I see this a lot, especially when it comes to breast size. I see plenty of jokes on that or mean comments. People seem to forget breasts are mostly made out of fat, so usually women who are below 25% body fat aren't going to have big boobs. This is to give you an idea about how different body fat % look on womenMost will probably have a small ribcage (like 32-34) and a B/C cup. If you look at most celebrities and models that are thin and don't have plastic surgery most have "small" boobs. I said it like that because their boobs aren't that small for their frame, cup size is calculated according to band size. 32B is smaller in actual volume than 36B, but proportionally to the woman's ribcage the are just as big.
As for the lower body, some can get a great waist line (small waist to hip ratio) if they have great genetics and the necessary hormonal levels during puberty and after. Yes, they can be pear shaped, but most won't have huge bubble butts if they are thin. Their lower body may look big proportionally but in actual size they could wear a size small for trousers.To give you and example this is what Sierra Skye looked before plastic surgery and after. She still looked amazing, but she certainly wasn't born with that perfect hourglass shape.
Why do some people judge thin women for not being curvy?
Welcome to life where you'll be judged for your weight, eye color, gender, zodiac sign, height, salary, wealth, profession, diet, your birthday and the exact time of birth, lack of fake friends, absence of toxic habits, beliefs, goals, opinions, hair color, intellect, education or lack thereof, social media presence or absence, place of residence, name, nationality, favorite food, favorite porn categories, hobbies, looks, point of view, sexual orientation, music taste, past time experiences, virginity/experience, the way you kiss or knock on peoples doors, giving a damn about the flying spaghetti monster, backgrounds, body image, the frequency you are showering, reactions, verbal communication speed, travel destinations, health...
shall i go on? Or can i serve you some orange juice with ice cubes and pretzels?
I'd also say in this day and age it's a little harder for men than women. I'll give that both genders contributed as equally, but the thing is women are the ones who get more of a free pass or leeway to judge their opposite in general. This isn't women as an entire gender per se, but that is the way our culture influences them.
There are guys who love small boobs, guys who love big boobs, and guys who have no preference. You can't change their preferences and it is unlikely that you will change their verbal actions.
So. . . you should not be concerned with what "some" people think. There will always be people who are superficial, biased, ignorant, etc. and, frankly, they make the rest of us look good! All you need is one guy who loves you exactly as you are and you are good to go!
You don’t get a small waist during puberty. During puberty your hip bones widen and spread. So if anything you get bigger hip to Qatar ratio not smaller Waist to hip ratio.
the water looks smaller in reLation to the bios. And bc a lot of girls have baby fat on their stomach that spreads out to the hips when the hips widen. The way at appears smaller but it is not actually that any bones became smaller only wider.
Exactly!! They tell me I'm "too chubby". I lose small bit of fat. Then they tell me "I'm too thin". And it's usually other women that make these comments. And I'm not here to please nor impress them. Yes!! I'm thin. But I'm a HEALTHY thin. Instead of a anorexic lack of meat on my bones thin. I just tend to hide it so well with my clothes.
Chest size is not a selling point in my world. If I cannot get past the dace the rest is irrelevant. I tend to date attractive women merely because that is what I attract. Still, not all of them have what many would classify as perfect body, and frankly I do not care. If I like there face to start with I can over look a lot of what is considered flawed by conventional wisdom. I. E. stretch makes for example for those who have had children. Not a big deal. I give this example only because someone last night brought this up to me for some reason with regard to her body. Don't care...
“People forget”. Oh, please 99% of the ‘people’ telling women to be stick thin are women & gay fashion designers. Not straight men.
But feminists went overboard with the ‘fat acceptance’ (‘every woman is beautiful because we sat so’) bs. Women need to makeup their minds if they value mens’ opinions or not. It wasn’t men getting obsessed with weight numbers. We just don’t tend to like it when women look like hippos or noodles.
I am not talking about stick thin. Look at the body fat % photo. To me thin is below 25%, that includes healthy thin, fit, ripped and stick/unhealthy thin. Most women under 25% don't have big boobs. I am talking about the average woman, not exceptions.
Honestly your opinion doesn’t matter from a guy’s pov. Men & women don’t have the same ideas about what looks good - women tend to be way more critical or not critical enough. They have a knack for going overboard in both directions. It’s like you tell me 2pm is an okay time to eat lunch. If i agree with you, you feel vindicated but really just because 2pm is in my range doesn’t mean it’s ideal/required. Women tend to get fixated on ‘ideal’ exact numbers. Sorry if this doesn’t fit you. Just saying
Your reply doesn't have anything to do with what I replied with. My reply was correcting you on the type of woman we were talking about. Since I already gave pics of what my "thin" looks like, I don't think it was necessary. However, if you look at body fat categories my "thin" fits into the general thin.
I was right to think you wouldn’t get it & your response confirms that. See, when you ask a question, without having an open enough mind this is where things end
Everyone has a different taste! Some guys like thin women. Some guys like average sized woman Some guys like fit woman Some guys like fat woman. Some guys like slim thick woman. Don’t look what social media promotes Everyone is different!
Why does anyone judge anyone? They think their opinions are the only "right" ones. Or, they are made to feel insecure by any opinion that conflicts with their own myopic one. It seems to me that noone is harder on a woman's appearance than other women. What's up with that?
There's no place for denigrating women for having natural healthy bodies of any size and shape. Accepting the normal, healthy diversity in body types isn't the same thing as normalizing unhealthy obesity or unhealthy thinness. Some women are simply normally slim and are healthy.
I don't usually see things that make fun of women for not being curvy. That being said, breast size isn't always proportionate to the body. Overall body fat absolutely matters, but it's also genetic. Not every woman who is overweight has large breasts, and not every woman who is thin has proportionately small breasts
I dont know where you hear people being mean to skinny girls. I'm sure that most guys who aren't still virgin knows what girls looks like and although breasts are popular and are often seen as more attractive it doesn't mean a girl with small breasts can't also be both beautiful and sexy. People often forget that it doesn't take perfection in every single parameter to be attractive.
Honestly only ones i have seen judging are other woman, usually ones who are terrebly out of shape (fat). Besides some people will always judge other people and they usually doesn't care about your sex or race, it just give an other topic to judge on. Being fit is sexy and attractive, including small tits and but (better to have them small but firm not big and shagy..)
If you have friends or acquaintances who are judgmental, drop them and get new friends. You don't need that kind of attitude in your life. If for some reason you can't completely disconnect from them just realize that it is their problem and not yours. Ignore it.
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I think that goes both ways. I get tired of people saying that having a big butt/hips isn’t healthy. I have what you would call a pear shape. I’m far healthier than probably most women that wear a size 0. I believe it’s jealousy that us women get Checked out first. I’ve even caught guys that claim that they aren’t into women looking.
I agree with you completely. I don't judge anyone on physical attributes. It wasn't their choice to have small or big boobs or be attractive or unattractive to others. You are who you are. The only thing you can really control is the type of person you are. I judge people on that alone. I treat people like I expect to be treated.
People will always find something to complain about with every body type, unfortunately. It's usually a lot of insecure people with different body types that they feel are inferior to that type and therefore try to put it down.
Women can be thin and curvy just like they can be thicc and curvy. Women can also be thin and not curvy and fluffy and not curvy. Everyone is an individual and that's cool. It would suck if we were all the same.
i love girls with cute faces.. everyone has their own preference... even girls do judge boys.. to let's not be partial and feminist here. It depends on person to person what they like.. I prefer cute face girls...
There is a difference between having a preference and insulting everyone who doesn't match your preference... That was the point I was making. I have my preference in guys too, but I don't make jokes on guys who don't match it.
well babe... i have seen girls making fun of guys who they find unattractive or ugly looking.. so it is same both ways.. i don't make fun of anyone and neither do u... but if others do.. we cannot go to everyone and ask them to shut up... isn't that right?
Id never judge a woman for her weight even if I do have a preference. I do like average sized women though so 25 - 30% body fat. Im not really a fan of skinny women personally..
Its never "almost always" it's always 50/50 thin women dont like to shame bigger women bc they know they are just gonna say they are "anorexic" "you dont eat enough"but people are blind to the fact that genetics and metabolism play a role in this. You always notice bigger women shaming thin women bc thin women have been portrayed as "beautiful" on the media NOT bc we think we are better than bigger women but because bigger women are now being represented they feel the need to shame thin women since they have been represented the longest. You can't choose to judge the general population of skinny women when it's the MEDIA that CHOOSES to put us out there, not the everyday women you see.
The media puts out what the population wants. You don't realize the obvious advantage you have being skinny. While there are a select few, the majority of WOMEN don't shame other women. Quit acting like you're a minority and so picked on when you're obviously not. Being skinny means that you always can find your size. You never experience people giving you looks of disgust if you wear shorts in public. You don't have to wear long sleeved and sweaters because of the stretch marks on your arms. You don't have to have people make comments about you needing a diet or to see the gym. You don't get the sheer joy of taking a photo and having the only thing people talk about be your weight. I mean, actually think about it. Just exactly how are you shamed for being skinny?
Randomawkwardness it's not about what I can wear, or if I'm a minority or not it's about the unnecessary shame. Just bc we are skinny doesn't mean we dont have insecurities do you realize how many skinny women do get judged for being "too skinny" when some of them can't even help it? Just as frequently as heavier women. I get judged just for eating to much and still being able to stay skinny, bigger women are now getting less comments bc your being more represented, and obviously I'm not the only one that has experienced this shame from women like you. If skinny women shame bigger women it's a big deal but when its the other way around somehow we have to be put down all bc heavier women feel insecure. you know how nice it would be to actually gain weight? You know how many women actually go on weight gain journeys just as much as women do weight loss diets? Not playing the victim here at all just trying to clarify an ignorant comment.
Yes and I acknowledge that you have insecurities. Most every person does, it's not new. I'm just saying that heavier women are shamed MORE than skinnier women. Sure, heavier women are getting more acceptance but some modeling agencies still dont accept over a certain height to weight ratio. I'm not shaming you when I'm saying there is nothing wrong with being your weight. Obviously, it's easier to have less than more in this world. I know that women try and gain weight and its hard, just like women try to lose weight and it's hard. However, skinnier women still dominate the media and are more widely accepted than heavier. It's a fact and it's not even just because of what people find attractive - it has to do with actual health facts and our social environment regarding body shapea.
And that's where you're wrong. THIN WOMEN GET TOLD NOT TO WEAR CERTAIN CLOTHES TOO. When you're super thin, you're discouraged from wearing shorts or anything revealing because people say that bones, ribs, and flat asses are disgusting. And yes, you do get looks of disgust and get unsolicited diet advice when you're too thin. You also DO have a hard time finding clothes in yoru size. GTFO with your bullshit.
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