OMG my boyfriend wants to buy a fedora, how do I talk him out of it?

This morning my bf was telling me he liked how they look and he was thinking of getting one

How do I stop him? He called me m'lady during breakfast too!! Pls help :( :(
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  • Your boyfriend is a real man... he wants to wear what the hell he wants regardless of what "popular perception" is. :-D

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  • Is he fat? Like, orca fat? Does he have a neckbeard? Or an actual beard?

    If so, he's just completing the look. If not... has he started eating too much and stopped shaving?

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    • He is not fat. Do you think he will turn into a fat ugly neckbeard if he starts wearing fedoras?

    • Google 'fat guy fedora' and you will see it is a thing. I knew a guy who had the official Indiana Jones fedora. The only thing bigger than his gut was the screen he played WoW on.

      Tell him it will make him look like something, and it's not classy. Unless a hat is part of a carefully cultivated look, it will not look classy or cool - especially not with jeans with a t-shirt!

    • I showed him and he still thinks it looks good. I dont know what to do!

  • Make a naughty headwear choice as well and surprise him with it :-)
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  • This is hilarious. Either you're trolling everyone or he's trolling you. :P

    Think the fedora is a genuinely cool hat if it weren't for the internet stigmatizing it.

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  • Tell him that if he wants to suck dick and watch my little pony he can do so single.

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  • Fedoras are classic hats but they are a suit hat and should only be worn with a suit not anything else and when a fedora is pared with a good suit it does echo a classy look. Especially with three piece suits I'd let him get one but just warn him that he will look rather silly if he wears one with casual clothes for casual clothes I will suggest a panama hat they look kind of like fedoras but are made for hot weather and casual clothes.

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  • I'm sure he doesn't approve of all your fashion choices. If you truly hate it, feed it to the dog.

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  • Hahahaha I love how that bothers you so much. Women...

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  • I don't see the problem. It sounds like he has the confidence to do his own thing. Tell him how you feel and respect his decision.

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    • But he will look bad, why does he want to change now?

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    • Like those fat ugly guys who creep at pony p*rn?

    • How does a fedora enter into that line of thinking? I think you may have a bigger issue with him watching my little pony than him getting a fedora. Fedoras are not mainstream so it is reminding you of how he is also different by watching my little pony.

  • You should wear a bonnet to give him a taste of his own medicine.

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What Girls Said 18

  • If I'm not mistaken a fedora is a hat, right? So, why are you making such a huge deal
    out of your boyfriend wanting to buy a hat? I'm one of those people that doesn't think
    that just because two people are together, that they have the right to tell each other how
    to look. Whether it be man or woman that don't have the right or a say in how or what there
    signfinant other looks or dresses. This includes, makeup, tattoos, piercings, hairstyle, hair color
    hair length, clothes, shoes, perfume/cologne, underwear, etc, etc. We are each indivduals
    and we have to be happy with the way we look , because we're the ones that will be
    wearing the clothes and looking that way. So, you can tell your boyfriend you don't fedora's.
    But, you can not stop him from buying one! You can not be upset when he wears it! You
    can not assume he's gonna look bad if he wears it, because it doesn't matter if you think he
    looks bad. He's the one who has to look in the mirror. And, you absolutely can not now or
    ever dictate what he wears or what he buys! You would hate it if he did it to you, so don't
    do it to him. Simply put, you can't stop him and you shouldn't try.

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    • Im sorry, but a fedora is something I cannot accept!

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    • Its not a deal breaker, just something stupid he decided to do and I strongly disagree..

    • Right, you disagree. But, you don't get to decide what he buys. Disagree all you want,
      but don't make a thing out of it. It's a hat, let it go.

  • I'm not sure this is really an issue its like telling him he can't wear a blue shirt because you don't like it. Now if it doesn't look good on him it is okay to be honest.

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  • Just flat out tell him they're fugly and you wouldn't wear one! I wouldn't want one either! Ick

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    • I did! and he still wants to get one! Do you have any tips on what to say?

  • Oh god. I feel so sorry for you! Hopefully its just a phase!!!

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    • omg me too.. :( How long do you think will last?

    • Even though I'm not religious, let's pray for maximum three months. If he steppes over that line, I hate to say it.. But I think you'd loose the man you once loved :(

  • lol damn i would love that tbh. they look so hot on some guys.
    maybe he's going through that classy phase haha. I don't know, id really enjoy seeing that.

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  • I love fedoras. Fedoras are awesome. If you don't like fedoras, seek professional help.

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    • Only fat ugly neckbeards wear fedoras

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    • He might become one, if he watches mlp and wants a fedora!

    • Okay, there are two types of fedora guys... the hot fashionable guys and the bronies... do not confuse one to the other.

  • Tell him to stop getting fashion advice and style tips from 4chan or reddit.

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  • RIP boyfriend of anonymous girl.

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    • Pls help, how do i stop him?

    • Burn his fedora, while simultaneously sacrificing a white male goat in the same flames. That'll cleanse him of his sins and show him The True Path of Fedoralessness.

  • You need to warn him of the dangers of fedora wearing, for his own safety. Does he not understand that wearing a fedora at an inappropriate time is punishable by death!

    For instance, on the third Tuesday of every other month, for three hours in the evening it is illegal for a man to be seen crossing a shadow while wearing a fedora?

    Its illegal for him to eat apples in public while wearing one.

    If a state of emergency is declared, anyone wearing a fedora is automatically rounded up into a work camp and forced to make bootlaces for Velcro shoes.

    The list goes on, but as with any hat its important to make sure you know what you're getting yourself into.

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  • He's an adult, he can wear what he wants.

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    • Thats right he's an adult and shouldn't be wearing stupid hats that dont fit the outfit!

    • He can make his own choices and just because YOU think it's "stupid" doesn't mean he thinks so. Again, he can wear what he wants.

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