I live with my dad and only see my mom a few times a year. My 13 year old sister and her 14 year old boyfriend are having sex. She posted videos of them doing it (the sound and her moaning) when my mom wasn’t home. She posted that she thinks she might be pregnant and skipping school and all of this crazy shit. I am on a fake account and screenshotted her (she has no idea it’s me and will add anybody). I censored out her face because she’s a minor. Like I seriously don’t think her mom has any clue and I don’t think it’s my place to say anything but she’s 13. She’s also a huge smartass and has a nasty attitude with everyone and thinks she knows everything. I don’t know what to do? Send my mom a text with these screenshots or leave it alone?
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Should I tell my mom that my 13 year old half sister is having sex behind her back? I’m not really on good terms with her?
Wow. Ok after reading the comments and everything. I hate to say this about a 13 year old but damn she has a terrible spoiled brat entitled rude attitude. Like very very bratty and mean attitude. And the fact that your mother stands with her no matter what she does and gets all pissed off and lashes out on anyone who says anything negative about her. Well there's why bitch girl is she’s the way she is. That’s not how you treat people. It’s actually disgusting how much she has her mom wrapped around her finger. There’s no point in saying anything because it will turn back on you and her mother will never believe it. IF she is pregnant then her mother will just have to find out the hard way because no matter what anybody says she won’t believe it. Your mother and sister are truly fucked up individuals and need a serious wake up call. Save your time and effort because there’s no convincing that mother. That 13 year old needs to go on the show worlds strictest parents and be sent off to live with someone who knows how to be a parent.
This child is 13 years old and most importantly your sister. Despite the troubles you two have had ( I'm pretty sure you love her or you wouldn't be concerned like this) she will always be your sister before anything else and I don't know if others do this but my sisters and I have vowed to always look after and protect each other no matter what terms we're on because at the end of the day we still love each other. She may be pissed at you now if you tell your mother but she also may thank you later. Sometimes you have to come off looking like the bad guy but if that is what keeps the person you love out of trouble or harm's way then so be it. You have every right to say something. If you don't who will? I wish there was someone that could've told my mom what kind of crap I was doing at 13 but no one cared that much. Be the sister that cares that much.
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Well it seems like she knows the consequences of having sex at her age and still went ahead and did it. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon in this day and age for kids as young as 11-13 to be sexually active. My mom is a middle school counselor and she hears all kinds of things like this and the principal gets involved and it’s crazy. I would send it to your mom and see what she has to say, if she wants to start fights and stuff then be like sorry I told you I thought you would wanna know what your 13 year old daughter is doing apparently I was wrong. Never again. Or you could let it be it’s own surprise when she ends up pregnant and IT WILL show.
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After reading the comments - I think it’s better to keep your mouth shut. Your mom won’t believe you no matter what evidence you give because your 13 year old sister can do no wrong. Your mom doesn’t care what she does wrong and won’t live up to the realization of the shit her daughters doing. Also your 13 year old sister is a major bitch. She needs a serious attitude adjustment. She has serious underlying mental problems. It’s not normal for someone to be that hostile, nasty and vindictive to someone trying to help them
Yeah I’m kinda leaning towards letting it be it’s own surprise. When I caught her (with videos and pictures from Snapchat) underaged drinking and sent it to my mom, my mom defended her! My sister said it was photoshopped and I am lying about her doing any of this because I don’t like her and I made a fake account for her and all this shit and the sad thing is my mom actually believed it and kicked me out of her house and told me to get off her property or she’s calling the cops and I’m not welcomed at her house. I had to go to the cudelsac of the street and call my dad and wait for him to pick me up and this happened in October
My mom also threatening to press charges against me if I made another fake account of my sister making people believe she’s underaged drinking and what the hell is wrong with you. “ Are you fucking kidding me? GOD she’s aggravating!!!
Yeah go time. Tell it. Don't wait. It's unsafe, someone's going to get hurt real bad, involve the adult and make the calls to make sure your sister will be okay. Honestly as a sister myself I go beast mode and I would have told on her ass, gone after the boyfriend to tell him if they hook up again I will call the police because she is a minor, sat down with her and had a talk with her about the dangers of what she is doing, and made all the calls to end that B. S. going on online even if I had to break her phone and hack her accounts. Not. On. My. Watch.
Oh gosh, have her take it down IMMEDIATELY! In many jurisdictions, posting the video of underage sex constitutes as child porn!
If this is discoverers by the police (and/or any adults legally obligated to report it to them, like school personnel), she’s going to jail for creating, possessing, and distributing. She’ll also be on the national sex offenders’ registry for life! She has REALLY messed up the situation.
No importance how you do it, by alerting your mom or by taking her to the obgyn, but she NEEDS to get on BC asap.
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Well it appears that the mom doesn’t give a shit about what her daughter does, I mean how blind can you be to what your 13 year old does? And it’s bullshit that anybody who confronts her about the 13 year old is the bad guy! You’ve gotta be kidding me!! The boys parents should be ashamed and beat his ass. Her snapchats are just petty and bitchy. You are 13, you know NOTHING and neither does your boyfriend. Don’t like getting backlash don’t put this out on the internet! It’s not OK, period. I would leave it alone and let the mom get a taste of her own medicine because her precious 13 year old daughter can never do wrong
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God what the hell is wrong with kids today? And before you attack me, NOT all kids are like this but a lot are. Tide pod challenges, no coping skills to adversity, mental health increasing, swearing to anybody and everybody, no respect for anyone not even themselves, posting literally everything on social media, school shootings for no reason, KIDS having sex, KIDS getting pregnant, young adults acting like children and not knowing how to be an adult with anything, KIDS And young teens looking way older than they are and dressing older than they are, I mean the list can go on.
The real question is -- "Why doesn't she talk to you, or your mum about it but instead has to turn to social media posts (not even PM's)"?
She clearly doesn't feel comfortable talking to anyone she knows in confidence, and that's a much bigger issue.
That said a) lmao she didn't use no condom she lyin', b) might not even be pregnant, c) sexual activity with someone her age is perfectly healthy for a lot of people.
So tldr you're dumb and posting about how your whole family is failing her, and then you're doing the exact same shit you're mad at her for by asking social media instead. Doubly, you then go on to share said "objectionable" content (she actually seems quite well adjusted for her age) in full, breaching her very limited confidence on one of the shittest Yahoo Answers! style sites on the internet.
I say talk to your sister make sure she’s safe and USING PROTECTION, and that she’s mentally stable for this, I’m 15 I’m not ready, she may not know what she’s getting into, as long as she’s safe that’s all that matters right?
If I put myself in the position of the kid having sex it’s hard to tell the parent (they freak out over a kiss) you know how this age feels better than them, guide her and if she doesn’t accept at least make sure she’s being safe
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She won't talk to me. She tells me to fuck off anytime I try and help her and screams at me and then my mom yells at me to get out of her house because I’m being mean to her when I was only trying to help her and if I call her she hangs up and she never responds to texts
I do support it but it’s kinda hard to get in contact with her face to face because she threatens to call the cops on me for trespassing and she won’t meet me anywhere and my mom gets all defensive over anything she does wrong and I’m the bad guy and I don't know what to do. I feel like I should say something but i also feel like it’s just gonna turn on me and I’ll end up being the bad guy
To be honest if she’s doing this to you there’s no way to really stop her. She doesn’t want to be saved, and reading your other conversations the mom won’t do anything will she? If you care just be there to catch her when she gets an std or pregnant. In all honestly the kid really won’t learn much by getting lectured by a parent I know...
The mom will believe any little lie the 13 yo gives despite whatever evidence anybody gives to her, even video evidence and the mom will lash out on the person who told her and coddle the 13 yo. I’m starting to think i should stay out of it because she won’t believe me no matter what I say and it’s just gonna start another fight. 13 yo doesn’t like me for whatever reason and honestly I don’t think my mom does
I say approach her yourself and help her. she's your sister. Telling your mom will just make her embarassed and hurt her more. Just be there for her if you find that you can't do anything to help her on your own then you can tell your mom. But confront her face to face about it first. Otherwise its a huge shock for her.
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She won't talk to me. She tells me to fuck off anytime I try and help her and screams at me and stomps away and locks herself in her room. then my mom yells at me to get out of her house because I’m being mean to her when I was only trying to help her and if I call her she hangs up and she never responds to texts
Then show her the evidence. Text her on the chat to meet her cause you have something to show her and im sure she will come. And come right put and explain to her that you are her sister and that you want to help her and let her know that if she doesn't listen to you will tell your mom about everything.
She won't meet me. I’ve tried doing this before when I found out she was underaged drinking and told her to meet me at Starbucks and I wanted to talk to her and she told me that I have a better chance at seeing Jesus show up then her show up and if I come to her house expect the cops to be called for trespassing and she has 911 on speed dial. And if I contact my mom that might start another fight because every time I bring something up about my sister to her she gets all defensive even with evidence and coddles her and it’s like really and I’m the bad guy
And she won’t care that I screenshotted her stuff she’ll just say it’s fake and photoshopped to my mom and make me look like the bad guy and it will all go south on me
There is i just think you want this to bavk fire on her cause you're pissed off on her. If you really wanted to do something im sure youd find a way. And its not whatever its your sister.
I mean I'm 13 aswell and I get you at this age right now your all up in the clouds thinking that ur gonna be with that one guy forever and I tell your mother sure if I was in this place I wouldn't like it but make ur mum be Aware of what she's up to like dunno if ur from the states or UK but in the UK if ur having underage sex ur parents could be in trouble as is social services get involved making decisions to see if your mum is the appropriate adult to be in charge of kids if she don't know what your sister is up to make the good choice and tell her
I swear if everything goes well and she's punished, make sure the boyfriend's parents know and that every form of technology is taken from her. Her life will become boot camp. Hell send her to boot camp, or beat that ass into next week she's only 13 for crying out loud
Well you have a right. you're her sister and obviously you care a lot, especially if you're this concerned for her. If she was over 18 then it's her business but she could possibly be a pregnant minor. Or you could take her to a gynecologist and see if she is. If so then go to you're mother. If not then teach her the consequences and risks of being sexually active at a young age
Please tell me why you would expose such a decision to a bunch of strangers online? And you outted your 13-year-old sister to such strangers? Seriously? Her name of her snap is on there? Maybe she isn't making great decisions because she had a bad role model.
13 is waaaayyy to young and immature. Id say tell your mom. And you could even send it anonymously because she’s already bragging about it on the internet. She shouldn’t even have a boyfriend at this age
I was going to say as long as she is being safe it's not your place. But her entire behavior is disgusting. Posting a sex tape and talking about it on social media is immature and beyond disgusting.
I don't consider it snitching, it's for her own good, if she was 18 or something I would say it's not your place but she's 13 and does not need to ruin her life right now
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Of course if she fucks up it's her parents who have to deal with it so they should know what she's doing. by the way why does one of the screenshots say 2004?
She needs to know the dangers about doing this, such as pedophiles following her online and stuff, whatever you choose I’m sure you’ll make sure she’s safe. I do feel that you should tell your mum
You should tell your mom. I'm not sure but I think that having sex at the age of 13 is illegal if you live in the US. I'm totally disgusted by your half sisters action. At least she'll learn if she ends up pregnant
That's a typical person who has sex would say. Want to do the sex but hate the hex. A baby is part of your responsibility if you're pregnant. It's nature and it can't be changed by nature.
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