Polls: Family & Friends

Okay, so two gay sisters. Or two gay brothers. They act differently, but this isn't an incest thing. But more of them buttering each other up and making each other more attractive to the..."relationship customer". So that may involve some light touching, flirty selling and... this is weird af I'm sure but I have to know for a story of two siblings. I doubt this happens IRL but... what do y'all think?

My oldest is 22 but I didn't raise him. I was a teen mom. I was basically child free for years and then fell pregnant 18 years later.

Many days I looked back into my carefree peaceful and spontaneous life. Random naps, outings and most of all I did have peace and was a tiny bit happier.

And now here I am with my second child who has ADHD, ASD and ODD. And I'm miserable and wonder why I did this to myself. I always wonder would I be happier if I never had a second child or is it only because my second child has such awful fucked up and challenging behaviors.

Normal or not?

So I decided to move because my old neighbor who had her lease terminated and was facing eviction because of the hell she's caused never got evicted! Management is so fucking shitty for that! I'm the second neighbor to complain on her for the harassment and excessive loud noises and fights with her boyfriend in her household.

So she didn't get the fuck out and I left! I found a new place. The new place is in a more urban area in comparison and a little run down but doable. I intend on cleaning everything over so me and my child could feel comfortable. It would only be for 1 year.

With a low credit score, other reasons and the fact I'm breaking my lease and had to find a new apartment to avoid renewing my lease has been hard enough! I couldn't find shit and time was ticking.

So my mom TODAY threatens to fight me, calls me a hoe and piece of shit after seeing the apartment and area. Calls everyone she knows talking badly about me. This was all over the apartment and area! I decided to disconnect myself from her. She wasn't even trying to be positive or supportive or thankful I got out of the toxic and miserable previous apartment.

I don't even know what to think, it's crazy. Her reaction was as if I called her a bitch or set her house on fire or something.

Thoughts?

Personally it's annoying when women say that.

My mom had 7 kids and always took care of her appearance and worked! All my sisters did the same and so do I. in my opinion it's an excuse to be lazy.

I met my partner on a dating app back in Nov 2023. We dated long distance (7 hours) until I moved closer to his city in March. We lived together from March to June, and he proposed to me in May. We didn't have many issues. I didn't tell my family about him because I'm South Asian and he's Hispanic, so that would've caused issues (forcing me to go back home).

My school dismissed me in May, so my sister came to move me back unannounced. She told my family he had a human trafficking house because it was in a smaller town with 2 dogs and owned 3 guns. She thought he was dangerous because he showed aggressive behavior, like throwing my suitcase across the room when she was grabbing my belongings to go. But, he and I didn't want to leave, we told her that, she didn't listen, he got mad, and threw the suitcase.

My sister begged me to come home since that was her only job, and my mom wasn't doing good. We all left the next day so he could meet my family, which didn't go well because they thought he was only hyperfocused on taking me back to his house rather than respecting their wish to have a family gathering before I moved back in. I decided to stay home because I saw how my mom needed me, which made my partner mad, and he threatened to end the relationship in front of them, making my family more uncomfortable.

My mom was planning the party yesterday but isn't doing it anymore because my sister started crying again about how crazy he and his home are. He doesn't want to do the party; he's telling me to come to him and forget about them since they're only worried about their happiness and not ours.

I truly don't know what to do. I thought my stay at home would've allowed me not to choose between him and my family, and after their party, everyone could move on with life. Now, my mom is figuring out if police can arrest him since she overheard our conversation about me possibly leaving before the party. I don't want to add more stress/problems to our lives. help.

My mom’s in her early 50s and my grandparents are in their 70s. They’re all physically fine and in good shape thankfully.

As a kid, i always told my mom that I’d build her a cottage on my property to keep her close. As an adult, I told her thats absolutely no longer happening lol.

she's been a fcking demon the last 7 years. She got that attitude/behavior from my grandma and now I feel like my little sis is acting just like them. My grandpa and I continue to pray for our own sanity each day because they want to get to us so badly and drain us physically, mentally, and financially.

I told my mom she’s either getting an in home nurse when she ages up, or she’s going in a nursing home because I ain't changing shit (and I meant that literally). She got mad and talked all crazy so I told her “and this is why that pissy nursing palace will be keeping you company cause I’ll only be visiting twice a year”. Then my grandma jumped in and said “How dare you talk to her like that?” And I told her “Don’t worry, you’ll be there long before she’s sent there.” Then my mom started laughing cause she's definitely throwing her mom in there after all she put her through in childhood.

By the way, anyone going to see this new movie where she's forced to take care of her evil ass stepmother in all?#FeelFreeToList

I don’t give much of a fck what others think. But when things start to seem sketch and I’m unsure of if the flags are red then I start to care for other’s advice. Usually by then, its too late lol. But Other than that, no one can tell me much. I’m stubborn and a risk taker plus I tend to walk a path that could lead to learning the hard way. #FeelFreeToList

Me? I would. Not that I'm planning or anything, but I'm okay with it.