Flirtationship with Best Friend. Will it work?

I've liked my best friend for years now but she had been in a 3 and a half year relationship with a guy I really didn't like because he treat her like something he found on the bottom of his shoe. Anyway, they broke up and a few months after we were sat on her bed in her room watching a DVD and we were cuddled quite close. She was touching my hands and I was stroking her neck and my heartbeat was really fast. Adrenaline kicked in and I tried to kiss her but she pulled away.

A few months later, we actually kissed for real and this confused us both but we had a conversation and agreed that we don't want a relationship because it'll only end once we go to University in September, but now I'm really in love with her and we've done a few sexual things and she's really helped with my self-confidence as I've had girls in the past treat me bad and cheated on me.

But because we are in this 'flirtationship', there's nothing stopping her from kissing other people. She likes this other guy and I believe he likes her and we spoke about it and she said I would need to deal with that because she's going to flirt with people and maybe kiss them. She did however say that she would tell me and we would agree to stop our relationship.

However, I don't want that. I want to have her all for myself. She said herself that she doesn't want it to end but at the same time she likes this other guy.

Any suggestions or advice?


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