Okay please respect my honesty is I'm only trying to help. If you have the majority of your friends are men boys whatever that's going to be a negative. Secondly if you act too much like a boy that might be a negative too many me personally a little bit yea
next would be if you never ever what should I say it show yourself sometimes you got to dress like a girl and show people that you are pretty you know just if you don't like it don't do it that often but you should sometimes.. just some suggestions and it's not all turn off or anything it's kind of cool having a down-to-earth like chick but remember femininity is attractive like built into the man's DNA so I don't know what else I can say. Good luck.
I don't care, there is so much more in a person than their clothes, even than their face, obviously first look might help but in the end you can have a connection based on things that aren't as mundane as clothes
Haha my Big used to dresses like that but she was still popular with guys. I would honestly say be comfortable with who you are and how you dress which is the most important thing! ❤️ You would want someone who likes you for you and help grow with ya 🙂 Everyone has their own types, just as we don’t like every guy and not every guy would like us, right? I’m sure a guy wouldn’t mind as long as he also likes you for you and also see how you are feminine just as straight girls would still want their guys to be authentic yet masculine.
I follow a health influencer on Instagram. She puts out such positive messages and I’ll tell you what her husband said. “You go to Baskin Robbins. There are 31 flavours. Some are liked more than others, but each has a scoop taken from them.” You are somebody’s flavour, honey. You’ll find a guy that finds you attractive and wants to be with you 💕
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Well, having a sportive dressing style has nothing to do with how attractive you look. It is more a matter of how you look in them. They may not suit your body type well.
Boyish girls, or tomboys, or whatever such lovely creatures are called these days have always been more attractive to me that the fluffy girly-girls. With a girl who is into jeans and sneakers, tee shirts and baseball caps, one can go hiking on a trail, toss a ball in the park, go scuba diving (with proper training of course), motorcycle or bicycle riding, and a bunch of other fun stuff. With a girly-girl, you can go --- ummmm -- to a movie, to dinner, to a dance, to ---- ummm can't think of much beyond that.
In short, the pictures you posted are much more attractive to me than crinoline and lace bedecked ladies of society.
Then again, the opinion of a fossil like me probably doesn't hold much sway.
I actually think girls look pretty cute in T-shirts and jeans. Casual clothes on girls are really attractive. I don’t mean some red neckery outfit. But girls with longish hair look amazing with fit it caps/hats on. Wear your outfits with pride. What you wear does not define your worth or beauty. Maybe a crop top every once in a while wouldn’t hurt tho. You’re beautiful just the way you are. Don’t feel like something is wrong with your style just because some knuckleheads don’t appreciate your beauty. I PROMISE, a man will come along that will love the way you dress and love you exactly how you are, you won’t have to change a thing.
I hate the term "tomboy" because it just makes it seem like you can't just be who you are, and like what you like, without some label, and the 'baggage' that so many assume, with that!
I like her, the person, and a few that I have really liked were just wanting to explore interests like target shooting! LOVE that!!
Some just liked wearing certain clothes, and not looking 'girly'! LOL :)
It's so much more about how you relate, together, and what you like with each other!
Let the haters post their crap, and just laugh it off, finding someone that you really like being with!!
It depends on the guy. There are guys out there that don't care as much as what's inside. If they get you know the inner you I'm sure that would be more then enough It is for me and my girlfriend and we are going almost 4 years strong. I would never turn my back on her for dressing how she is comfortable.
No, personally I am only attracted to feminine women. If a women wears men's clothes and has a men's haircut, I think it would be difficult to find a guy that finds you attractive. Most men are not attracted to women who are overly masculine and look and act like men. Men are attracted to women because of their different body and appearance. If a women attempts to mimic the appearance of a man, obviously straight men will not be nearly as attracted to her. But a women who still looks female but is a bit of a tomboy is different. Some guys like tomboys because they might have more things in common with him.
Generally referred to a "Fashion Personalities," We all tend to fall into one category or another, usually labelled as "sporty, classic, romantic, or dramatic" In my experience we are usually most compatible with a similar personality. We may be ATTRACTED to a different one, but there will be a lot of friction down the road, as fashion is only one aspect of the different personality styles. Sporties are going to be much messsier than classics, for example, which will create conflict, even with same-sex roommates. Different styles eat differently, clean differently, spend their time and money differently. It's interesting and frustrating, at the same time. So, to answer your question, sporty guys will be more attracted to sporty girls. (you call them "boyish" which is a dead givaway that you are not a sporty.
They can be, id say, smiles and a little bit of make up, not much but some waterproof stuff here and there can be good to make you stand out but past appearances it's all about having fun with us guys at that point. We want you because you are fun to hang out with leading to spending life with
As far as I'm concerned, however you are most comfortable is how you appear the most attractive. It may just be me, but wearing baggy/comfy/warm clothes is quite attractive. Attractiveness isn't just about clothes or aesthetics though, and you sound like you have everything going for you in the personality department, so you're an absolute winner in my book.
you're obviously very pretty but I will be the first to admit my initial perception of someone may influence how I interact with someone. That perception is based to a some degree on how someone is dressed in addition to how they act with me. Do you feel like you are treated like a friend then therefore assume the roll of a friend. I'm willing to bet you have a lot of guys that are attracted to you but may not think its even an option.
I personally do find this kind of women attractive. Yeah, they look good in a nice dress during an occasion or something, but as for everyday wear, for some reason, I like a t-shirt with pants on them far more then dresses or skirts. Oh and a baseball cap. I really don't know why, but baseball caps on women are a hell of a pleasure for my eyes.
If she acts like a boy, as in she’s a stud or transitioning then no.
But I have found myself oddly attracted to Tom boys. I think it’s because they come off as more aggressive but still feminine. I’ve never been into submissive girls. But something about the bad ones always gets my attention.
Yes, dressed up boyish, but having clear feminine features like long hairs, painted nails, makeup on, waxed legs, and of course breast curves visible with or without bras.
Dressed up boyish with no feminine feature and masculine features showing up is a disaster.
Darling, wear whatever you want as long as it's accordingly to how you want to portray yourself. You can dress like that and still look feminine. Wearing skirt and dresses won't automatically make you feminine. There are plenty of obnoxious horses out there trying too hard to look feminine and failing miserably at it. Dress for yourself. There's no point to wear something uncomfortable only to get someone's attention.
Fuuuuuuck yes. Girls who give off bi/androgynous vibes have my heart. I might be biased though. Almost all my clothes are mens clothes.
I'm sure you'll find someone who will go for you the way you want to be. It's not unusual for guys to want to be a girl whose appearance is different from their own. So you're just reducing your "pool of available guys". On the other end of the spectrum, guys also don't like girls who are way, way too prissy either.
Hey I don't blame you, our clothes are more comfortable after all. 😋
I don't care if a girl likes to dress boyishly, I think it's cute actually. Not sure why those guys aren't going for you, I probably would.
You look like a chick itself not atall like boyish it's just a clothing it can make your look change gender wise, I would prefer that it's casual it's simple and I could save lot of money by not buying dumb make up kit
Which I can invest on her well being so personally and monitorially I would be haaaaaaaapy it's a win win for me😎👍
Yes guys like that... i have had the same problem my whole life. But i love being a little tomboy thats how im comfortable. Yes over the years there are times when you have to dress like a girly-girl which i do. But i prefer the tomboy look. To be honest i like to think i can rock a dress or skirt with tims!!! And i have never had a problem attracting a man. I will say that i do feel that your pants, tee shirts etc have to fit just right shouldn't be to big bc guys like to see your form.
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