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I actually dress similarly. The one thing you have to be careful of is that men seem to falsely think that I'm a pushover, that I'm a domestic goddess, or that I just want to massage a man's feet and make him a sandwich. People LOVE putting others into boxes, so just be aware that you might be branded as slighter old fashioned.
*slightly
As a woman, you should never dress for a man. We do it for the girls and the gays. Wear what YOU like, regardless of what a man might think of it. If he doesn’t like your style, he’s not worth your time. Your confidence and appearance should never be decided by someone else’s opinion and that’s on confidence and independence😌💅be yourself and the right one will come along
Women who dress modestly have my full respect, and it is a turn on. I was never interested in women who exposed as much skin as humanly possible to give every guy they walk past an erection. That does send a message and not a very good one. I suppose the way a lot of women dress these days is a tell all about what they are looking for..
I will add something to this. I like women who have the appearance of being reserved. It adds a certain allure to them that those who reveal everything (or next to everything) just don't have. It's very appealing.
Yeah, except if it's at the beach or another water setting. That's how I work.
@UncleJessieRabbit I can dig it.
Not gonna lie. I'll probably be one of those men who'd thing you're a prude if I see you dressed like this. The thing is that really doesn't matter at the end. What matters is your capacity to socialise with men and identify those who are compatible with who you are.
I like when girls wear like skirts like playing with it side to side its something beautiful, it stupid to think dressing style could get you a boyfriend they can make them attracted towards you but you make them stay with you, your personality and persons kindness and compassion love and femininity true character
Don't listen to your friend, she's steering you wrong. Be YOU. Dress for YOURSELF, not anyone else. Your personality and overall good looks will get you a boyfriend WORTH having in the long run. That said, don't dress like a nun either. Modest can still be attractive and alluring.
I'd take out any of those girls based on those outfits, no question.
It's extremely attractive! Your friend has bought into the live that women need to be sexual to be attractive. But that's a brand new idea that's only a few decades old. for hundreds of thousands of years women have attracted men by being feminine. It's tried and true, so stick with it
❕🎀 Nothing wrong with that kind of dressing. It shows modesty and Elegance.
And if you are to dress like that as your theme style. High chance are you will attract a guy of a higher class. And a guy who is to respect.
Since they say the kind of dressing style you show case. It means a lot about you.
So once you are to dress in skimpy dresses and skirts then do not be offended if you get dick heads and paverts, With no respect.
Dress for yourself no one else. The right man will come along who either prefers this type of fashion /and or one who simply doesn't care and seeks you out for who you are rather than something shallow.
When you say "dress for yourself" that can also refer to dressing like a gutter slut. Dressing like that will not get you a good man. On the other hand I love her choices and would dress , like that any day of the week instead of something revealing. Besides, I don't have the body for wearing revealing clothes. :(
@Daniela1982 Not necessarily. In most cases probably true but my closet consists of pretty much only crop tops, tight jeans and leggings. My clothes are revealing but there are ways to do that while also still looking put together and showing that you take care of yourself. My boyfriend is an amazing man who likes how I dress. Maybe my case is rare but it's definitely possible to find someone who not only respects you while you dress how you want but also supports it. & My point was yes dress for yourself. If you want to dress like a "slut" and you choose to you can choose to do that for yourself rather than to please and seek out others. It could attract attention you don't want but not many people who dress proactively don't mind that, some enjoy it. Many people dress to attract the type of person they want, some do it simply because they like how they look in certain styles. I say at the end of the day it is in your best interest to wear what makes you happy, modest or "slutty" because in the end you should want to be with someone who accepts you for who you are rather than your appearance.
I hope that's the deal I'm getting; A feminine girl who's modest. And not a wolf in sheeps clothing. But I'm not really into the whole dress sexy stuff... I feel there is a time and place for that. Also a girl like that it's possible she just doesn't have clothes that are sexy but if she wears clothes like that cause she likes to be covered it shows she's not so concerned with attention seeking. If she cute, I'd definitely approach.
She doesn't have to dress in a dress to look feminine, she can dress modestly or in even in a bikini and look feminine. But she can't have masculine mussels tattoos and wear her hair butch and expect to look feminine. That will never work, all of which deface oppose and destroy femininity directly.
Dress how you want and don't let peer pressure get to you. A modest woman is a million times more attractive than any of the alternatives. I look away from cleavage, if it's not there, no distractions from her face. However your friend is partly right, people that value modesty also value virginity.
Who cares what others think? If you like the style then do it! Why dress differently just to attract a boy? Eventually. A boy who likes you and the clothes you wear will come along. Don’t change yourself just for a boy, trust me it’s not worth it
I love that style! Dress how you want and one day you will find someone who appreciates it because it’s who you are.
You may not attract every guy but it might weed out the ones who just want sex.
You can dress modestly and still be appealing. And you won't look like a prude unless you act like one. If you are open to conversation you'll get attention.
I love it! It shows a girl respects herself without regard to what "everybody else" may be doing! I was always attracted to that! And if a girl like that was willing to be intimate with me, even a little, it really meant something to me!
I dress feminine and modest. It’s not true and your friend is wrong. Dressing modestly doesn’t mean you won’t get a boyfriend. If a guy doesn’t want you because of that he’s not somebody you want to be with anyway
Looks nice but it does kinda give a feeling like you maybe had helicopter parents growing up. And kind of just adapted just what your parents wanted. I guess lack of personal expression and a bit dated. But thats my geuine honest feelings.
Dress how you like and be confident in your own style. The kinda of guys you want to attract will be more drawn to your confidence and femininity than how short your skirt or low cut your top is.
Half of those are good the other is meh, either way nothing wrong with that style, getting a boyfriend has more to do with how you look and how you act not so much how you dress.