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Usually beauty and brains are never associated together. Maybe because of the older televisions shows that portrayed blonds as scattered brained.
Then you come to the fact that when a beautiful woman goes out in public, every guy seems to think that they have something that she would want. Even though they would never settle down with her. So you have all the horn dogs drooling on her.
The girl next door is usually the one that isn't afraid to break a nail and knows how to change a flat, but can become a swan when she feels like the time is right.
The planet is populated by "average looking" people. Would I like to be dating Catherine Bell? sure, but that's never goin go happen, so it's better to set realistic standards.
Regardless, most of the "average/ordinary" girls who post their photos actually look quite nice. They're been brainwashed into thinkin that if they're a few pounds overweight or if the wear glasses, they are automatically unattractive. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Yeah but I was talking soley on appearance for sure I’d date the more average person because obviously that’s realistic but the question is on who’s more ttractive first glance not who would I date, if you know what I mean.
I waited to give a different answer here but after seeing the pictures, no lass. The second girl is much better than the first. The second girl is a goddess. I can also imagine the insecurities and entitlement of the first girl. Run for your lives everybody.
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Nah its cause people are rating realistically, by this i dont mean that average girls are prettier and all that bullshit, what im sayin is that people are rating realistically is that with the media and photoshops and all this technology women can change their physical appearance or manipulate images, i prefer keeping it realistic and seeing the beauty in the average women 🤷🏽♂️
Ah I see, but Um no offence but how would men know the second girl isn’t photoshopped? It’s so easy to change an image. The first girl is just pretty, I’ve seen videos of her and she looks the same as the photo, so taking in all these potential factors is kinda inaccurate because you never know.
Yes we dont fully know, its why we go by instinct, but by scrolling through images of men, and you run into an image of an average looking guy and compare it to an image of a instagram male model, what would you think? wouldn't you be like well this image looks a bit more realistic than the other
Its just with technology its hard to tell whats been manipulated and what hasn't but sometimes you can tell just by the way the image looks
True but if someone wants me to rate them only on looks then I’ll give them a rating only on looks regardless of what editing there might’ve been, it’s not like imma date any of the candidates so what’s the point of reading into it that much for such a simple question lol but yes ofc more professional photos look more enhanced than mediocre ones.
Thing is that with edits and photoshops, you are no longer rating the real looks just a modified version
That’s why I usually say “rate this photo of her” rather than “rate her” lol
Well that is a small loophole around it, nice finesse
I would think it is the make up, at least that is what I personally think is the main difference between the two girls you show there. The first just look more polished.
To me it does not speak confidence wearing so much make up; making the lips appear bigger and even-out little imperfections. She probably follow some current trends (I only know of the dark, filled-in brows), which girls are more into, most guys do not care shit what the newest fashion is.
I guess so but even if you look at their features, there’s a difference. Not just makeup. I definitely should’ve included girls without makeup or both with it, so this question would be answered without bias lol
yes, the features are obviously different since it is not the same girl xp, but I'd say similar attraction level. The first girl has intriguing eyes, but else not special features.
Yeah, two with little make-up would be best to compare I think. But you did choose these for a reason, maybe because you personally think make-up raises attraction a lot?
No, I just found an Instagram model I thought was super pretty and then I found this random girl I thought was less so. First girl is just as attractive without makeup but I forgot that taht was an important factor lol
I was thinking it would be a bit more unconsciously, but if you think she looks as attractive without, then I guess not :)
They are both beautiful in my opinion. It comes down to personality and who's smarter and kinder. Also, the top girl looks like she requires a lot more physical maintenance. If we were going somewhere spur of the moment, the bottom girl looks like she's good to go in 5 minutes or less. She's a totally natural beauty. No way with the top girl ! LOL
Top girl looks the same without makeup, I really don’t understand why men think about all these random scenarios before taking their pic, it’s a “attractiveness” question, not a “who would you go out with”
@Asker But that's the whole point. Why would we care about any woman's attractiveness if it wasn't to determine datability?
Not buying that at all. If she looked "the SAME" without make-up, why would she bother putting it on and spending all the money and time it takes to do so? Make up obviously either enhances a woman's looks, or can make her look totally different in some cases. If you believe she looks "the same", post a non make up pic together with that one, and let's see.
Also, I don't assume the first girl is a bitch, I just said it looks like she requires more physical maintenance. If they had "identical" personalities and bodies, I'd probably choose the top girl because I have a thing for full lips !! LOL
What the conventional beauty in America, Tunisia, Brazil, Azerbaijan, Nepal, Japan, Greenland etc are different. When you have people on here from different countries why ask "Why do men on here prefer average girls more than conventionally attractive girls?"
Right... yeah that’s true. It’s just I know the majority of people on here live in America or somewhere more western but I know lots don’t either. Thanks for the suggestion, I’ll clarify next time
Really cute/hot girls are generally a royal PITA. Spoiled, entitled, narcisistic.
A lot of guys will do them, but never marry them. Just too much hassle. Besides, every other guy is constantly hitting them too, so they have an inflated self-image.
They are generally super lonely
@NoLookingAtSoleil That's bullshit. Hot women are not victims of their own beauty.
@KrakenAttackin of bullying and envy typically
@NoLookingAtSoleil You're claiming hot women are a victim of bullying and envy?
Who the fuck filled your little head with such drivel?
What exactly does a 'victim of envy' look like? How are they a victim?
Go date some loser
@NoLookingAtSoleil They are no more bullied than anyone else. Seriously, when you are used to people bowing to your every desire, having someone disagree with you or not wanting you is probably the worst problem they have.
@KrakenAttackin that's for you guys who keep wagging your tongues. They guys they date mistreat and dump them (often their for-money customers)
@NoLookingAtSoleil - 'for money customers'? WTF are you talking about? One more cryptic bullshit response and you're gone. For gods sakes what a moron.
@Browneye57. No kidding, this white knight is so flustered he is babbling.
Partly, guys have different tastes, and partly they're probably simping or genuinely don't want to hurt someone's feelings, so they rate them higher when they post a pic of themselves, compared to how they would rate some pic of a celebrity or similar.
If someone's ugly, then I don't even rate them. Because I don't want to be mean.
I've noticed this a lot outside of here as well. A lot of guys seem to even prefer very plain (in my opinion) girls. I would say that 1) beauty is subjective, so what one thinks is more beautiful another may not, 2) they may want someone they feel is a more "realistic" catch or feel they have a better chance with, or 3) they may find very beautiful girls intimidating.
Personally, both girls are attractive, but girl A has an unattractive nose in my opinion, so i would take girl B over girl A because i think girl B has a prettier face because she has a better looking nose.
Really? A has the typical beauty standard nose though, huh interesting
The tip of the nose is too high of you ask me. Its also a "button nose" & i find them less attractive than more angular noses.
Oh really? I see, I don't know most people tend to like button noses and people get nose jobs for noses like that lol. To each their own I guess. Yeah I don’t find either that attractive but they’re both blonde and I know most of the guys on here would reply to my question if it involved a blonde girl 😂😂 I just wanted more opinions I guess to really grasp an understanding.
Well in my opinion it depends on the girl. But a lot of guys either get intimidated if she is super gorgeous. Also a lot of the hot babes tend to be super stuck up or high maintenance.
Not every guy is going to chat with them.
Also not every guy is macho and willing to fight over a gal either.
I know for me I dont like guys looking at my girl. Ill worry if she would cheat on me or leave me.
How does the first girl have too much makeup? Istg some of y’all are just so damn old, all she’s wearing is lipstick, some mascara, and eyeliner?
Her cheeks are literally orange.
Her cheeks just look flushed, either way she has really good skin cause if she didn’t than her makeup would look cakey. I don't know why men are so obsessed with girls not wearing makeup when makeup only enhances ones natural beauty at the end of the day
It's simple..
Because first girl ain't real..
Because of her beauty she offers less stuff in relationship..
While second girl knows she isn't pinnacle of beauty and provides more enriching relationship..
Well the first girl is very real, actually 100% natural with no surgeries. And you can’t tell without getting to know them... I’ve met tons of gorgeous women with great personalities and bring things to the table.
Yeah.. No!..
They may bring ton of things!.. But it's always less than the average girl..
That's why average girls give more enriching relationship..
It's because average girl get 2 compliments a day and first pic girl gets 20 compliments and that's why she will never put same amount of effort in relationship because she knows she has a lot more options..
That’s not true, because everyone’s different. Also I don't know I’ve noticed attractive girls get no compliments because you’d assume they already know they’re pretty, but less attractive girls get more compliments because of “pity”
For example my friend and I, she’s model, she’s stunning, she never gets compliments lol but I get a ton and I know I’m not very attractive.
First girl is not real..
She is wearing makeup and her hairs are dyed and has eyelashes and her face is full of 20 different make up products
You think you aren't attractive...
And being model doesn't makes her more attractive than you...
You are more attractive than her.. That's why you get more compliments..
Show me picture of both of you..
Or ask poll here with her and your picture of face.. You will easily get more votes
No she’s attractive lmao everyone finds her more attractive she just doesn’t get compliments, I’ve done a poll on here before, she won by a long shot. It’s just true, if you see two women, one gorgeous and the other kinda pretty, who would you compliment? The kinda pretty one because she probably doesn’t get that many right? Exactly, so more attractive people get less compliments. It’s been proven too.
First girl looks the same without makeup that’s why I chose her as a candidate for the question but I shoulda included a photo without makeup too so people quit saying stuff like “it’s all makeup” when it’s really not.
Ugh!..
None of that matters..
Because I ain't getting your friend or you..
So Salute!..
lol, I dunno. The first girl seems to be caked up with makeup and looks like she's trying too hard, but the second girl looks natural and happy. Guys love it when girls smile
Because men are less visual lol
Agreed lol
I think both are pretty attractive although I’m not attracted to the second girl maybe people just think the opposite where they think both are attractive but the first just isn’t their type
Yeah maybe, I could see that.
Because what's more attractive? A girl with a ton of makeup to make her look attractive? Or the girl with little makeup who looks okay and fine without said makeup?
I can't answer for men but I can answer as bisexual female... Perhaps picking the seccond picture as she seems more down to earth and low maintance which as a result increases her score