Polls: Family & Friends

I know he's out of my league and we would look like that ugly girl and handsome guy couple. It looks like he could wash all the ugliness out of my future babies <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

My friend has two younger sisters who are are 9 and 11 and wear sports bras and short shorts and dance sexually on musically. They are literally stick figures! Some of the songs are old Eminem songs, old 50 cent songs, outkast, magic stick by little Kim and 50 cent, how many licks by little Kim, oochie Wally by Nas, Whatsyour fantasy by ludacris, move bitch just all these old dirty rap songs. The mom knows that they do it and doesn’t care and neither does the dad. The funnier thing is they are white girls and live in rural areas and the parents listen to country music not rap! I think there’s something wrong with it. First off they are so young and shouldn’t be dressing like that, dancing innapropriate or listening to those songs or thinking they are sexy!!! The parents are fine with them doing it too, like wtf if I did that when I was their age my ass would be grass! I’m only 16 too.

I really like these names as they sound sofisticated and timeless for me. It's a strong name with roots in royalty. Both names are latinate forms of Elizabeth, the only difference being Isabella (double L) is Italian and Isabela is Portuguese/Romanian.

They sound the same, but Isabella is way more common. I think I prefer Isabela because it has fewer letters so it looks cleaner. At the same time I feel like my kid is gonna have to correct people on her name's writing forever. Thoughts?

I love my parents so much, but I'm not what they wanted and it's breaking my heart and holding me back. They've spent so much money on me, sent me to college, helped me move from various apartments, had me over for dinner countless times, they tell me they love me... and yet my mom told me a couple months ago that I should never have kids because they're nothing but a big disappointment, and they favor my older brother despite the fact that he treats me like absolute dirt. They always side with him. He just got married last week and I gave him several hundred dollars as a gift, and he never even bothered to text me to say thank you. When I told my mom, she said that I was being catty and self absorbed and making everything about me. That's just one small example of what I've had to deal with my entire life. He visibly ignores right in front of them, and they say nothing about his behavior.

They knock down everything I do. I make a living wage as a receptionist and pay my own apartment rent and am ENTIReLY financially independent from them, and yet they still tell me my job is a disappointment. Recently I've started making a little extra cash on freelance writing and they can't even begin to act like they're happy for me, even though they know I've always dreamt of being a writer.

I'm just wondering if I should just stop speaking to them. I love them and I'm crying as I write this, because it would break my heart but I can't keep seeking their approval and continuously falling short. I can't keep being the least favorite child, second to a narcissist.

do you think I should stop talking to them?

i've been having sex with my boyfriend (who is also 15) for months now, always using protection. I promised my mother that I would tell her whenever i started having sex but I obviously didn't and I feel really bad for that. Should I tell her that I am not virgin anymore? don't know if she will tell dad but I really fear his reaction. what should i do?

White women seem more tolerant when it comes to different ethnicities. I just noticed this. Of course not every white male is racist but it seems they are less tolerant to other ethnicities.