Guys...I kissed my prom date... he is my friend and it looks like he doesn't care.. why?

[Anonymous]

so I've known this guy for a while, like 2 years now...we've been good friends, not best friends but good ones and I always liked him I thought he was hot and I still like him we share a lot of interests in music... etc but I never liked him that much to start flirting and make him like me too, I only thought he was hot so I decided to invite him to my prom because he was my friend and he was hot so I asked him and he said yes.. we had so much fun in prom we danced! we sang... but at the end in the afterprom we started kissing.. and then it became french and we kissed a lot... and I touched him.. he never touched me because I didn't let him but he was like shirtless so I was the one touching him and he only touched my back so then after a while I stopped him and told him it was enough that if we were alone more time something could happen and I was laughing but all night he was very sweet he was all the time like.. you're beautiful etc etc.. and the next day he said me that how was I and how went all my after drunk because he was feeling really bad and that he had puked... etc but we never mentioned all the kissing I don't know why... and after a week I mentioned it but it was like really late that night and through Facebook chat :s so he told me that he remembered only like flashbacks and few things but that he was not going to tell anyone so I didn't have to worry but some people saw us but we left that pending conversation cause we were sleeping... and another week has passed and we've chatting but he never shows it up and neither do I but I have never stopped thinking about that night and I'm starting to like him A LOT so why is he like that? does he feel embarrassed o does he regrets it? or what? and I feel like we're coming to our friend's zone before that night but I don't want to because I like him, yesterday he told me his familiar issues with his dad and stuff so I know at least he likes me as a friend... I know I sound like a slut but at least I want it to happen again...lol well guys what in hell is crossing his mind? and how should I react? and girls have you been through this situation? help I like him so much... but I'm not like over him.. I'm very proud and on the opposite I've been like cold with him too... not that he thinks I regret but not like hey how you been doing? I miss u... haha NOT so please help...

[egrabowski]

He may also be embarrassed because he thinks that maybe he was the one that came on too strong because he had too much to drink. I would suggest trying to put the two of you in situations where your together as friends (like you have been) but maybe do little things (like grab his hand or push him in a playful way) to let him know that your not upset or embarrassed and maybe some of the barrier that's some between you will come down and you can start talking about how you feel

[Asker]

Thank youuu that may bee the explanation cus he said me thet he was embarassed a little but I reacted wrong I said I was too... but ill stop that awkwardness =)

[Eamzy]

I'm pretty sure he only likes you as a mate. The problem with girls and guys is that guys usually find it is weird if they get off with someone they have known for a while but usually girls prefer to get to know the person a lot before making that kind of move. It sucks...

[Asker]

Really?? but is there anyyy chance he won't see me as other than friends? why does he kept saying he liked me and that I was beautiful that I looked gorgeous? did he only want to kiss me cus he was horny and that was all? I considered that and I felt like used but I reconsidered and told myself that he didn't do anything cus I was there too... and I perfectly knew what I was doing but wtf!! he end up feeling nothing and me all messed up lol... sucks

[Eamzy]

He was drunk so I would imagine he didn't exactly mean everything he said.

[Asker]

Damn... anywayy thanks

[rocksongwriter]

"and I touched him.. he never touched me because I didn't let him"

So why was it fine for you to touch him, but not fine for him to touch you?

[Asker]

I touch him likeee on his bare chest and bare back obviously it wasn't the same as my bare chest and bare back lol...

[rocksongwriter]

Why were his chest & back bare? Was this some sort of nude after-prom party?

[Asker]

Lol!! not!! he unbuttoned his shirt... he was horny idk... and we were alone and far