You're right, "too much drama" is kind of vague.
I use the phrase basically as shorthand for people who seek attention at all costs. Examples include, but are not limited to:
- dating lots of guys at the same time
- cheating on me and/or her other boyfriend(s)
- lying for no reason
- starting fights with me just to provoke a reaction
- trying to start fights between me and her/my friends
- trying to "make me jealous"
- teasing me and then turning me down repeatedly
- "playing hard to get"
- belittling me, threatening me, falsely accusing me of abusive behavior
- complaining not to identify a problem, but to make other people upset
- making frequent, wildly unreasonable demands for things and/or special treatment
- spending money on useless things then complaining about lack of money
- perpetually flaking out of dates, events, obligations, and agreements
- projecting her own problems onto other people
- throwing temper tantrums and directing them at me
Just in case you're curious, none of these are hypothetical; they've all happened to me. This is why I'm turned off by drama queens. :\
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Too much drama is simply when you react to strong with a negative emotion for what most men perceive as nonsense or immature things.
It's also when you make it impossible to give you a "correct" answer.
For instance, if you ask the following question:
"Do you like the black shoes or the red ones?"
The guys says: "I like the red ones"
You get upset and say: "So you're saying you don't like my favourite black shoes I wore last week!?"
It doesn't matter if he says red or black, you will punish him no matter what.
Finding an excuse to put blame is too much drama.
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