1) It's perfectly normal to be jealous of people, as long as you use it to inspire yourself. Just don't hate on them. 2) For the last. Fucking. Time. Marysia. You. Are. Not. Ugly. I told you already. Start squatting, stop slouching, start dressing like a hot chick, and believe in yourself. I rate girls pretty strictly, and you are a 7/10 in my book. If you get yourself a good, fashionable, feminine style, grow yourself a shapely booty, and get some confidence, you will be an easy 8/10, or even 8.5/10 (again, I am judging strictly here). For the record, I would date a 6/10 girl in a heartbeat.
I've been on a diet for 3 days already lol. I'm currently chewing on some disgusting muesli with yogurt, but it's bearable because eating a bit less made me hungry
Again, that's a good start, but you gotta start exercising if you want to have a curvy feminine shape. I know you want an hourglass shape - well, diet won't give you that, I tell you.
I'm at a point where if I was sure you'd spend it on a gym membership, and actually used it, I'd fucking buy you one.
I'm moving to a new house in 6 months, and then I would have space there to exercise. Currently I have a room with my brother (sharing a room with 3 years younger brother is disgusting for me and I have like 0 privacy, since he is ALWAYS in the room)
I know, you mentioned it. Hell, pick up your little bro, and lift her :D Just kidding. by the way do you have a basement or something? I usually work out in the garage when I am at home.
Oh, for some reason I thought you live in a house. That's too bad :/ Anyway, I already told you that in the meantime while you can't move, you should try doing bodyweight exercises and HIIT training, but it's your choice :-) Just try to stay positive. And I really suggest you ask for some fashionable clothes for Christmas maybe - you'd be a lot more confident in them.
We really don't have much money now, buying a new house is leaving us with debt, so I won't have money for pretty clothes now and I can't choose pretty clothes. But god I can't stand pretty woman. I'm listening to a lot of ASMR because it feels good for me, but I must turn off the vision and just leave the sound because all girls there are 10/10 and of course men in comments compliment them, which triggers me even more
It's really not that much, there are pretty cheap clothes for girls. Just buying say, a pair of skinny jeans and some cute top would probably make you feel awesome, but I guess that's your decision to make.
And you know perfectly well that guys drool over any above-average woman on the internet. I bet if you started doing ASMR, they would compliment you, too. Not that you should - fishing for compliments is for weak willed people who can't achieve things by merit, only by their mere existence. by the way what ASMRtists do you listen to?
It's been my experience that most people who claim to be ugly... are not. Or even if they are, it's often something that they can remedy. Our appearance can be under our control.
And I get that feeling jealous might be inevitable in some cases. However, I can't see this hatred for pretty girls as anything but potentially self destructive.
Do you mind if I ask what you're doing with your life? Why do you think you're ugly?
I mean, I think it's normal to feel a bit of envy or jealousy but hate is a very strong word. If seeing attractive people brings out that much emotion in you, that's a problem. I know it's easier said than done but try not to worry about how other women look and just focus on yourself. There may be small things you can do to improve your own appearance and work on your self-esteem.
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Hate's a strong word, ugly is also a strong word. A lot of people are their own worse critics. If someone is hateful towards others because they're pretty, it usually because of their own issues, which isn't a good thing. Nor should such jealously be normalized.
No need to be jealous i was a ugly duckling that got a major glow up. I been cheated on my boyfriend at the time by a fat troll with stereotype fake red haired drunk with the "clap" . Some where you have to be more beautiful then that ugly person. Some of those chicks are photo-shopped, plastered in make up. Comparison is the thief of joy. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Not really, there will always be someone prettier, my boyfriend crushes on celebrities that I couldn’t hold a candle to. As long as it’s looking but not touching there’s no real harm in it
It's more normal than it should be. My girlfriend gets tons of crap from men and women alike for being gorgeous. It definitely doesn't make her life easier.
I disagree. I think it's subjective. Most people find Melania Trump attractive, I find her ugly. If everyone had the same set of beauty standards, there would be a lot of single women out there
That's why I didn't give Melania Trump as example but this model with unknown for me name. On the whole world, there are probably only several guys who would call her ugly
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