Why is this hot girl not going to prom?

[Anonymous]

She doesn’t have many friends and super quiet. she was new last year. Pretty much every guy thinks she’s hot and I’ve heard guys say they want to fuck her so I was surprised to hear she’s not going. Does she not have anyone to go with?

She doesn’t have a date

She’s going to her old school’s prom

she's probably been asked but doesn’t want to go with any one from our school

She doesn’t have a lot of friends

[Moose304]

You forgot an option. Guys are so scared of rejection they don't ask! We are talking teenagers now. However, this phenomenon can go on for years after HS. I have spoken to many ladies that will either sit at home alone or go sit alone or with a girlfriend at a bar because nobody will ask them out. The average male under the age of 25 is a wuss that is so damn scared of being rejected they WILL NOT engage! If this was not so sad it would be funny. A while back I took a girl out for a "date" she was 22 and was a real hottie! Understand I am almost old enough to be her grandfather. I was in fact spending some time with her hopefully introducing her around. The night ended with a kiss on my cheek. I did finally speak to a guy that finally asked her out. They are still close and from time to time I see them. I don't know what the best solution is to this issue. Still, hot ladies sit at home more than you know because they don't get asked out! Not a single thing wrong with the female. The problem is these guys are too scared to ask!

[exitseven]

All the guys assume she already has a date or else she would just turn them down. The urban legend goes that some really hot girls do not go out much because most guys don;t think they would have a chance. There was a girl who was i my homeroom in high school. I thought she was the hottest girl in the school. She was not a cheerleader or one of the popular kids. I really don't know who she hung out with. I tried to talk to her a couple of times but never got anywhere. I assumed she was going out with an older guy. Later I met a guy who lived next door to her. He told me that most of the time she just stayed home on the weekends

[Asker]

Maybe just you thought she was hot…

[Moose304]

This is not an urban legend. It is a fact! What makes this so sad is on its face it looks like a dig against women when stated. IT'S NOT! Generally speaking, it is on the men. I don't understand fully why, but this dynamic always reminds me of this song!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rM3rJUDhcjs

[exitseven]

Maybe, she was not one of the girls all the guys used to drool over. She just had something about her that I found very attractive.

[LaureenVO]

I think that she is just shy or scared. I also wouldn't go to prom if I didn't really had any friends. Why would you go on your own?

[Asker]

But why not if you have a date?

[uwu_princess]

Why the hell you ask random people? We don't know this girl irl. Maybe you should just ask her? Not us? 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

I feel like she might think I’m interested in her if I ask and it would be awkward if she said she didn’t have a date

[Flower7]

No date, most likely. Probably, no one has asked her.

[Asker]

Really? I feel like that’s the least probable

[NamerOfStars]

How would WE know? We're just a bunch of internet weirdos. Have you tried asking HER?

[Asker]

I feel weird asking her. She might think I like her

[NamerOfStars]

And you don't? This is just pure curiosity on your part?

[Gwenhwyfar]

I voted C

[CloudMassacre]

Prom is overrated