Does a guy have to look like a model for him to be attractive to women?

[Anonymous]

I don't want to involve myself in that black pill stuff because that shit is really depressing. But does a guy need to look like model if he's going to be attractive to women?

[Youryeodongsaeng]

This is the saddest thing that goes on in the mind. What makes you attractive is your personality. We now have these percentage of people who'll want to befriend you and get to know you and decide if you're attractive or not. There's one way to feel you're attractive: the person that tells you that they genuine likes your personality, is what makes you attractive in their eyes... And maybe other people. Basically it depends on what people like. But this is society and like I said, there are those percentage of people who'll want to befriend you, regardless of how you look. I know I would.

[Asker]

I've had a waaaaayyy different experience than you when it comes to looks and how people especially women treat you. And mind you, my personality isn't the greatest but it's not horrible either

[Youryeodongsaeng]

I've never had that experience nor had I been in your shoes. I never had friends and nobody wanted to associate with me. I'm guessing it was because I was having a temper tantrum and throwing desks, for people to begin to bully me.
I'm just those percentage of people who has been bullied and verbaled abused to the point where I want to be nice to those people who desveres it and respect others. I want to treat people with kindness.

[MrBadd]

I don't think so. Different women do have different tastes. You just have to do the best with what you've got. Get yourself in good shape, dress well and in a way that suits you.

Figure out what kind of woman you like or which type would suit you. For women attraction is more mental than it is physical. Even the physical stuff to them is about what's underneath, your outer appearance telling them something about you.

It really is more-so about personality for them, the trouble is guys take the to mean "a guy who is nice" when it's about other things, everything but that really. Nice doesn't get you laid - interesting, funny, confident etc. Those do. You can work on that too if you put your mind to it.

[Asker]

What if facially some thing is wrong?

[MrBadd]

What do you mean by that?

[Asker]

Facial flaws is what im talking about here

[MrBadd]

Yeah but what facial flaws?

[Asker]

Weak jawline and two crooked bottom teeth

[MrBadd]

Ah right so you're not deformed then. You'll be fine. The worst thing you can do is be insecure about it. Women can sniff that out. I'm no oil painting either but I don't give a shit and I get laid.

[Asker]

But have you seen women's deal breakers?
Weak jawline is a dealbreaker and crooked teeth even just slightly are deal breakers for them

[MrBadd]

What women say doesn't even matter. They fall for guys who aren't their usual type all the time. I've known some ugly motherfuckers, and I mean ugly, who've had attractive women eating from the palms of their hands. I've also known really good looking dudes who don't get laid because they're afraid to go and say hi to a woman.

[Asker]

I want to believe that man but unfortunately my past experiences make it really difficult to see things differently. Maybe one day i will. Who knows

[MrBadd]

Getting rejected a bunch of times can be demoralising, I get it. Still, if you want to happy you should use it as fuel. It should piss you off that you're not getting what you want. Let it piss you off, get angry. Use it to light a fire under your ass and to relentlessly improve yourself, your situation, and go after whatever it is that you want.

[NathanDavis]

I don't look like a model so no, you don't need that, there are many other reasons why people will be attracted to you (or won't.)

[Asker]

What if woman aren't attracted to you because of the way you look even though there's physically nothing wrong with you?

[NathanDavis]

Attraction is subjective and it is also about perception, there is dozens of hundreds of celebrities that are all kinds of attractive, and yet... I do not feel attracted to them, and not because I find something wrong with them, is just that "it doesn't do anything for me"

And we're no different from that, if women in general are not attracted to you, there has to be some reasons and it might not be your looks, it could be your attitude, your reputation, your hygiene, your lack of confidence, your many other yours possibly.

[Anonymous]

No, not at all in my opinion. The guys I always liked were actually pretty average, but I am definitely more of a personality/emotional connection person and don't really have a physical "type".

[Asker]

What if people accuse you of lying for saying this?

[Opinion Owner]

Eh, they can believe what they want, I suppose. I have nothing to prove to anyone, it is just my opinion.

[Asker]

Frustrating thing about all of this is i hear G@G opinions and want to believe some of the things that are told on here but then i have bad experiences and it out beats the opinions of G@G

[Opinion Owner]

I get what you're saying. Everyone is different, so meeting people IRL that have the same opinions as someone online may be hit or miss. I definitely have a different taste in men than most of my friends.

[Asker]

Yet it feels like most women want the same thing. You know a 6ft guy with a six pack abs & chiseled jawline. And from my experiences, that what girls are after

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I've noticed that too. Some people have some pretty high standards that they're not willing to budge on.

[Asker]

And yet guys are called the shallow ones smh

[Ironic_Method]

No. I'm not a model and some women find me attractive. And I'm kind of a dick.

[Asker]

You're a good looking dude so of course women will still find you attractive

[Ironic_Method]

It's a flattering picture. There's a reason I chose this one.

[Shihab91]

That's women on dating apps but in real life its easier

[Shihab91]

Sorry not easier but more realistic

[Siren777]

No he does not. Everyone has different taste.

[Asker]

What if he isn't anyone's taste?

[slatyb]

I don't look like a model and women love me.