I've always attracted stereotypically "hot" men, does this mean I am attractive?

[Diaforos22]

My entire life I've felt always felt like I was unattractive. When I was in elementary I use to think to myself in the mirror that I looked like a "demon child". I started to feel cute as a teen but never ever felt more than just "cute" in my 22 years. But despite my insecurities, I've manage to always shoot high when it comes to dating because I've never found it hard to get guys, and I don't mean just any guy but guys I felt were truly out of my league, like model looking, Greek God, looking men who also were kind, passionate, thoughtful, and smart at what they do in their field. But I wasn't ever pining for these guys. They came to me so I don't think I look easy. I enjoy a slow burn and take awhile to "put out". But despite having only ever dated guys I would only think to in my wildest dreams (except 1), I've never felt truly "beautiful". I mean I do feel it when I'm with them but every time I see a photo or glance in the mirror I think, "What do they see in me? Why does he say I'm stunning/sexy/gorgeous?" So yeah , I'm curious what y'all think.

[Lone_wolf122]

Can't really tell anything without knowing what you look like, right?

[Diaforos22]

Yeah but I'm just curious if it's logical to assume if you always get guys that are hot (tight/muscular bodies) with even more beautiful faces), then I must also be hot? That's my point lol is that a good way to decide if you don't see it for yourself in the mirror

[Diaforos22]

And I get beauty is subjective but I mean the kind of hot that even straight men and lesbians would say he's unbelievably hot

[Lone_wolf122]

I don't know exactly, similar thing happens with me, I get quite too much female attention and most times they're really cute
... I'm like you too lol.. I sometimes wonder what are they seeing and I'm missing.. I don't know, maybe I'm being too harsh on myself

[Lone_wolf122]

I guess it's your " aura " or something

[Diaforos22]

Oh, I wouldn't just call them cute, but incredibly stunning lol but yeah I think you are too harsh on yourself. Based of your photos, you are very attractive. To be completely honest, I wouldn't say you are stunning but you are definitely above average from what I can see of you in your profile picture.

You know, I never really believed in the "aura" thing. But you have a point... Perhaps there really is something about "auras" that make us more attractive then we are to certain people.

[Lone_wolf122]

Thanks... Yeah I think it helps understanding... I think i can give an example for a similar thing... I think i can sense if someone is nice or kind just from looking at them... so stuff like this definitely play a factor

[Ripper_E]

You are attractive to those men

[kevyhanma]

No I attract hot men too

[Diaforos22]

What's your definition of hot though? When I say hot I don't mean in my opinion only I mean hot in that no one we are friends with or family can deny that they are close to being a 10?

[Diaforos22]

Like the kind of hot that even straight men will say ya , he is hot

[kevyhanma]

Pretty boys Harry styles Jeremy Meeks type guys theyre just really pretty looking dudes the kind of guy that if a girl dated him she would be kinda insecure because he looks better than her the kinda guy who wakes up in the middle of the night to look in the mirror and say “I’m so cute” ya know it actually kinda weird I don’t think I’m all that good looking gay men are very persistent