How would you feel if your best friend betrayed your trust, then proceeded to get with your crush?

[Kayla45]

I'd feel angry 💢

Heartbroken/Sad 😢

Other?

[Dinklex3]

I don't really have crushes. There's either something going on or there isn't.

In general i think it's a pretty shitty thing to do. My bff actually did that to 2 of my other friends.

Had a friend crush on a guy. The guy said he liked me. He was cute, but i wasn't really into him or anything. But since i wasn't interested my bff was all over the guy (grinding, humping) him in front of our friend who was crushing on him.

Was NOT a good day, lol. And my friend felt terrible. My bff didn't even like him like that she just had low self esteem and liked when guys got interested in her.

I'm all about "girl code".

[Rania05]

I'd feel angry and sad at same time but I wouldn't want to bother with this kind of person after leaving them with a simple statement that we're over I'd leave without waiting for their reaction
Happened twice (betrayal by friend as they continued to ignore my feelings and do some rather hurtful gestures) and one tried to be a bitch by saying shit that's clearing me with the absent pronoun (first and last physical fight in my life) while the other actually felt some shame.

[Summeroflove]

This depends on the situation. If my best friend had no idea I had a crush on someone... If my crush did not want me but hey... They had a shot.


I mean it would be kind of shitty to tell someone you have a crush and stuff and they get with them but then again if you just made a move sooner...

[Rockstarrrrr]

That would be tough coming from a best friend but it's not the end of the world.. They're not the only or last person I can be friends with or have a crush on... It wouldn't make me that angry as much as I'd pity them...

[silvermoon84]

I had a friend do this to me. This is teenage behavior on her part, but we were 28 at the time. She flirted with him right in front of me then ghosted the friendship. The guy led both of us on and several years later we bumped into each other (me and my ex friend). She tried to act like nothing happened but at that point I was done. I already knew I couldn’t trust her.

[motownplayer2000]

It would depend on what they did to betray my trust.. if betraying my trust was getting with my crush, I’d get over that. Because I have two options, I can go and try to steal her right back. Or get someone prettier than her that has a better personality. I don’t like things like that kill my self-esteem.

[ohsheeT]

That is a low blow at first I would be mad but after a few days and thinking about it I would look at it like neither one was really my friend so I would thank my lucky stars and thank them for showing me who they really are

[Biancam13]

This happened to me but I was already dating him, and it was multiple guys I was dating that she got with. It was the worst betrayal, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I felt/would feel angry, blindsided and betrayed. So all of those.

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t have a crush so it’s fine… and if I had one and she went out with him, and he liked her back then I wouldn’t mind, I would support her and still love her because that’s just another dude…

[wittymilf]

Grateful, obviously crush wasn’t that into me. Good that I didn’t have to find out through rejection :)

[Tina19]

I have been betrayed twice by 2 different best friends since then i don't trust my friends with sharing personal stuff

[Bethany22]

That's really playing on my extreme jealousy issues

[D_Bone_Steak]

Obviously reduced from friend status. I don't feel feelings anymore though.

[Guanfei]

I'd lose my best friend, and my crush, pretty sure I'd go straight to depression.

Luckily, I have no friend, and no crush. No one to betray me.

[EaterPeter]

Eventually I may get to conclusion that two bed people are out of my life. One that I thought of a good friend and one whom I thought of as love of my life. Can I pick better next time? God please help.

[glennos89]

I would be pissed off and considering ending the friendship

[TroyDT2]

If I am interested I immediately approach and ask. If she says "No." then a male friend can ask her and it would not matter to me.

[AmeeliahLeh]

I probably wouldn't really care, It's just how life works. if they wanna get with my crush then give it a whirl girl nobody actually belongs to us lol!
(unless it's someone I really really like I'd probably consider lol!)

[AsaKyo]

Been there, done that

Who cares? Not my problem anymore

[Nikki1989]

I tend to move from situations like this very quickly.

[MysticDevice]

I'd be pretty pissed but there's really nothing could be done about it.

[Twalli]

I see them as two separate issues. One is betrayl, the other is taking the iniative with a girl we both like.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Bros before hoes. Girlies come and go, and at times let both hit it, but true friends get through that shit. Much like Chicks over dicks!

[VanguardTitan]

Honestly I'd feel nothing. I'd just cut them off without any warning or explanation and walk away.