Okay please respect my honesty is I'm only trying to help. If you have the majority of your friends are men boys whatever that's going to be a negative. Secondly if you act too much like a boy that might be a negative too many me personally a little bit yea
next would be if you never ever what should I say it show yourself sometimes you got to dress like a girl and show people that you are pretty you know just if you don't like it don't do it that often but you should sometimes.. just some suggestions and it's not all turn off or anything it's kind of cool having a down-to-earth like chick but remember femininity is attractive like built into the man's DNA so I don't know what else I can say. Good luck.
I don't care, there is so much more in a person than their clothes, even than their face, obviously first look might help but in the end you can have a connection based on things that aren't as mundane as clothes
Haha my Big used to dresses like that but she was still popular with guys. I would honestly say be comfortable with who you are and how you dress which is the most important thing! ❤️ You would want someone who likes you for you and help grow with ya 🙂 Everyone has their own types, just as we don’t like every guy and not every guy would like us, right? I’m sure a guy wouldn’t mind as long as he also likes you for you and also see how you are feminine just as straight girls would still want their guys to be authentic yet masculine.
I follow a health influencer on Instagram. She puts out such positive messages and I’ll tell you what her husband said. “You go to Baskin Robbins. There are 31 flavours. Some are liked more than others, but each has a scoop taken from them.” You are somebody’s flavour, honey. You’ll find a guy that finds you attractive and wants to be with you 💕
Wow thank you. That's so helpful.
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Well, having a sportive dressing style has nothing to do with how attractive you look. It is more a matter of how you look in them. They may not suit your body type well.
You can dress comfortably and still look sexy or elegant
Boyish girls, or tomboys, or whatever such lovely creatures are called these days have always been more attractive to me that the fluffy girly-girls. With a girl who is into jeans and sneakers, tee shirts and baseball caps, one can go hiking on a trail, toss a ball in the park, go scuba diving (with proper training of course), motorcycle or bicycle riding, and a bunch of other fun stuff. With a girly-girl, you can go --- ummmm -- to a movie, to dinner, to a dance, to ---- ummm can't think of much beyond that.
In short, the pictures you posted are much more attractive to me than crinoline and lace bedecked ladies of society.
Then again, the opinion of a fossil like me probably doesn't hold much sway.
I actually think girls look pretty cute in T-shirts and jeans. Casual clothes on girls are really attractive. I don’t mean some red neckery outfit. But girls with longish hair look amazing with fit it caps/hats on. Wear your outfits with pride. What you wear does not define your worth or beauty. Maybe a crop top every once in a while wouldn’t hurt tho. You’re beautiful just the way you are. Don’t feel like something is wrong with your style just because some knuckleheads don’t appreciate your beauty. I PROMISE, a man will come along that will love the way you dress and love you exactly how you are, you won’t have to change a thing.
I hate the term "tomboy" because it just makes it seem like you can't just be who you are, and like what you like, without some label, and the 'baggage' that so many assume, with that!
I like her, the person, and a few that I have really liked were just wanting to explore interests like target shooting! LOVE that!!
Some just liked wearing certain clothes, and not looking 'girly'! LOL :)
It's so much more about how you relate, together, and what you like with each other!
Let the haters post their crap, and just laugh it off, finding someone that you really like being with!!
It depends on the guy. There are guys out there that don't care as much as what's inside. If they get you know the inner you I'm sure that would be more then enough It is for me and my girlfriend and we are going almost 4 years strong. I would never turn my back on her for dressing how she is comfortable.
Awww I'm so happy for you
No, personally I am only attracted to feminine women. If a women wears men's clothes and has a men's haircut, I think it would be difficult to find a guy that finds you attractive. Most men are not attracted to women who are overly masculine and look and act like men. Men are attracted to women because of their different body and appearance. If a women attempts to mimic the appearance of a man, obviously straight men will not be nearly as attracted to her. But a women who still looks female but is a bit of a tomboy is different. Some guys like tomboys because they might have more things in common with him.
Generally referred to a "Fashion Personalities," We all tend to fall into one category or another, usually labelled as "sporty, classic, romantic, or dramatic" In my experience we are usually most compatible with a similar personality. We may be ATTRACTED to a different one, but there will be a lot of friction down the road, as fashion is only one aspect of the different personality styles. Sporties are going to be much messsier than classics, for example, which will create conflict, even with same-sex roommates. Different styles eat differently, clean differently, spend their time and money differently. It's interesting and frustrating, at the same time. So, to answer your question, sporty guys will be more attracted to sporty girls. (you call them "boyish" which is a dead givaway that you are not a sporty.
They can be, id say, smiles and a little bit of make up, not much but some waterproof stuff here and there can be good to make you stand out but past appearances it's all about having fun with us guys at that point. We want you because you are fun to hang out with leading to spending life with
As far as I'm concerned, however you are most comfortable is how you appear the most attractive. It may just be me, but wearing baggy/comfy/warm clothes is quite attractive. Attractiveness isn't just about clothes or aesthetics though, and you sound like you have everything going for you in the personality department, so you're an absolute winner in my book.
you're obviously very pretty but I will be the first to admit my initial perception of someone may influence how I interact with someone. That perception is based to a some degree on how someone is dressed in addition to how they act with me. Do you feel like you are treated like a friend then therefore assume the roll of a friend. I'm willing to bet you have a lot of guys that are attracted to you but may not think its even an option.
I personally do find this kind of women attractive. Yeah, they look good in a nice dress during an occasion or something, but as for everyday wear, for some reason, I like a t-shirt with pants on them far more then dresses or skirts. Oh and a baseball cap. I really don't know why, but baseball caps on women are a hell of a pleasure for my eyes.
If she acts like a boy, as in she’s a stud or transitioning then no.
But I have found myself oddly attracted to Tom boys. I think it’s because they come off as more aggressive but still feminine. I’ve never been into submissive girls. But something about the bad ones always gets my attention.
Yes, dressed up boyish, but having clear feminine features like long hairs, painted nails, makeup on, waxed legs, and of course breast curves visible with or without bras.
Dressed up boyish with no feminine feature and masculine features showing up is a disaster.
I'm sure you'll find someone who will go for you the way you want to be. It's not unusual for guys to want to be a girl whose appearance is different from their own. So you're just reducing your "pool of available guys". On the other end of the spectrum, guys also don't like girls who are way, way too prissy either.
Darling, wear whatever you want as long as it's accordingly to how you want to portray yourself. You can dress like that and still look feminine. Wearing skirt and dresses won't automatically make you feminine. There are plenty of obnoxious horses out there trying too hard to look feminine and failing miserably at it. Dress for yourself. There's no point to wear something uncomfortable only to get someone's attention.
Fuuuuuuck yes. Girls who give off bi/androgynous vibes have my heart. I might be biased though. Almost all my clothes are mens clothes.
But seriously honey PLEASE dont dress to impress anyone... especially men. Dress how YOU want. What makes YOU comfy and happy. Any guy who tries to tell you how to dress can die in a fire you dont need that shit
Yesssss thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Hey I don't blame you, our clothes are more comfortable after all. 😋
I don't care if a girl likes to dress boyishly, I think it's cute actually. Not sure why those guys aren't going for you, I probably would.
Aww thank you
I really mean it, the girls who dress boyishly usually have the coolest personalities. These boys are dumb for getting hung up over what you wear.
Yes, they are. They don't know what they're missing. Haha.
Of course, if you're like me, I mostly just think about what she would would look like without clothes, hehe.
But they definitely are missing out. It's insane that they wouldn't date a cute girl just because she prefers to wear boy clothes, especially since it makes me adore them even more. You do you and wear whatever you want!
Awww yessss 💙💙💙
The best thing about tomboys is that she can wear your clothes, and you can wear hers. Also, it's easier to fondle her intimate areas beneath her looser clothes, and getting her clothes off is also much easier. ❤️
You look like a chick itself not atall like boyish it's just a clothing it can make your look change gender wise, I would prefer that it's casual it's simple and I could save lot of money by not buying dumb make up kit
Which I can invest on her well being so personally and monitorially I would be haaaaaaaapy it's a win win for me😎👍
Yes guys like that... i have had the same problem my whole life. But i love being a little tomboy thats how im comfortable. Yes over the years there are times when you have to dress like a girly-girl which i do. But i prefer the tomboy look. To be honest i like to think i can rock a dress or skirt with tims!!! And i have never had a problem attracting a man. I will say that i do feel that your pants, tee shirts etc have to fit just right shouldn't be to big bc guys like to see your form.
Ok let me say this to u then because if u was around me then u would be on the move all the time because I couldn't keep my hands to my self so yes I love a Women that is very girly but I don't mind one who is boyeish dressing at all as long as u wear snug pants an not baggie one's.
God Bless
Definitely. I prefer doing something active usually, and that doesn't mix with dresses and skirts. And boyish girls aren't afraid to get their clothes dirty in the dirt, or if we need to change something in a motor or such. Definitely a plus from me
well yes I think boyish and tomboy girls are so attractive
have you seen Ruby Rose?
oh God I love this girl
Yesss she's a bomb
I dress girly some days and other days I dress like a grown man. I haven’t really noticed a difference in the levels of attention I get from men. I don’t think men really care what you wear. An attractive outfit helps, but I think men pay more attention to your face and general body shape.
I personally prefer the casual Tom boy look. I don't date the prissy fake girls that need everything handed to them because they think they deserve to be pampered all of their lives without having to do some kind of actual work.
Although I'm usually attracted to the more femininely dressed girls, such a look is not a deal breaker for me. And nice pants can be very attractive, especially if they're tight around the butt. Can be better than a dress or skirt.
Depends on the guy. I have an androgynous face. If I have my curly fro and had on a large teeshirt and loose jeans I in fact look like a guy in a quick glance which is partly why guys aren’t so quick to say anything if that’s my look when I’m out.
Do not call yourself boyish just say tomboy that is less creepy lol. Either way dressing a certain way isn't a big deal.
Well it's different from person to person, but based off of the pictures above, I'd say the top is least attractive and the bottom is the most, physically speaking.
If their personality is "boyish" as well, then I'd likely see them as a friend almost exclusively, but I'm unsure. I still have to actually get to know one yet.
Wtf is a "boyish" personality?
@Felicityoyo I'm making air quotes for a reason.
By "boyish" I normally mean something like "being one of the boys" and giving that particular vibe or something along those lines
To a certain extent, yes. I've always been a bit of a tomboy myself. However, I don't typically find myself being attracted to women that would be considered "butch."
Yeah, I actually prefer girls like you because I feel they're usually less pretencious than feminine girls and it's easier to make an intimate connection.
So she's from the country not all girls dress the same. For that matter neither do guys which brings up those fucking gsy looking skinny low cut for guys w t f. Seriously. Me Wrangler cowboy cut there is no substitute. Prince charming will come along either in a Ford or 4 wheeler. Good luck. And if he don't look me up
Yaa, i they look cute in such dress. And one thing, oneday u'll really get the person who will love the real you! So, BE YOURSELF😊😁👍👍
Yessss thank youuuuu
Ure welcome!😊
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Well there are attractive tom boys. It all depends. As long as she shaves, showers and smells like a girl I don’t worry about her wearing jeans and T-shirt.
Tom boys can be a bit feisty which can be fun as long as they don’t go too far with it.
I often assume their bi. But to be fair I’ve met several tom boys who are completely straight. I take their word for it.
I personally like femininity in girls,
I like the way they shy away from doing things, the way it is hard for a guy to really get a girl love him, the way it is hard for her to make way for him into her life, the way she easily cries in his arms to let him know, the way she easily gives away her anger when a boy gifts her a teddy or a bunch of flowers with a sorry note.
Tomboyish girls don't always have all these qualities in them.
So no I don't find them attractive.
your making an assumption girly girls are that fragile. tbh girly girls are far more dramatic and less forgiving
Yeah I know that, there are different types 😝😝
I mean they're ^ okay...
But if a porn scene has a girl with short hair in, as in boy hair y'know.. I turn it off.. I'm out.
Crazy how much boy hair is a turnoff to me. So on this particular subject it's all about the hair..
One possibility is that guys might percieve your style as suggesting your interest is not guys.
Hmm maybe. 🤔 Thank youuuu. 😊
aw that drives me mental! I'm the exact same. Just cause I don't wear fancy clothes to gaffs that shows my tits, hips and thighs therefore I must be a lesbian or bi. nothing wrong with that, but I'm straight.
Believe me when I say this , but you like everyone else is addressed how they dress or the lack of. Others response to your appearance or first impressions are generally met with a immediate response. Therefore dress as you wish to be addressed.
You don't look too boyish to me you will get your man
Just keep being yourself
Yesss, thank you
I'm all about the
" Tomboy" look! No high maintenance, no drama, no" oh darn I cracked a nail... boohoo boohoo! "
As long as You love Yourself first and are confident in your personality... let's go fishing !!!
it depends on the styles you're choosing to wear... if you're going for a butch look, you may not get much attention... but it should be fine if you're choosing feminine styles... its super rare that women wear dresses or skirts these days
Why not? A style is personal. I like you for you, not your clothes.
Very much depends on how she pulls it off the second girl still looks feminine. The first and 3rd don't. I think I'm also more forgiving depending on the girls body type
So like tomboy sorta style? Yeah they usually are easier to talk to in my opinion
"I am straight but I don't like wearing dresses, skirts, and sandals. I prefer t-shirts, pants, and sneakers."Me in a nutshell lmao I felt that
I used to be super boyish and my boyfriend liked it.
Sounds as though you boyfriend is gay.
@Andrew1968 agj seeoulsy grow up
Straight boy likes girlish.
Gay boy likes boyish.
Either you wear skirts and dresses or you find a boyfriend who wears skirts and dresses - which do you prefer?
Yeah, unless it's to the extreme, but for most tomboyish girls they're attractive.
I find feminine women the most attractive but a girl can dress however she wants, if she wants to dress comfortably go for it.
I use to be like this and I use to get much more attention
That's wonderful I personally like people like u no load of dressing makeup just being u and pretty and smart and putting whatever u like Jean's tshirt shirt u will find someone whom u ll like
Ima be honest, if someone I known for a while and got to know how they behave and stuff, it wouldn't matter I'll go with a nicer person then a mean person
I personally am only attracted to girls who are feminine. There are enough of people out there looking like dudes. I want my girl to dress, act, smell and look like a girl right off the bat. Without having to question what gender she is.
Id love to datr a tomboy but some people probably uncomfortable w8th it
I am very attracted to boyish girls. Such a turn on for me.
You don't have to stick to one style. You can mix things up.
There's always a time to be girly.
Those styles are ok, but I don't like a masculine behavior. I guess people make judgmental thoughts on the first impression on you by your clothes.
Their clothing is kind of urban (except the last one). Yes, I do like it, but as long as they ACT like girls.
It takes femininity to attract me and tattoos and exotic piercings are a real turn off. I'm not attracted to anything boyish at all.
As long as they're expressing themselves and not afraid of other people's opinion then it's a turn on I personally dont care much and if I would it would def be a plus not a minus
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