Are Guys Turned Off By The Way I Dress?

[Anonymous]

I've always been into a sophisticated, feminine, classic look, but I've recently been getting worried that it may be turning off guys. I wear knee length modest dresses with a simple pair of heels pretty much everyday. I attached a few pictures for examples of what my everyday outfits are like. I chose Kate Middleton because my fashion sense is frequently compared to hers by others.

What do guys think when they see my outfits? Do they think it's too conservative or do they admire the modest look? Is it too uptight for a 20 year old college student? Please be as honest as possible! Thank you!

[pnl86]

Kate Middleton? Yes. Boner killer. If you dress like Kate Middleton, that shows men that you care more about looking "classy for women" rather than looking "sexy for men." In other words, the opinion of other women > the sexual opinion of men. That's the "best" case, the alternative is narcissism.

Why would a guy want to be with a girl who places such little importance and value on what men are sexually interested in?

If that's how easily a man's sexual interests can get knocked down in importance or priority, it's not going to get any better with kids or other things in life.

No guy wants to be in that situation for the long-run.

I've known some very beautiful girls that were total boner killers. I could literally feel my testosterone levels dropping just from looking at her. Going on through life with someone like that? Jeez, just cut my balls off right now and slap a pair of tits on me and make me start breast feeding a baby.

[Kr320]

Do you do it because you want to or because you think guys (or girls) will give you attention, wether it be negative or positive? I like a girl who wants to look good, but I'd say I like "normal" most of the time.

[Oxxymoron]

Personally I admire you for trying to dress so modestly at our age. I don't think there's anything wrong with dressing this way every once in a while or maybe for a special occasion but everyday seems a bit much. It does kind of give off that stuck up poshy vibe but you shouldn't change the way you dress just to attract attention to yourself. Especially from men. If you feel good dressing this way that's all that should matter.

[Swedgirl]

Lots of guys like that classy, feminine look, but you should still vary your style, switch it up a little! Be bold and wear something that is a little shorter/tighter every once in a while! Don't wear anything you're super uncomfortable with, because that will show, but try to get out of your comfort box a little, you're 20! Take advantage of the best years of your life, you'll never be physically prettier than you are now 😊❤️

[Darkfairie17]

I don't think there is anything wrong with dressing like that. But dress like that if that is what you like. Don't worry about what other people think. The right guy will date you for you and not only due to what you wear.

[zombiebabe]

if you have similar dressing style like above you sound fine

[SwoopingHawk]

I absolutely love it, the look is very beautiful, it's flowing and feminine, so much better than all these folks who want to slap on yoga pants every day and call it good. It's a lovely, classy look.

[Shaft50]

I like the way she dresses, especially on windy days:
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[chintita]

something fit for royalty but unattractive on a normal girl, in my opinion. it gives off an air of conservative stuffiness which is gr8 if that's what you're going for.

[TadCurious]

It's a very classy, tasteful, and attractive look. But surely sometimes you dress more casually and sport as well. It's good to mix it up, depending on the occasion.

[justbanANNAz]

a guy turned off by elegance isn't worth ur time. very simple.

[JohnDoe3000]

It would not turn me off, but it might make me think you're less open to being approached.

[Anonymous]

Why are you picking what Kate wears? She can pull it off because she's a future queen. A 20 year old just looks ridiculous and like she's playing dress up.

[Anonymous]

For the most part, guys don't care. But extreme cases can make even a casual guy turn away and frown.

[Katy16]

I think it would be cute, a lot if guys would love that

[brewersfan01]

I like your fashin sense. But if ur walking along and there's 3 other girls walking in skin tight joga pants, there gonna get the attention.

[Anonymous]

I wish more people dressed like this. I like it when girls dress properly. It doesn't seem to be the done thing anymore these days, which is a shame.

[SleepingSnorlax]

Nah thats cool
Nothing wrong with it, better than a lot of other styles out there

[Jessicocoa]

Hopefully not lol because I love wearing dresses like these.

[chrisbigman]

I'm not. In fact, it should be the way women should dress.

[Anonymous]

Don't you just love how women have to go out looking for men, its like the meat is being delivered on a silver platter. Got to love feminism

[Sara413]

Nah. Those are cute looks!

[mrfoox]

You good, you good, you're great, don't you worry.

[Daynada]

You should wear what you want to wear

[anonman32]

i think thats attractive.

[Anonymous]

That's not fashion, not the trend so unattractive

[anonman32]

i hope you are joking.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 No, in my country we care about fashion a lot and someone who's is in the trend is not attractive

[anonman32]

what country is that?

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 I live in Monaco

[anonman32]

that explains a lot. people are very rich there, so they can afford to live by the latest fashion trends.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 Even in France people are like that from what I see

[anonman32]

i think that the fashion industry should not determine what people should wear but thats just what i think.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 fashion depend on your age really. that's a bit complicated to explain. Like for exemple you wear only fashion accesories and that's great. When your young you wear fashion clothes, etc... all.
Yes, your right everybody should wear what they like the most but in my country everyone judge you, etc... So that's hard to not follow it and to only wear what you like especially if it's really "old fashion" stuff.

[anonman32]

yeah i understand.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 You live in belgium it's more laid back here, right?

[anonman32]

yeah it kind of is. although we will follow fashion somewhat we dont follow it like other countries do.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 Not as much as France or Italy

[anonman32]

thats true, they are known to us for their sense of fashion.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 haha yes. They have a really great sense of fashion.

[anonman32]

french girls always look so hot, especially those from the south.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 I agree. I live in Monaco so the south of France :)
The one on the cote d'azur are really great, so much fashion sense too

[anonman32]

yeah, but these places are rich peoples places. thats not for me.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 You're not rich? You're poor?
try Grenoble or Lyon or Bordeaux people are great here too

[anonman32]

im just mid class.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 you're normal so. Even mid class people can go in cote d'azur or marseille near the port it's great

[anonman32]

is it not expensive there?

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 In Marseille no not really. The price is normal here really plus it's sunny and you have the beach :)

[anonman32]

but cote d'azur is expensive? it looks nice there.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 In cote d'azur if you avoid the big tourist area that's good. A bit expensive because it's summer of course but price is reasonable. Unlike like Monaco where it's always expensive.

[anonman32]

i see. maybe i go there some day.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 You should they're really great place :)
and the food is so good

[anonman32]

yeah i know french food is good. we sometimes go on vacation in france.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 Really where do you go?

[anonman32]

we went to ardeche

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 That's great. Their marrons are really good :)

[anonman32]

i haven't tried them yet but it looks nice.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 Yes, it's really good :)

[anonman32]

i would like to move to france when i have money, i want to live in the north somewhere.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 Live in the pas de calais, lilles or normandie or bretagne. they're great place and so beautiful

[anonman32]

are the houses there expensive?

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 No, in the north no. Plus if you go in village it's a lot less expensive. People want to go in the south in general so the north is really not expensive at all.

[anonman32]

yeah i know that lol. i can still visit the south with the train.

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 Yes, that's better than nothign

[anonman32]

i would like to live where it snows in the winter. does it snow in normandie?

[Opinion Owner]

@anonman32 Yea, a bit not really a lot. In the pas de calais they have more snow like in the savoie. All town near moutain in fact

[anonman32]

thats cool.

[Ndbill]

Hot! Sometimes less is more

[beacreaiveguy]

That's a TURN ON

[AhGojira]

Dresses are nice.

[Sabretooth]

no. it isn't.