Is it unattractive if a woman dresses quite young/girlyish?

Question

This quite is NOTHING to do with liking people who are underage , this is purely about clothing, would guys/people find it looks unattractive if a woman who is a young adult dresses in maybe outfits that look slightly two young or girlish? (obviously what looks too young or looks okay is subjective)  here is Examples.

Kurαȷ · Accepted Answer

Your preferences are all a reflection of your personality, if you feel like dressing this way, then the best choice to make is to keep dressing this way.
The people who like you dressing this way, are most likely the ones you want to attract anyway.
If you try to conform to other people's preferences, you are only going to misrepresent yourself and waste your time attracting people who might not be drawn to the rest of your personality.

Admittedly, I don't really like any of these, but I'm clearly not the target demographic for outfits like these.
My biggest gripe with this look is the shortness of the skirts, the frills and the lace.
If someone asked me on advice on dressing "girly", I would point them in the vintage direction.

ManFrom1982 · Accepted Answer

... Um. It makes me uncomfortable to talk about the effect a fully grown woman dressing in these styles... Just yeah. Awkward feels to be admitting in public.

Elliegirl · Accepted Answer

I think it’s cute as long as it’s within reason. It’s one thing to be a grown woman who dresses fashionably young, like maybe college age style. I think that’s fine and can be very cute. Being a grown woman dressing like she’s still a high school girl or younger is quite another thing.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I love dressing this way. Great question-- I was curious too. My boyfriend is much older than me and sometimes I worry he thinks I'm dressing to childish/girly.

Unnameable · Answer

There is a specific type of man that is attracted to women who look and act like children, and that is men who treat women like children that it's okay to sexualize. This is not the same as being attracted to children, as the secondary sex characteristics normal heterosexual men are attracted to don't develope until puberty.
Regardless of what some women seem to think, clothing is a form of communication, and men will expect you to behave consistently with how you dress. If you dress like a child, we expect you to act like a child. If you dress like a slut, we expect you to act like a slut.
So to summarize, it's not a question of whether men will be attracted to what you wear, it's a question of what type of man will be attracted to you, and in turn, how you want to be treated by the men who want to sleep with you

hellacray · Answer

What happened to dressing for yourself?

I mean when women wear super revealing clothes they always say they're doing it for themselves and not for guys. And they supposedly hate getting attention based on what they're wearing.

Now that I think about it there's a lot of women on GAG that makes posts like "what do you think about this outfit?"

Dress for yourself my ass.

by the way I personally prefer the girly look cause tbh so many girls wear pretty much the same thing where I live. And I just like the way it looks on girls, it makes them look you know feminine.

There are girls that dress differently from the norm, but they dress more like guys... And they have colorful looking hair.

I think you know what kind of people I'm talking about.

Anonymous · Answer

Thank for asking this. I am very curious. Why are most of the female questions negative. Yet the men are positive. Thank god it’s the men’s that counts. Seriously why can't people stop conforming others to there way. I have thought about joining the dolly nation. What about you?

Omaewamo · Answer

Yeah, it's cute. I like it. But the only thing I don't like, and i's actually something I cannot stand, is pigtails. I HATE pigtails. Every girl I've known eho has pigtails has been awful, and in almost every story or book with a girl with pigtails, she's not fun or interesting to be around...
It's also insanely unflattering. Ponytail? Sure. It Works. Pigtails? Unless you're Harley Quinn, do NOT do that. I have a feeling most girls will agree with me on this one, too.

Alpha_Soup · Answer

Looks kind of childish depending on the size of the girl😅 I hope people don’t hate me 😆 Let me explain. The girls in the first and third picture look like kids. But the girls on the second and fifth picture can pull it off well. Depends on the woman’s body type.

lifelearner011 · Answer

Lovely outfits, that's my style. I think "one size doesn't fits all". Not every person will find attractive those outfits. What matters is that the person who dresses it carries with self confidence.
From my experience guys who are a bit more on the traditional side will prefer those outfits, since they look clearly very "feminine" and girly. Yet at the end of the day please don't take "guys" views too seriously, just dress for yourself and to honor your own beauty.

AynonOMouse · Answer

I think the 4th and 6th picture's dress style is good. The others I just don't like the style of clothes.
It's fine if she tries to choose a style that is traditionally for younger girls. She should also have the right hair style to match and no make up too if she is really going for that look, otherwise it just looks out of place and wouldn't match right.

23Lotus · Answer

I don't find it unattractive at all. Maybe a little too girly/preppy for me, but nonetheless, it's still a cute style.

Cask23 · Answer

The older I’ve got the more I realize that what is most attractive for a female is to dress appropriate for their age and status in life. The options in your poll don’t look bad because the women are relatively young. However, put those outfits on a mid-30’s career women and she’d look ridiculous.

TheScaryDoor · Answer

I ONLY go for girls who dress feminine. It's my opinion that you aren't totally straight if you like non feminine women. I mean, surely you're attracted to men who dress/look masculine, that's the same thing and that's cuz you're straight.

Chaz269 · Answer

I disagree with your assertion that it has nothing to do with liking underage people. People who are attracted to children may find young women who present themselves as younger quite attractive. Also, people who find everything about such predilections abhorrent will likely find such presentations unpleasant or even disgusting.
I'm definitely not into it, for a number of reasons. But I wouldn't necessarily judge someone who is into it just because they're into it.

Budvizer · Answer

I honestly think it is hot to see women dress like women. And personally I think those dresses look pretty comfortable, I mean I bet your legs can breath. So honestly I don't fully understand why women wear pants in situations they can wear skirts. I mean guys just can't wear skirts without being a cross dresser so I'm kinda stuck in pants

SjE78 · Answer

tbh I find this style quite attractive... nothing freaky or sick about it

and anyone who has a serious issue about it doesn't understand the lifestyle.. or that people have different tastes and choices

Anonymous · Answer

I voted "Looks nice, attractive".

I have to say, though, the first and third images are a little over the top.

Hence, then there are two things that come to mind, dressing in clothes shown above and dressing to look younger than you are and applying makeup of the sort. IMHO, the former is perfectly okay, the latter is a bit much.

ATuairiscean · Answer

I am somewhere in between B and C - It was only proven in your examples I thought B was fine but I have mega doubts about this whole Lolita/Little girl fashion , let little girls be little girls and young women be young women.

Cosytoasty · Answer

You see the 2nd girl pulls it off. The rest of them not so much.  I prefer a more mature look

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Looks attractive to me. Something like this picture :

Shezadi · Answer

I dress very girly by wearing red dress, red high heels with black leggings and black socks, because red and black is a good combination with a black leather jacked and so many strangers gave me compliments! So it was a success.

I feel like girls need to be a little bit more brave and creative with their dressing sense, because you never know people might like it.

ChocoLada · Answer

Young and girlish are not the same. Some girls tend to dress tomboyish even when they are young.  Is it unattractive or not, that depends on the guys, some of them like it, others don't like it.

desperatelyhungry · Answer

That first outfit IS NOT OKAY lol but the others I like. I Don't think the rest of those outfits are girlish, I think they're perfect for a teenager or 20 something girl and they're very cute

EvilAngel114 · Answer

If I were a guy, I would not be attracted to girls that dress like this. It’s like too cutesy girlie and I’d have a hard time taken them serous. It reminds me too much of ditzy girls.

Lance1965 · Answer

Can be cute, weird or even tacky depending on the girl.

Letitgoogoo · Answer

Not my style , but I dont judge those who dress this way. The style suits some girls.

TwinCKI · Answer

I personally like it. That style is unique and not many people can pull it off so more power to them.

Ibeji · Answer

Depends on the skill of the girl dressing herself. It can be really adorable and attractive or creepy and/or tacky.

aaronbw · Answer

Photo number two actuallybdoesnt look bad at all. But the rest kind of creep me out. I dont find it attractive because it just feels like she's trying to be way too young

User-Jacob · Answer

1 and 3 are a little bit terrifying, but the rest are cute. Might be a little too bourgeois and needy for my taste, but I don't find it unattractive.

Aynsof · Answer

I think it varies
It is not a look I generally favour though of course on women my age it looks different than ones twenty years younger
Sometimes it can be quite cute but more often than not it looks a little silly

WhereAmI · Answer

Not at all...

InTimoreDei · Answer

I'd rather a girl look young, cute, and feminine than wearing tees and sweatpants/yoga pants all the time like most girls do it seems nowadays.

Anonymous · Answer

I like it. Cute as heck.

But it still looks like there's too much jewelry to me. That and heels make her look older and are not attractive. The cute girly look with casual shoes and no jewelry would be better in my opinion.

niceguy8018 · Answer

I would say that it would truly depend on the person on some it would look great other not so much some of the example are great looking but the ones that look more like a doll no never

OceanVibes · Answer

No, I actually love it, it makes me feel fuzzy inside and it is like it improves her smile, her energy and her personality making her a lot more cute which for me is very attractive too.

Bismarck_96 · Answer

Depends on the girls age and condition if she’s 30 and dresses like that then yes there’s probably a problem 20s is still okay but 30+ you need a therapist

Stockton · Answer

I would have to say that it all depends on the girl and her unique sense of style and personality

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

I’d judge her for wearing that weird fuzzy pink skirt

AlphaMaleTruth · Answer

What Man wants a female dressed like a hoebag or a man? Crazy women have to ask this question, men love young, submissive, feminine virgin women,

Matt57 · Answer

I think pictures 4 and 6 are cute. I don't have a problem with these, unless the woman is like a "little" or something.

loveslongnails · Answer

I think it's a nice look to do occasionally, but if you're a woman, dressing like a little girl all the time would look ridiculous.

Merictanok · Answer

What's wrong with a women dressing how she likes. If she enjoys dressing that way let her. Just as you would like to dress in your own way that you feel the most comfortable in

AM-205 · Answer

Absolutely not! I prefer it, believe it or not! (Maybe in some cases, it could be a juvenile thing to do... but I'm just weird that way...)

Steve-ram · Answer

No she looks more attractive for me! And cute, feels like I want to take her between my arms 😍 looks very delicious!😉

mooky06 · Answer

I think it looks rather cute actually

OoseeeoOo · Answer

All women clothing are nice, unless it dosnt shows her body structure and don't look "comfortable".

OldDad · Answer

The first one looks too young, the rest are very prety

clampfan101 · Answer

In general, I find it cute and attractive. It can go too far, though.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

It looks cute, especially on the girls in your pictures.  Simples...

skateranon123 · Answer

I think girls look better cute I like cute girls over any basic trying to be hard to be hot girl

DJZest · Answer

The girlier the better; though I wouldn't mind her showing her "serious self" once in a while.

hammeronfire · Answer

some are, some aren't. i guess it really depends on the outfit

TallGuy96 · Answer

No, the girl will just look cuter and more friendly, which is a good thing.

TheRealQuestion · Answer

None of them look to be dressed childishly except maybe the first one.

askmeanything454 · Answer

I’d hope girls dress girlish. There’s nothing unattractive about a girl dressing like a girl

LimitedBenefits · Answer

this is how every women should dress, classy feminim

dreamstar72 · Answer

Do I see a hint of jealousy? How they choice to dress is their choice.

pitzi · Answer

I Like Dressing Girlyish  Meow.

Jjpayne · Answer

I think it is colorful, attactive and cute. I'd be drawn to that

aemilius91 · Answer

Can look cute, as long she acts like a adult when needed

Anonymous · Answer

None of those clothes like too young for any of the girls wearing them.

Anonymous · Answer

i dont like dressing like this because it could attract pedos

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