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Yeah sure... if you're an idiot.
Lol haha
Its not unhealthy but its irational.
Why?
It's not rational at all my daughter with her hesitant asking me if I work help her out hahaha I asked her why and she just in the way she talks she wanted to have bigger breasts but nature didn't give her yeah she's had it now you can see how grow as a woman she's got confidence and she's got a mojo so that's not irrational I think it's a world sort out plan she wasn't happy and she who would be so yes she's had them done she looks great feels great I think it was worth every penny it's neither selfish or irrational is completely logical if you are not happy with something and you can change it I say do it I've never had anything DONE but I could have a lot of work done on my nose
@stilllanuagthtboy
Yeah exactly, as long as someone doesn’t over do it and it’s just a small insecurity then I think it’s valid, I don’t get why it’s so bad if the surgeon does it ina natural way and if we have the technology available
@stilllanuagthtboy Well what she will do when she finds out guys who likes only smaller breasts. She will be insecure again.
Surgery is the only way for me, I need to be perfect so that I can like myself. I want to feel good enough to date a girl
No that's the point of it it's giving her the confidence sexually decided and craved if someone said that to her she would just walk away she has confidence how to do that where before I'm sure it would have ripped the heart out of her now she has confidence and she never ever felt insecure it's not about avoiding insecurity it's just about feeling good about yourself
Yeah other people suck ass
Lol what?
Why try to look like another person they suck ass
Cause they may be more beautiful
That’s very subjective. Trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.
That’s such a stupid thing to say. My nose was straight as a kid and looking at my old pics I can safely say my face looked better, but it got a hump cause I’m half Jewish as I got older, I think it looks disgusting and would look better straightened. It would absolutely raise my confidence if my nose were like it once was
I think I remember you actually, yeah your nose is fine seriously stop worrying about it. Your face is fine stop worrying about it.
The only thing looking like a celebrity is going to get you is a bunch of people walking up to you going like “are you that celebrity” and you will have to say “no I’m a fake” and then no one will care about you.
Trying to be a celebrity look alike gets you nothing.
Lol I don’t want to look like a celebrity I want to look like my old self. If it makes me feel better about living and it isn’t hurting anyone then why can’t I do it? It’s not like I want to get my whole face redesigned, lol
Then that’s not a different person. Your question said would you get plastic surgery to look like a different person not your old self. If you want plastic surgery that’s fine I’m just saying if you want to try and look like someone else then it’s dumb.
No that’s stupid, and would be terrible because I’d be lying to everyone, I just want to get something back I once had
Yeah that’s fine, just word the question a bit better next time.
That’s creepy
What? the picture?
Yes she looks like a doll version of that woman
Her eyes are frightening, legit horrifying, they look like freaky sunflowers, while that other lady is just naturally good looking
Mentally and physically unhealthy
Yes, it's stupid and destructive.
It’s not destructive if you just want to change a minor flaw
Yes or there in the CIA or FBI.
What do u mean?
Their changing their look maybe so we don’t know who they are.
Ì don't think unhealthy at all
Why?
You are not perfect
well then you would want to become an improved version of yourself, not someone else
I would but I am perfect
Lol no your not
she looks fabulous
Who? The lady with the surgery has scary sunflower eyes
yes.
each of us are beautiful in our own ways.
even if u think she is scary.
you are not the most attractive on earth, so you have no right to call someone else ugly.
I want to be the most attractive, that's why I want nose job. I am like her. I didn't call her ugly, she is unique, her eyes are just like sunflowers. They are amazing, and I love girls with eyes like those, I have eyes like those
Yeah
Yes. It's crazy.
Not always, if one wants to get surgery to feel more content with themselves then it’s not, to fix a flaw or something they don’t prefer
Well they're not getting it to feel better about themselves. They're getting it to look like and feel like someone else which is very weird.
No I want to feel better about myself, that’s why I want surgery. That’s the only reason. How is it fair that a person get stuck with features they dislike? On top of this I have a scar on my neck everyone has stared at. My voice is quiet due to messed up vocal chords and lastly I’m short only 5’6.
🙄Okay first of all why can't I just have my opinion? You asked a question and I answered it. Soooo why are you bothering me?
I’m not, I’m sorry, sorry for burdening you with my issues, you don’t deserve it
If you need someone to talk to, I don't mind helping. But I just don't understand why you're disagreeing with me because I think its crazy for someone to get surgery to look like someone else. That's my opinion.
I’m disagreeing because we can’t help how we look, we didn’t choose our features, and if one doesn’t like something why not change it if they have the capacity? This whole love yourself thing just doesn’t work in the real world
Well you have to learn how to accept yourself. I had to. I use to be very insecure but I got over it and yes it took time but it's possible if you at least try.
How did you get over it? I bet you were good looking as hell. I don’t want to accept myself, I want a nose job and maybe jaw implants and I can’t help how I feel
I had to take time to ge to know myself a little bit more. When you're surrounded by a lot of people (ecspecially when they're negative) then u start to believe everything they tell you. At least thats howbit was for me. I use to want to kill myself but I gave my life to Jesus and he turned my life around.
But i think that u should start looking at ur good qualities. U seem like a very nice person who is just going through insecurities. Everyone has them so ur not alone. U just have to learn how to overcome those insecurities and start to see your character as more important than looks. Because u can change how much u want on the outside but if u don't learn to love yourself then you won't be satisfied with anything. And that's the truth. U probably don't believe me now and i understand bc i use to not believe until I tried. Trust me, it'll get better🤗🤗
You’re a very good person, I wish you the absolute best, sincerely. Thank you for at least trying, I appreciate it
Thanks and I wish the same for you as well. Please, don't hesistate to hmu if u ever need someone to talk to. I hope you have a wonderful day🤗🤗🤗
Yes I do
Like your username
Yes
Done
I want to transform myself into a person that is loveable and wanted
And I want to turn myself into Husky but I can't.
It's not worth the future problems that you would get from that surgery.
What future problems? You don’t even know what I want. I want a nose job and that’s it. If that doesn’t make me feel attractive, then jaw implants because my head is too narrow. But actually I’m just going to get the nose operation
I'm saying surgery as a whole not just your case. Everything has a conciquence no matter how small it is, in the end I can't and don't want to stop you doing anything you don't want to do. Just remember with plastic surgery, once you start, you can't stop.
You think it turns into an addiction? Like gambling
Na not like that, as in if someone gets plastic surgery on only a part of the face, once they get older it would get more obvious so then they would get the other part done to make it look even again. And so on...
Then what the hell am I supposed to do? I’m not attractive enough as I am to get a date. I have a hump nose and a narrow jaw and weak chin. These are defects I wanted to fix, but now you tell me I’ll look like shit when I’m older
It's just like a tattoo, looks great when your ginger but goes saggy when your older. It's a balancing act. And everyone looks like shit when their older because the next step is death. Not a beauty contest.
I want to be the most beautiful man in the world. I really do
You look at my posts and tell me if I can get a date or not
You taking the mick, I'm fuck ugly compared to you and I still have a girl. You could 10/10 get a date, probably 20× more likly compared to me.
What do you mean taking the mick?
'Are you joking' it's rhetorical, your not meant to answer it.
I’ve never been on a real date before
Nor have I, i just went with it and it worked, social situations cos we had the same interests.
Wait then how do you have a girlfriend?
I play Rugby, she plays Rugby (At the same club). We also both do Army Cadets so it was more social interactions that fixed dates.
Oh that’s cool
Yeah it's not bad actually. Just remember it's never only about looks, you have to be a good chap underneath.
I know, how can I work on my personality?
It's never the personality that's the issue, it's the confidence. That's the key, gaining the confidence.
Well what worked for you?
I'm not going to lie, it takes a long time, but it's so good once you get it, just start off having 20 seconds of confidence a week, slowly build it up until you get more comfortable. Then just keep going
Yes c
Why c?
I accidentally clicked c
Cute
Its not normal.
It is if it’s just something minor to fix an insecurity
For the most part people that do this still aren't happy afterwards. Its treating the symptom and not the source. Why even ask if you already have your mind made up?
How do I have my mind made up? When did I say that?
You're defensive and trying to convince people that there is nothing wrong with it. That to me sounds like your mind is made up.
Well that’s because I feel unhappy with myself and seek to change
Absolutely
Yes it is.
Yes. Very
Nope.