Most Helpful Girl
You might want to bring an understanding/accepting female friend in to the picture to help you pick clothes out as walking in to a clothing store and trying things on may bring on a negative reaction from sales clerks who may not be so understanding.
As for clothes, 'hot' to me would be the sort of thing you find in eclectic underground places who sell unique stockings and accessories. Tops with foam cups to wear braless are comfortable and appealing. Leggings with a sheer top with something bra-like underneath. Then there's always lingerie that you might like to wear when you're staying in. Just my opinion though.
Most Helpful Guy
Wouldn't think girl clothes would be all that comfortable.