Hello everybody! I am here with a new take. I wanted to call it 'the struggles of looking ugly' but that's rather too negative and this is supposed to be light hearted and not so negative or serious.
So let me get right to itttt.
1. Getting stared at often
Hell, some people even look twice! It's as if they are taking a double check to see 'shit was that really a human?' I suppose you could say I have 'striking' looks, not necessarily a good or a bad thing just the kind of image that makes your brain look again.
2. Weird questions
'is it hard to not be attractive?'
'so what's up with your face why do you look so angry all the time?'
'why is your body like that?'
Uhm if I knew the answer I would tell everyone I swear, but I have no clue why genetics worked out for me this way, I was born looking the way I look. The weird questions are often really awkward 😂and difficult to answer.
3. Getting unwanted attention
This can actually be a perk, for example wearing a really nice outfit and getting all the attention. But sometimes it can be very uncomfortable when I just don't feel like getting looked at, whether it be because of the dead look on my face that emphasizes my features even more, my 'quirky' smile that makes me look even more unconventional or my height, they all draw a lot of attention. It can be a good thing and a bad thing depending on how I feel that day.
4. Getting confused looks
I don't know how to explain this but it's something I sense others doing. Some people are genuinely confused and I feel bad because at that moment I don't know how to react. 😂
5. People find me funny
And my looks help with this! Seriously, I come across as a goofy weirdo and it makes anything I say angrily even if I'm serious kind of funny! Which isn't a bad thing most of the time, sometimes an annoying struggle but its a major advantage the rest of the time.
I'm bored which is why I wrote this and tried to not make it long. I am learning to love myself and how I look. Maybe I have had many struggles with my looks but I love how I look even if it's weird. Some people are known as that funny guy or that girl with the red hair, I'm the girl with the unconventional looks. It's my thing and I am learning to embrace it and love it. Even exaggerate it and make certain wacky features stand out even more.
In my opinion, what you can't hide you should make stand out even more.
Also don't take this take seriously. 😂
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