Polls: Family & Friends

I’ll take the spanking for $200 please. Lol it was quick and to the point. Get spanked and i know not to fck up again. Sometimes my mom would send me outside to play when i got in trouble. I literally begged to be put in timeout. 😭 I didn't want to go outside where the bugs and animals and wind was. Like how could you do this til little ole meee? 🥺 But Had i gotten grounded, I’d lose my phone or something. Now that folks, is some real pain in the azz haha. 🤣 I’ll unlikely spank my kids but it will certainly be a last resort if the sit down discussions dont work. And if i do ever ground the kid, I’m not gonna take the tv. Thats just savage. 😈 I’d also never send them to bed without dinner. Thats just crazy. But i’d take their cell phone and the video games cause thats the reeeaal punishment lol. 😎
#FeelFreeToList #FaceTheConsequences

I have. It was shocking and it took me a whole to adjust. It’s so strange bc I really liked this person a lot and it still kinda freaked me out to get such an in depth letter. By expressive I don’t mean of their romantic interest per se tho including rust but mainly, I just mean expressive like being very in depth and open and well expressive of their thoughts their views their feelings in life in general etc. it makes me double think explaining stuff in letters to people who have had difficulty communicating with lol bc I’m a fairly chill person and I figure if I react badly well… 😮‍💨

my phone is sick so I have few pics to choose from this will have to do 😢
She’s a cutie tho 💕

She's my age by now (29) and her son is 13 years old. She can't forgive her mother because the lady literally kicked her out of the house when she got pregnant, told her not to ever come back, that she was a shame, that she's dead to her, forget she has a mother and other horrible things.

The lady has been trying to get her forgiveness for the past 10 years, trying to meet her grandson but she wants nothing to do with her mother. She reminds her that she's no longer her mother since, she wasn't there when she needed her the most, that she can go take a hike, that she'll never forgive her ever, etc. My friend still doesn't understand what mother kicks out a then underage child. She was 15 when telling her mother about it (and getting thrown out) and gave birth at 16.

My supervisor had a long grudge towards his HS bully, the ringleader. His bully used to punch him at times (mainly in the shoulders where no one can see any bruises), break his glasses, destroy his bike, humiliated him with his friends, shove his head on the toilet, etc.

He was terrified of that guy and then hated his guts. At some point he wished death on him. A decade later, the guy apologized but my supervisor cursed him out. Then by May 2020, his child (age 7) had an accident, had to get surgery and then a blood transfusion. The issue was his blood is a very rare type. Luckily they found a donor with his same blood type. The donor turned out to be his former bully. He helped out with some of the hospital bills too.

Both guys are now 36 year-olds and the bully was totally forgiven after that. According to my supervisor, there is no greater gift than seeing your child happy and healthy again. Now he feels bad for wishing him dead. The guys are friends by now.

Would you forgive your former bully if they save your child's life? If you know very well your child would've been dead if it weren't for them.

So my room mate texts me this..
Basically how I should be bringing up her packages for her, and like she went in my room with out asking and found an ash tray (I dont smoke in the apartment I just keep it in my room) and was pissed about that, and saying she’s been doing all the cleaning when she hasn’t been here for like two weeks.. and apartantly like I put my trash in a trash can on the street and the neighbors called her about it and wanted to call the police over it? Like I’m sorry but I feel like they can’t do that and why would they call her and not me?

I think that it exist.

Personally I have a majority of female friends, but there are thing I can't tell them because I feel uncomfortable with them.
I have a friend with whom I can talk about anything, he always tell me about his relationships and about personal stuff and I feel that I can share some stuff only with him.
Women friend sometimes can be to judgy while with male it's not like that, they judge too, but they do that in a different way, that doesn't make me feel sad or bad for something I did or said.


According to you, male-female friendship can exist? Why do you think it can or cannot exist?

JASON
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I've come to the realization you cannot be friends with everyone. Although this sounds shallow I've chosen to not associate with people who have nothing going for themselves meaning no money, no car, no career, no goals, no plans for their future, who are mentally/physically unstable, and can't take constructive criticism.

Here's why! When you're friends with people who have nothing going for themselves like the above I mentioned they tend to envy you because of your success and feel they deserve handouts.

Do guests have a right to privacy when sleeping in the spare room of someone else's house, or does the host maintain the right to enter that room whenever they like without knocking as it's their house?

My asking if this is triggered by a recent event- Last weekend my husband and I stayed over at his brother's house and we were sleeping in their guest room. I Went upstairs first, and while I was lying in the bed the brother suddenly opened the door without knocking. I Found this very impolite, as I could've been changing or something, so he should knock first. I Said this to my husband when he came to bed, but he disagrees with me. He's saying as it's the brother's home he shouldn't have to knock

What's your opinion?

So out of my friend group there’s two of us that drives meaning most of the time they depend on us for outings. I’ve been driving my car constantly for 4 months now and I now feel the pain of filling up my tank every-time. When I get a ride, I usually offer gas money. I’m not begging my friends to give me gas money but from time to time it would feel nice to get even $10.

What are your thoughts?

I am very wary of him because after my mom divorced him when I was 7 due to him being on drugs and abusing her. He stopped contacting us completely. I would hear my mom on the phone calling him, leaving him messages asking him to see us. He'd make promises then never show. Then I finally seen him again when I was 23. Then years later after that. Nothing ever consistent. Calls every once In a blue moon and barks orders like I'm a child stating ," I worry about you. As soon as you get off work go straight home."

Blah blah yet where was this concern years ago. Then he got mad at me for not wishing him a father's day. I haven't wished him a happy fathers day since I was 7. He hasn't been here. Then I addressed it he blamed my mom saying he didn't come around because she remarried after the divorce (she remarried 3 years later). And said he was homeless because of the divorce and blamed my grandma saying she was evil that's why she's dead now. But come on who would want their daughter to stay married to a man using drugs and abusing her? My mom divorced him because she said she found drugs in my stroller from him doing drugs and making deals. She said I could've gotten taken away if the police caught him.

As I told you Kayla is pissed that Karen told her business. We are all neighbors. Anywho Kayla tried to run Karen over 3 days ago 😂🤦🏾‍♀️. Now as I was leaving work yesterday I get a call from Karen all out of breath. Karen said ," me and Kayla just got into a fight!" I'm just like wtf😂🤦🏾‍♀️. She said ," as I was going up the stairs with a hand full of groceries Kayla comes down the steps knowing I'm half way up and bumps me. once kayla's at the bottom of the stairs she says, " you could've said excuse me bitch". Karen then yells ," fuck you bitch you seen me coming up. so fuck you". Then Kayla says ," fuck you , you big mouth ass old ass bitch. You ain't about dat life hoe." Then Karen says, " bitch bring your ass upstairs then since you're so big and bad." Then Kayla leaves with her boyfriend 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

(Let's pretend that you live in a country where that is legal ofc.)

So my neighbor "karen" told me something about another neighbor "kayla" such as she got a new boyfriend, a new car and that some men were stalking her. So I ran into Kayla and she started telling me what was going on I told her I know and congrats. She said ," you know already?" I said yeah you just somehow came up in Karen's conversation. She got upset and said Karen tells everything and has a big mouth. Which is true.

But anyways , I said to her well ill let Karen know that I mentioned to you that I know about your situation so it won't seem like I'm just talking about Karen behind her back. So I told Karen what I did along with Kayla reaction. She got upset and started talking smack about Kayla. But honestly Karen always has drama in her life, has a big mouth and is nosey. Anyways , I told Karen to let it go. She said well you can't tell me that because you're in the middle. I told Karen no tf I'm not cause I'm not the one who told her business so im not responsible. So anyways the girl Kayla called me I just sent her to voice-mail 🤣.

In the worst case scenario that your partner's parent (s) totally disrespected you and even directly insulted you... then they killed any possible friendship they could've had with you in the future right?

Can there ever be a true reconciliation after that (to the point you guys can really get along) or is it permanently killed? And you forever keeping them at arm's length?

My scenario is this: So I have always had a bit of a rocky relationship with my sister. In the past few months, I drove 5 hours to visit her which is also expensive. Both times, I felt she was passive aggressive towards me (not the whole time, but there was those moments) and I did not feel comfortable as a guest. I wanted to tell her, just say it to my face if you have beef with me. Do you think I should just sweep it under the rug or confront her?

My sister and Dad's (He is Deceased as you May or May not know) and Dad's side of the Family? xx