Sounds like your friends- the cocky, less attractive ones- are picking up girls in clubs, am I right? If that is the case, than here's the issue: you're trying to get with the wrong chicks. Honestly, every girl has an arrogant ass somewhere in her history, some dude from a club who talked the talk but when it really came down to it, fell short of something special. We usually end up with these types after a break up, a break down, or some kind of scene involving too much tequila. The truth is ultimately, the arrogant guys make you feel way less special. Hang in there.
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Yeah I like guys with swagger but it can get annoying if he's too cocky. I feel like if you don't feel good about yourself, why should anyone else? Not to say that all humble people have low self esteem but if there is something good about you and you're trying to attract women = advertise. If I was gonna get married I would look for a humble guy but if I'm partying in a club I would like more excitement and less humility
Hm.. Not really. It doesn't make me any more special to get an arrogant guy vs a humble guy. I'd say a humble guy will have more character! But the reason why is.. well you've already said it, confidence, not arrogance, gets a woman intrigued, since you can show her that you have something to offer.
if they get a "bad boy" then they automatically think that if they do things for him that he will protect them.
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Humble guys last forever.
Arrogant guys are only good
for a few minutes.
But that also depends
on the type of woman
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