Polls: Family & Friends

I never wanted kids for a very long time as I have bad genetics and hereditary diseases. I was told at the age of 17 that I wouldn't make a good mother because of me loving sleep and other things. Have u ever been told something like this?

By run in i dont necessarily mean being molested or anything like that, just have you ever had experiences with people who might have been that/who were like that. like did someone ever follow, try to be alone with you, act weird around you, etc

also by kid i don't mean teen, i really mean like a kid

I ask this because I'm very biased against people who dislike kids. I instantly judge them and stop trusting what they say and start questioning their integrity. If I see any similarity between my actions/attitude and theirs, I usually question my attitude too. More than once I found something toxic in my behviour and "fixed" it, after detecting a similarity with them.

To this day, my own interospection shows me whenever I'm cynical, negative, too pessimistic, selfish, hopeless, and generally crap, I have less interest in being with kids. And being with them is always the ultimate remedy, even for suicidal thoughts.

They are bombs of joy and energy and life and hope, even when they are slightly vicious. They build and destroy carelessly, move around, DO things instead of thinking and overthinking. They are never petrified and stagnant. IF they are ever terrified of moving and playing, 8 out of 10 times it's a sign they are with an abusing motherfucker - someone who hates kids and would rather put them in cages than see them explore the world freely and break a thing or two in their way.

To me it's exciting to see them examine and break things. To them, it's the end of the world and a reason to blame and label them for the rest of their lives.

And yes, I'm aware kids can be bullies. But bullies are usually imitating some old fucker at home. They learned labelling and physical abuse somewhere.

So yeah. What say you? Do you hate kids? Why would you?

P. s. And yes, I've been with many kids and helped grow my little cousin up from age 0-3 (almost 4) and later was his math and art tutor for years. I practice what I preach.

Things have gotten ugly and I mean very ugly. I just mind my business. Anywho, I'm listed to recieve an inheritance from two of my grandparents properties along with my aunts. So the two aunts that's staying in each house are supposed to pull out a loan and pay us all (other aunts and me ) off. One "katie "aunt said she doesn't want to take from them while me and the other aunt want our money. The process is taking too long it has been a damn year. And my other aunt "Catalina " said " Jen doesn't want the money from the house she said I can keep the money ". Um no tf I didn't.

Anyways , I'm thinking of contacting the lawyer this week to make sure what she said doesn't affect my pay out. What would you do in this situation?

Which one do you currently have? Which one do you prefer?

I live with an evil doll. It's not so bad. But which of the following dolls would make the most appealing roommate if you were forced to pick? VOTE!

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I personally find them irritating.