Have you ever received a very deeply expressive letter from a person you thought was sort of detached? Was it disturbing? Surprising? both? Neither?

[VIVANT]

I have. It was shocking and it took me a whole to adjust. It’s so strange bc I really liked this person a lot and it still kinda freaked me out to get such an in depth letter. By expressive I don’t mean of their romantic interest per se tho including rust but mainly, I just mean expressive like being very in depth and open and well expressive of their thoughts their views their feelings in life in general etc. it makes me double think explaining stuff in letters to people who have had difficulty communicating with lol bc I’m a fairly chill person and I figure if I react badly well… 😮‍💨

my phone is sick so I have few pics to choose from this will have to do 😢
She’s a cutie tho 💕

Yes disturbing

No not disturbing but surprising

Other neither disturbing nor surprising

[Lliam]

Some people have trouble communicating in person. I'm not bad at it. But I do find that I can express myself much more clearly when I sit down and compose something.

I actually think it's cool that the person put themself out there, took a risk, and opened up to you. It's quite an honor.

But then it puts you in the position of having to respond.

[VIVANT]

I agree with your points and, They said no need to respond but you know lol you feel obligated 😛

But it wasn’t even that part it was just reading it like… I don't know I was so confused I don't know what I was feeling exactly or why I had to feel anything —it wasn’t required… It’s like not bad but just so much it’s almost had but not really but kinda hard to digest. Like too much alcohol maybe not sure how to describe it 🧐

[Lliam]

"Too much alcohol." LMAO That's very possible.
It's like two guys getting drunk together and having a good time chatting. At some point, they get overwhelmed with sentiment and hug, saying "I love you, man!" In a perfectly platonic way, of course.

[VIVANT]

Lol yeah totally happens but no I meant reading it feels like I had too much alcohol as on alcohol can feel good but then itstoo Koch but it’s still not bad it’s just confusing 💯 I don't know what’s wrong with me 😂 no one dose is minding this 🤨😟

[Andres77]

From a guy who I thought had his life together.
He was reaching out... I ignored him.
I didn't know what to do so I avoided him completely.
I was unstable as hell.
Maybe I put on a happy enough face to hide my shyt but I didn't feel like I was in a good place to help him.
I wish I'd handled it better but I was doing a lot of fuckd up things at the time.

[VIVANT]

I understand this 100% it's rough thinking back to it but I get it. We do what what we can when we can. I hope he found other support 💙💙

[Andres77]

I hope he did too.

[zeitgeist057]

I don't think I've ever received a "deeply expressive letter" that wasn't romantic in nature, but I would love it. I love learning more about how people think and especially when it is of a deeper nature.

[VIVANT]

That is incredibly well balanced of you very nice!! 💛💛

[blondfrog]

Wow a question you asked that actually is a reflection of your life. Is today rare September day? Are you just misses rare ;P?

[VIVANT]

One of those rare instances lol ✨✨✨

[blondfrog]

Probably won't be until another Septillion years until we see another rare Viviant moment :O

[VIVANT]

lol never can tell Deirdre on of anything crazy happens to me there was that on post 😛😛

[VIVANT]

Pj *

[Tstrbrainer]

That's surprising.

By the way, that's Althea, right?

[VIVANT]

No I different bird this is a humming bird rare time they are sitting she comes to vicar near my ddsk. Ali has move down I think 😌😌 I saw him for a while I'm summer her stop by do slurps dance but I think he's off maybe I'll see him in so get during a storm ⚡💚💚

[Tstrbrainer]

Cool, what about your other bird?

[Jamie05rhs]

Was the word "rust" a typo? If so, what was it supposed to be?

[pink_and_inlove]

Not disturbing but surprising

[ChefPapiChulo]

what