Like someone who is fully out of college and has a full-time job, but still dresses goth. Do you think that's weird or immature?
Most Helpful Guy
Its there style its not weird or immature they can dress however they like. Its not how old they are or how they dress is the problem its usually because a lot of these adult male goths come off across as intimidating and creepy and they enjoy the effect they have on people. I think a lot of people believe seem to cling to the idea if you adult you shouldn't cling to your social cliques and scene from your teen years. They consider it be immature so they villify you for it. Its not just goths (and the vampire groupies which stem from it) as grunge, punk, gangster and other cliches are also treated as such.
Some of female older goths including the one who lives in my town from aren't unattractive (its quite the opposite) at all in fact it made her quite unique and exotic compared to the rest of the local woman who look plain and boriing in comparison, She is rather hot even thought i never been too keen on dark haired woman she has a tremendous figure a bit shorter than me and rather pale but that might be make up. She is outgoing and friendly (then again if she wasn't no one would visit her shop which sells random mem). I don't know how old she is but i think she is in her late twenties.
The only reason i didn't try it on with her was she was already married. I never seen her husband but i heard about him from a mate and he is one too. I rarely vist the shop since it dosn't have much that interest me except the woman. I never really considered dating a goth since they so different from me i have dated a grunge/alt type girl who was reserved but so very hot. I probably only have a fling (a hot fling) than be dating material they would probably feel likewise.
A lot of guys seem to be into goth girls because of there striking difference from the crowd of britney wannabes. They also come across kind of easy because they dress in peculiar and often skimpy dresses and skirts. I still have yet to bag one but maybe some day.1
Most Helpful Girl
It totally depends if it's emo-goth, or classy-goth. Classy-goth is fine for anyone even an 100 year old, but emo-goth just isn't okay for all social settings. You can go to work usually wearing elegant black dresses with lace sleeves, and vintage necklaces, but you can't go to work wearing 90% ripped pants with chains, and black spiked hair. Unless you work at hot-topic. But usually they won't hire anyone older than 30.0