Why don't men wear sexy underwear?

Question

There seems to be a double standard where guys can get away with wearing cruddy boxers and tighty whities while girls are wearing cute bikinis and thongs. It's kind of a turn off when I'm being intimate with a guy and he pulls down his pants and I find ripped up shorts or ill fitting boxer briefs. Guys why don't you consider wearing something different? Like some sleek looking briefs, James bond style trunks or even a jockstrap? Would any guys ever consider switching if their girlfriend asked?

Bvroon · Accepted Answer

Here is the deal, I wear underwear of different colors however most of them are briefs, I happen to be short and I have thick thighs so boxers ride up and are not comfortable, bikinis are ok, but they have to fit right and not bind or pinch where they shouldn't, there was one set with straps independent of the rest of the brief which is just uncomfortable, so if I can find "sexy" underwear that is sexy and comfortable then I would wear them, also boxer briefs also ride up on me and are uncomfortable and don't even get me started on g-strings, yes they do make them for men also uncomfortable... sorry.

Yumix · Accepted Answer

Because it doesn't look sexy on men. Period.

I'd wear it if lots of people would find it sexy... but even the majority of girls don't wanna see it, so nope. I'll stay with my boxer briefs... if I should ever have a girlfriend who wants me to wear them, sure I'd do it but else not

Lolomon · Accepted Answer

That last picture is ridiculous! I guess in the bedroom for fun they could be cool, but an everyday thing? lol, Women dont even do sexy underwear on a day to day thing. Thongs, g strings are super low in sales. They aren't comfortable. Personally, i prefer him going commando , its easier access for those spontaneous times when we are in public. Just saying. Plus nothing sexier than a man who unbuttons his pants and all I see is penis.. I prefer no underwear at all , that natures sexy underwear!

JayneW · Accepted Answer

I don't mind anything as long as they are clean and quite new (and not old man y-fronts like my dad & grandad wear!!). I always buy underwear for my boyfriends for birthdays, valentines, or just if I think they need a subtle hint. Most guys are quite good in this department I think - Mens Health, etc. have done them the world of good!!!

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

I think girls in general pull it off a bit better. Correct me if I'm wrong? :P
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(also, I can't imagine a guy wearing something strappy and fairly tight to be too comfortable on his balls and dick in general.)

JuicyBrain · Answer

It's not necessarily a double standard. Women wear dress, men don't. Is that a double standard? Women do not desire efeminate men. Men do not desire masculine women. I am sorry, but those underwear looked efiminate to me. If you were my girlfriend and asked me to wear that I would probably do it to make you happy. Or at least, I would try it. BUT I would not be comfortable. Not only would I not feel comfortable physically, but I wouldn't feel comfortable as a man. It would feel the same as if you asked me to wear a bra. I would feel a little ridiculous and humiliated. That is what others refered to as gay. Women who wear lingerie feel empowered, beautiful and sexy. Guys who wear "male" lingerie feel the complete opposite. It is part of our differences...

Tarvold · Answer

I've had many exes buy me fancy underwear. In fact, there was a whole 5 year period where I didn't have to buy any underwear for myself.

Anyway... Yes, I'm a convert. Good (expensive) underwear is worth it. Calvin Klein's, in particular, are like a push up bra for our junk. Feels good, looks good, and I can tell by the girl's reaction that it's working for them too.

It works guys. Don't be cheap on this.

Bimbobambo · Answer

First one, uuuuh... maybe.. the other 2 definetly not. But my undies look hot without being that short anyways because they're tight as the first one but are a little longer on the legs and go a little higher on the waist. Kinda like this just not as trained as he is:

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Bostlad · Answer

I’ve been starting to wear sexier cut underwear for my girlfriend in the bedroom. I think the hardest thing to grasp is that some women (idk a demographic, I’m just trying not to generalize) like underwear that highlights the butt and the package. Recently, she’s liked really masculine looking jockstraps and bikini cut briefs; both with a pouch to “push up” the package! I personally enjoy wearing them for her! I like it when she wears thongs, because they highlight her features that I find attractive! If she wants me to wear underwear that turns her on and highlights features that turn her on, why wouldn’t I wear them?

Jeppi · Answer

I wear boxer briefs, boxer trunks and briefs, i prefer briefs over all because i love the feeling of holding everything in place and having less fabric around. My girlfriend find it very sexy to see me in breifs, et enhances my package and shows off my lines better, and i agree!

dartmaul15 · Answer

because honestly, that's uncomfortable as hell. and take the first one for example; what if he's too large/hung for it? That will be even more uncomfortable. Besides, it's not like a regular boxer brief would hide anything more.

If you want him in sexy lingerie, go get some for him!

evenlift · Answer

Many men do.

But, men and women are different. Men pay care and attention to other aspects of themselves, because other aspects are what women prioritize. If women were to stop wanting men with great careers or men who are funny and charming, men would have more time and energy to devote to their looks.

Nik1hil · Answer

I just feel emasculated 😳. But still I would do that for my girl and just in bedroom, cause I need to keep my balls relaxed can put pressure on them or let them heat! You don't have pair of balls! You don't know! Balls need to be cool, that is why guys always keep their legs apart.

FatherJack · Answer

Probably because males are not considered the " sexy " gender by " society " ...& that's the view of BOTH genders. Women are generally less visual than men , men have to bring far more to the table than just looks to get the attention of any woman , good looks , of course , are a plus. Also the constant man bashing by the " media " always portraying us as stupid , worthless , sex crazed morons , this has an effect too... one reason why I stopped watching TV many years ago.

SurströmmingLover · Answer

There's no way any healthy man's penis can fit in the underwear that you listed. Just imagine where the penis would go if it would be erected. It would probably rip the underwear or go out of it. So hell no, I wouldn't wear them. I think that the underwear that I already have are sexy enough.

aficionado · Answer

For me, it's all about comfort. I don't really care about 'fashionable' undergarments. If my future girlfriend/wife asked to change, then I'd do so but only for those special occasions when something is on the cards! ;)

katy181 · Answer

I actually find the last pair pretty hot - a nice tight package and cheeky bare butt! Gotta have a fit body to pull them off (pardon the pun). Have any of your boyfriends/partners worn something like that?

ElissaDido · Answer

OMG this is horrible, oh god why did I open this question, I'm traumatized, they're ridiculous!!!

RandomUsername3464 · Answer

"double standard"

Good lord, can you stop with that? I wear the underwear I want because I feel comfortable in it. This is one of the stupidest things I've ever read on the Internet, and that's saying something.

HookingSwan · Answer

I don't think that is as attractive as you think. Every woman has her particular taste. now tighty whities are a complete turn off, but a well fitted boxer can be sexy as hell :)

Justme987 · Answer

I am straight and I would do it for a lady who wanted me to. To be honest briefs are my daily wear anyway. I stopped caring about stigmas and so called trends recently.

goodlooin · Answer

Yeah I already switched my ex girlfriend got me into wearing them and I think they are really comfortable way more comfortable than boxers. But i order most of mine off of the internet like eBay since a lot of stores don't carry these kinds underwear. But my wife now did not really like them at first but has no problem with them now. So I'd encourage other guys to wear them because they are comfortable

Avenuewriter · Answer

I have a rule. If you want to wear sexy underwear, you'd better look like a sexy underwear model. This applies to both genders. I'm the human equivalent of a pair of tighty whities, so I wear them.

Anonymous · Answer

I have never thought of that. I don't care what he is wearing when I pull down his pants as long as they are not too tight or stained.

ThongsOnly · Answer

I wear thongs and will wear sexier ones on a date night. Sexy on a guy has a range of interpretations for both sexes

soe11 · Answer

I do wear them at home as an outerwear  My girlfriend's mum and my girlfriend buy for me always. I stay at home remain with sezy underwear, also my girlfriend and her mum too.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

To say guys won't wear that is wrong. I have a deal with my wife, we each buy what we want the other to wear.

gray_sailor · Answer

My goodness, did I ever wander into the wrong question. I haven't even worn underwear since 1987! Go figure.

slatyb · Answer

Whatever she wants unless it is annoyingly uncomfortable. Even then I would probably change if she were going to see them.

brain5000 · Answer

Have you asked men who have proven resistant to wearing these? I would wear pigtails and a skirt if it would make my girlfriend horny more often.

John_Doesnt · Answer

That looks extremely uncomfortable and kind of gay. Especially the thong/g-string.

SomeGuy27 · Answer

I started wearing tighty whities again around my girlfriend (hid them from her before) and a week later she had me wearing panties full time... does that count?

xOGxDub · Answer

Its weird and its uncomfortable and girls are not constantly staring and trying to see a mans bootie But guys are constantly constantly trying to see a womans bootie and also men just dont care

Mesonfielde · Answer

I would not wear those because it clearly is uncomfortable for your balls.

Tmc1981 · Answer

Maybe the lacy stuff if harder to find in the menswear department 😂

Hans222 · Answer

Good question... maybe because our "lines" are not as elegant as those of the girls :D

JustPhillip · Answer

I thought women laugh hysterically at guys who wear that. Dont women call guys "pussy ass bitches" for wearing those?

Anonymous · Answer

I’d wear the jockstrap in an athletic roleplay or just to try them on and see if my partner likes them.

Anonymous · Answer

I know this is an older question but I wouldn't mind changing into underwear of her likings and I'd do an effort to have a great (chiseled) body too.

Anonymous · Answer

They dont look comfortable. So I wouldn't even think about wearing them all day. But maybe in the the evening ;)

xXiTacoXx · Answer

Because not all of them would look good in it.

Likes2drive · Answer

I would only if she asked because those are not very comfortable , I do wear very nice boxer briefs though

Anonymous · Answer

I hope no man ever wears that, I'd kick him out of my bed..

tayoker · Answer

Because they don't like to show their "sexyness" by wearing sexy underwear... but instead we wear sexy condoms!

convo_king89 · Answer

Cuz dressing up sexually is a woman thing. Girls give it we take it

NotTheFBI · Answer

That underwear looks more hilarious than 'sexy' LOL

Kuraj · Answer

"Sexy underwear"  Those trunks are gayer than gay porn.

legalboxers · Answer

why would I wanna wear a sling shot? If I had a girlfriend or wife I would care. I dont.

RichardTheFrog · Answer

By the time you're seeing it, it's only going to be on for about 3 seconds...

Anonymous · Answer

Because if another guy saw you at the gym in those, he'd think you were gay!

Anonymous · Answer

That's too tight balls and penis won't have enough room it might hurt

Zendrya · Answer

I wouldn't want my guy wearing that...

Eternallylucky · Answer

They look better in boxers.

Thor696 · Answer

Why wear underwear at all?

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

uhhh I'm wearing Calvin Kleins right now

Anonymous · Answer

Hell nahh that looks gay foreal ha wtf

TheBraveLion · Answer

I wear Calvin Kleins! :P

COCOCHANEL · Answer

the men i know wear nice boxer briefs

gobsmacked3 · Answer

When I worked as a stripper I did.

AngryHorny · Answer

Meh, I wear what's comfortable.

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

If it's comfortable then why not.

Oo_aa_MaLifeBeLike · Answer

loads of guy wear those! including me.

Rexbad · Answer

I'd do it if a girlfriend asked?

IamNuts · Answer

They look horrible.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause I don't need to look like a girl, in bed

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