Why is it so hard to find good looking men out there nowadays? All the men I see are either super short or just unattractive. It’s so rare to see a man with a nice, strong chiseled jawline and aesthetically pleasing face like these men down in the pictures below. Most men I see hitting on me or out in the general public look repulsive especially compared to these men. Why is it so much harder to find good looking men (FACE-WISE) than it is to find good looking women?
Omg I noticed that too... but I think it has to do with the fact that better looking guys don’t have a reason to be bitter as they already got everything they want in life and have no trouble getting a date. Ugly guys, not so much, so it leads to them having a stick up their asses half the time and being hateful to all women just cus they got rejected.
On one hand I kinda disagree since many ugly guys take rejection as a sign to self improve, whereas good looking guys kinda just coast along in life and may not develop talents/ skills, etc because they got too much early validation at a young age. But then again, I have generally found that prettier girls are more friendly than the unattractive girls, who (atleast in bars and other social settings) seem a lot more guarded and standoffish. So I don't know, there might be something to your theory.
@SomeGuyCalledTom I just feel like most people who are actually quite not good looking are very mean because of how they feel and they like to make others very sad. I've seen it time and time again.
Why is it hard to find good looking men face wise as opposed to women? Ha! What a joke.
Most women alter their looknwith makeup, fake lashes fake eyebrows, lip injections... while most men don’t even wear makeup at all , much less the other stuff...
On another note, if most men that approach you are ugly, that screams only one thing... you’re about their level of attractiveness... so... there you go!
Those attractive men are going for beautiful attractive women or are gay...
So since you’re not that attractive yourself, you’re prone to have unattractive kids... and if they are boys, then you’ll just be part of the reason why there’s a bunch of ugly guys.. cause you helped make them.
If ugly men are such a big problem for you, don’t have kids! Cause you’ll hate your own.
Why is it so hard to find a hot woman, who looks like Jessica Rabbit?
All the women I see have tiny titties or they are just plain unattractive._. It's so rare to see a woman with nice, big and round boobs and aesthetically pleasing body shapes like in the pictures above. Most women I see hitting on me are too fat compared to these women. Why is it so much harder to find women with big tits than the small chested women?
The majority of women I've seen in real life either look hideous, extremely plain/boring or wear a shit ton of makeup to hide their natural face. Same thing online. Women use filters, lots of makeup, photoshop, etc to look different than what they truly look. And when you watch those videos of makeup gurus showing their face before applying their makeup, their face looks extremely not cute.
For both gender, it is actually rare to find someone who is NATURALLY super good looking lol that's just how it is unfortunately.
If there were a dislike post button on this app i would create 68 extra accounts just to dislike this one. For real though, these are fucking supermodels you chose, the top <1% of men. Not to mention these are photoshopped pictures as well. I wish all men looked this good just as much as i wish every girl had abs and medium-to-large tits and a fat ass and thighs but the world doesn't work that way. The only way you would be able to find one of those men is if you were attractive enough yourself, so please think before you post stupid shit
Because everyone you are currently showing are models and as such have been given -Face creams -Makeup to emphasize parts on the face like the jawline -Hair gel -Perfect angles and lighting for pictures
You can't use models as an expectancy of daily men, that's like a guy saying they don't understand why they can't get a girl who looks exactly like Scarlett Johansen *First name that came to mind*
The point is, if a guy said this, girls would be furious and guys have the right to be annoyed by this too, beauty is defined differently by each person and you can't just go about saying stuff like this.
Some people like short guys, some people like guys who don't have a sharp jawline, it's all about tastes.
And not all girls are super attractive, a lot of them rely on makeup whereas guys in public don't rely on that, so we are being honest about our appearances in all fairness.
Just came back from an overseas Europe trip. I had some 2-6 hour layovers where I just sit back and watch the freak show. There is rarely one of these model types male or female in the general population. In the US freak show, obesity is destroying everyone. There are few lean, a couple % >18yos out there. It seems like everyone has given up on looks, but even still how the hell can they stand carrying that blubber around. They all look like walking heart attacks to me. In Eastern Europe the story is inverted. There are few obese women (most likely tourists) there and the layovers there are difficult for the eyes not to lock on to some. When I fly local in Eastern Europe, the co-travelers fit nicely in the seats and there is room side to side but in the US few fit in the seats and their rolls invade my space. I just love when two huge ones have to sit next to each other. In order for you to see these models that you seek, you must be one first yourself.
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It's all a genetic lottery. Some men have what is considered handsome by societal norms but, also, some get some help with some cosmetic surgery tweaking if they are going into the entertainment industry
I'd worry less about the look a man. Some men look wonderful at 20 and fade with age while the men you might think of less attractive continue to take care of themselves and with age they look pretty darn good.
Why not just treat all men equally and see what happens. I don't mean you have to date just anyone but it might open your eyes that there are some really great men out there without chiseled features.
I'm obviously not a girl so I can't really judge their attractiveness, but the guys in the pictures really don't look all that to me. They're kinda just typical "pretty boys putting for camera looking all serious and brooding", it's nothing new. It's like the equivalent of the identical looking blonde girls at the club together, all wearing the same style of clothes, same haircut, same makeup, etc. But whatever, obviously you have a 'type' you enjoy, and that's just fine. A lot of these guys look kinda Swedish to me, maybe you'd find what you're after in the Nordic European countries like Sweden, Norway, Denmark etc?
Maybe someday you will learn to look deeper than the surface and ask yourself deeper questions. Like, for instance, could you hang with guy #1 if he spent 2 weeks out of every month skydiving? Find someone who's into what you're into. Looks are important but (my geez, I'm telling this to a chick!) they're not everything. In fact, because in most relationships you spend a lot of time talking, conversational skills are pretty important. Character is too.
So what? Models don't always have perfectly symmetrical features. Jennifer Gray, the girl who played "Baby" in Dirty Dancing and Ferris Bueller's sister, had a big bump in her nose. She was beautiful and wildly popular during that time. Then she got a nose job and couldn't get work. She changed what was uniquely beautiful about her. Kallie is uniquely beautiful too. You don't have to like her looks - thousands of other men would take any of those women in a heartbeat.
Shows how much YOU know. Jennifer Gray's career went south years ago after her nose job. My friend is doing fine just as she is. I'm sure neither of them give a shit about your opinion of their beauty, or their noses. LOL
Because there are fewer and less people that look like this. Thats why they are attractive. If every guy looked like this, this look wouldn't be attractive. Not to sound like a jerk but maybe guys that look like this aren't attracted to you... More often than not attractive people will be with other attractive people.
Models are supposed to be the very top percentage of men in terms of looks, and then they get professional makeup artists, personal trainers, hair stylists, fashion photographers, and nice clothes so they can look even better. The average guy doesn’t start out that good looking and he definitely doesn’t have the time and money for all that.
Everyone is beautiful. The beauty is in the difference. You might have your own pattern of beauty now and it might change later. You might also experienced differences between your pattern of beauty and others. It is very relative issue. Notice that: You might see very happy couples and he is beautiful for his lady but from your point of view he’s ugly; someone else says that man is ugly while you see him handsome. Each one has his/her own attitude. You can’t really make a standard for it. Besides, the real beauty is not on the physical appearance only, there are other dimensions. Think about a man in your eyes is very handsome. Then your experience with him became very bad and he abused you badly. You’re gonna hate him and everyone looks like him maybe. Your attitude changed.
Sure there are the few guys who naturally look a bit like this. But it's rare. A chiseled jawline is not a standard physical feature of all men. Face shape differs. You need a combination of Photoshop, makeup, and good photo angle and lighting to make someone look like that. Even I look great when these things (minus makeup) come together.
What a shallow post and some of those guys you posted are guys that cheated or dumped girls. Those types of guys know there super good looking so they can get many girls, so they won't value 1 girl, they will go after many girls. Those guys are in their 20s, check back 30 years on their lives and trust me they won't look so "hunky". Why do you girls/women complain and say OMG WHY ARE GUYS SOOO DIFFICULT AND EXPECT US GIRLS TO BE LIKE PERFECT?
I have to agree that good looking men are soooo much rarer than good looking women. I have no idea why. But while I'm in a shopping mall for example I can always see a few women that could easily be models, but no model-like men
Because not all women/people like that look. If we all looked like that; firstly it wouldn't be a rarity, and people like rarity, which is why so many seem to like redheads/gingers, and then there would be less variety in general and who wants to look like a clone? Eventually the gene pool shrinks too much and we would basically be physical carbon copies.
you want a guy who is gonna focus more on his own looks than focus on you, then sure why not wish for a guy like that but a real man have our priorities right, and maybe a bit rough around the edges but at least we wouldn't think twice about about rushing in to make sure those we care about are ok, where as pussies like this would be spent most their time trying to make sure they dont strain their hair style
Even if you do find such men, which isn't easy because the extremely attractive people only make out 1% of the world, you'd have to be good looking enough yourself to get their attention. It's funny how many women pose these extreme standards on the men they want without really being in that league themselves.
Because some dumbass whore started the ugly ass man bun and pub hair beard and told dumb whores it was hot. I swear i think they make up these trends to laugh at us. Literally one day before that was a thing men were getting lazer hair removal for smooth skin now they are getting hair transplants for beards. People need to stop listening to the media.
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