about it he just replied "im going for you.. when I went to LV for a bachelor party I couldn't even hang!" I replied "yes you did I saw pictures of you out all night... and that you can't even do with me at edc and not even a thank you that I got these tickets.."
i need someone's input on this plase
another thing is this morning I have bought tickets to EDC LV 2014.. I've been wanting to go for years now so I bought 2 tickets for him & I.. I emailed him the tickets and I did not get a thank you. the reply I got was "thats way too expensive.. the price isn't settling in well with me.. but ill go for you".. I bought these tickets because his favorite DJs will all be there and he has never been to a rave and I want him to experience it.. now I feel like I'm just dragging him with me. I talked to him again about it he just replied "im going for you.. when I went to LV for a bachelor party I couldn't even hang!" I replied "yes you did I saw pictures of you out all night... and that you can't even do with me at edc and not even a thank you that I got these tickets.."
i need someone's input on this plase
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