Do you enjoy not having friends?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

We all need friends but I realized through life that not all your friends are true friends , acquaintances yes , the only true friend I want is my partner in crime , A girl that makes me her priority like I make her , because when push comes to shove having that special someone until the day you die is all that matters , friends come and go , when you choose friends over
Your partner then you are best not to be in a relationship with that person period , your partner should be your best friend , if they aren’t then you are wasting your time pretending that you are happily in a relationship or marriage with them There is a difference between good friends and toxic friends that most people have trouble understanding, a true friend is going to support your relationship with your partner and be a listening ear, and help you keep your relationship strong, a toxic friend is going
To try to pull you away from your partner
And make you feel like You are stupid to be with them , Toxic friends don’t really give a shit about you, they treat you good but get off on seeing you do stupid shit They will keep you along for the ride until they finally meet someone and then leave you in the dust , You are Best to remove any toxic friend that is trying to sabotage your relationship , they will make you think that you are being controlled by your partner when really you are being respected by your partner , Most people don’t grasp this concept and wonder why they end up single , Selfishness is the biggest relationship killer , choosing a toxic friend over Your partner is selfish

normalice · Accepted Answer

Every one else in a while I have a hankering to consume an edible with someone and giggle at the same cartoons with them, but in general I prefer the quiet and the internet's ability to allow me to select precisely when and how I interact with friends.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Many people who enjoy “not having friends” may be extremely introverted or have had too many instances of toxicity and backstabbing which can be draining. I was tired of people, in general, when I was younger.

I was bullied in middle school, a lot of people thought I was a “weirdo” who was “too sensitive” and I didn’t have any “real” friends that I could count on, but that completely changed when I entered high school. I made amazing friends, people I could trust blindly and count on when I’m feeling down.

I can’t relate to it now, because I do have fantabulous friends… but the younger me would have definitely related to it. This goes on to show how people’s opinions and mindset is just temporary and that nothing is fixed or constant.

Even friends can be temporary. Someone who is your friend today, may not be your friend day after tomorrow or 10 years from now and that’s okay.. because people come and go in our lives, but they do change and shape us into who we are and we always learn something from everybody and everything that happens in our lives.

I don’t think most people are “fakes”. Some people are toxic, but you should not associate yourself with them. There is this old adage that goes: “Choose your friends wisely” because if you choose to be in contact with toxic people, their toxicity and negativity could just corrupt your system. Some friendships don’t work out, because they may not be the right fit for each other.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Wow I didn’t know this was a ‘thing.’

Since it is a question, I don’t expect backlash. I have ditched every set of friends I ever had, from every possible place I have made them. I ghosted them on socials, on numbers, and online friends as well. It just felt like more of an “investment” to me, and less of a “benefit.” I couldn’t see myself living my whole life catering to them- presents for holidays (money out of pocket) and etc.

Due to this, I looked for “one best friend.” Never happened. Tried to find a “soul mate” best friend and that was also not matching up to my fantasies. 🙆‍♀️😂 I’m definitely content with spending most of my time living for myself, cherishing family, enjoying conversations with ANYONE (keeps me open-minded), and keeping one eye open 👁 for “affectionate” companionship. Lol

Its not always the greatest, but I do feel a lot better not being tied up to engagements or having to just “communicate” why I can’t go to those, etc.

Every group of friends I “left” I made sure to leave them with other friends, so they didn’t feel vulnerable/ lonely/ rejected. They’re better off and so am I.

Do I enjoy it? I think there’s plenty of moments when I do.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I have associates/acquaintances which is all i need... Temporary socialization... I like to spend most days doing my own thing but at least once a week being around others. people just drain me so quickly. Both mentally and physically. I just need occasional entertainment and support but anything more than that is overkill. When people ask to be friends then i honestly start to distance myself because they expect too much. They wanna talk all the time and hang out all the time. Like why we gotta label it.

lilyanony1 · Answer

I wish I had friends but I've been stabbed in the back a lot.
I was naive and got used a lot.
When some people got boyfriends with money or better prospects very quickly they started to push me away.
It's rubbish really especially when I was there.
Now I spend many days and weeks alone with just my dog for a period of time I thought I was going nuts.
But it's made me stronger I guess. There are times when I catch myself talking out loud and I have to correct the behaviour.
But that's the extent of my "madness" as I take antidepressants.

I am dating a guy who really by his back story I should run a mile from but for whatever reason he's the only thing that's been good and consistent in my life. He's a good guy and trying to change his ways.
I'm desperately hoping that he doesn't let me down.

Andres77 · Answer

I’ll be a whole person first. I don’t need anyone else to be whole or complete. If we’re on the same level then we’ll see. I have just a few of those. They’re quality men with whom I’d trust my own family. Those are the only kinds of people I’d let into my life.

flashrex · Answer

Some friends are great to have around and others not so much. It's a mixed bag, as most people are different and diverse mentally speaking. The friends that I'd love to hang out are the ones that basically understand me through and through and are typically ones I have a history with.

Greedier · Answer

Yeah, I don't mind it. It's nice to be alone and finally able to relax fr.  Lonely vs Alone

Koalamate · Answer

Every person has toxic traits some more than others. I have very few friends and the friends I have I keep at a distance or I get overwhelmed with drama but I do get lonely.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I like having friends… like true quality friends not wishy washy ones! Idc if have one ☝️ only or nothing. I am my own best friend

Tina19 · Answer

Yes i don't want friends since i grew up i use to have huge group of friends till college but then we all parted ways due to work

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

I can't relate. I like friends. The tight group is very drama free, and each and everyone of them can be trusted.

dustybiker · Answer

I can find friends anywhere. You just have to treat people decently.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

I have about 5 friends and I don’t talk to any of them regularly. We have that type of relationships where we can ghost each other for weeks and then pick right back up. I like it this way🤷🏽‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

I like keeping my inner circle small. I had the chance to be well liked/popular it was very overwhelming and draining it was also hard to find time for myself so I could recharge my batteries

BLP11520 · Answer

Friends are important, cheer you up and help you think outside the box. Advice from friends can be wrong but can also save you money and much heartache. Example, don't buy that car.. look at these instead.

SomeJokeTeeth · Answer

Yeah, sometimes it bums me out but it's also WAY less stressful

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I have mixed emotions on this topic not sure

Anonymous · Answer

No. I just don't worry about them. I know my friends will always be right there when they need me. 🙂

AngelBritney · Answer

Been stabbed in the back too often and therefore I don't want any friends anymore.

Juxtapose · Answer

I can't relate lol, I've been alone before and it wasn't fun. Life sucks without bonds.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Some good comrades are better than no friends at all or many shitty friends.

Iron_Man · Answer

Not really I like a little big of quality friends. Not tons of phony baloney‘s

LavLavLuv · Answer

Nope cuz i like having friends, like close friends only

Brando10222 · Answer

If its good then I don't mind. But fake friends then not at all.

Shy_Steve · Answer

It's because I usually don't like hanging around in Groups and things like at Parties.

Fuentes · Answer

I have friends but some says I don't wanna talk at all lol

TrillXHippy · Answer

I don’t but what can’t I do? It’s just the way it has to be

Anonymous · Answer

My girlfriend and I prefer to be secluded but sometimes I don't mind if close friends visit town. Too many people mean too many invitations to unnecessary things

TonightYouu · Answer

well there’s like 98% chance everyone I meet won’t like me

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

My friends themselves are drama free so its a non-issue

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I do I only have a few friends and those friends I had all of my life so we get along great together

Nicola1999_ · Answer

No I get lonely and depressed. Lockdown I was in huge depression.

NathanDavis · Answer

I would not know how that feels like...

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have too many friends.

Bethany22 · Answer

I want more friends

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. I like having friends.

exitseven · Answer

I miss my friends. Covid made it worse.

TroyDT2 · Answer

I love my friends, but I keep my circle small.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Not having friends dosen't sound enjoyable.

Blackcupcake · Answer

maybe lol

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Mhmmm definitely

Dingsbums · Answer

Yes I do

Xtendable · Answer

I voted C

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