Polls: Family & Friends

Here's a scenario, Brian and Jessica has two kids a girl named Emily and a boy named Johnathan. Johnny as he is called is a quieter kid and sits in room. Emily is a good kid but likes to fight (physically) with her younger brother.
Emily hits her brother badly and the parents do nothing. The other day she hit his nose open and he bleed. Still the Parents did nothing about. They didn't even say give each other a hug or nothing. No time outs no Apologise to him and give him a hug. Nothing.

Yesterday fir the first time Johnny defend by pushing her away as she wanted to hit him with a spatula. She fell and cried and Johnathan git hut with a belt.

Think I’d rather die early and live happily. Though some days I just want absolute quiet.

my mom was and still is a pretty toxic person. she divorced my dad when I was 3 and took me away from him and then decided to poisoned my head by telling me that it was his fault, that supposedly he never loved me and left me for her to raise me on her own.

I dont even know where to start on all the things she used to do to me while growing up. she used to

• take out all of her everyday stress and frustration out on me
• she used to scorn me whenever I stood up for myself
• always compared/contrast me with my cousins and kids of her friends who supposedly did things better than I did
• limit my friends
• limit my hobbies
• used to take off and leave me behind with relatives and other friends of hers

but it obviously couldnt just end there, as I got older she used to

• treat me like I always her husband
• was obligated to get a job and help out with spending (even though my stepdad made enough)
• pressure me to move out and "get out of her life" literally on a daily basis
• always looked for an excuse to pick fights with me and then acted like a victim when I would retaliate

and the list goes on. After High School I've become a toxic cunt magnet myself, in fact I have 2 older brothers who were in and out of toxic relationships as I grew up. I used to watch them go through all that hell that I promised myself that I will stay single because I dont want to be like them. but again whenever I break this promise the women I show interest or show interest in me always end up showing their true colors later on and end up repulsing to me.

till then I was always told that us humans will always be bound to attract or be attracted to people like our parents. Celebrities like Eminem are a prime example of this as well. so I was wondering should we children of toxic parents just remain single forever? is this our only antidote for peace?

Girlfriend-zone is when a friend or acquaintance, usually male, wants you to become their potential girlfriend or date you seriously.

F**k-zone is when a friend or acquaintance, usually male, wants you to sex with them, like a ONS or friends with benefits arrangement.

I always taught my daughters that they;

"never need a man without a job, that they never should expect someone to provide something they can not provide for themselves, and they should never allow themselves to become dependent on a man."

I always taught them; "That if you dependent on others to constantly make you happy, you will constantly be disappointed, true happiness comes from within."

Is this just as good advice to teach your sons as well as daughters?

https://youtu.be/4Xp4z5qlyqs

I'm going to raise my kids to be so ultra-lowkey edgy, that I will tell them some secret codes to avoid embarrassing themselves in PUBLIC. As a codeword for urination, I will demand my kids that they use Whasiostrawberries (pronounced way-zho-straw-berries). As a codeword for either defecation or vomit, I will demand my kids that they use Prafrochocolate (pronounced praa-phro-choc-let). As a codeword for the birds-'n-da-bees, I'mma tell my kids to use the word Purovanilla (pronounced peur-row-va-nilla).

What set of kids would you want?

As for me, my genetics are too horrendous to EVER conceive any children! I should be locked in prison for life or executed if I ever reproduced as that would be a crime against humanity! I wouldn't mind adopting a clever Asian baby girl though, assuming I ever had a partner to raise her with.

you know: the trash, laundry, the dishes, making the bed, etc. who in your home does the majority of these chores?