What people choose to wear is not up for you to decide. Some people do not have enough money for that and it’s unfortunate that people like you will judge your life away without being sympathetic/optimistic as to why someone might not put effort into their appearance. I am in the field of dietetics and being obese itself is a psychological issue with majority of people of the world on top of not being able to secure nutritious food. Stop being judgmental and honestly just mind your own business. Learn ways to better yourself and not humiliate others that don’t fit your “look” standards. You don’t know these people
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Lol do you ask this same question about people that aren't obese? Because being sloppy is not weight thing. Wear ill fitting clothes is also not just a weight thing. Wearing sweats is not just a weight thing. So unless you have an issue with ANYBODY that is unkempt and doesn't carry themselves well, then it's not those things that bother you. It's simply them being overweight. And at the end of the day, they don't owe you anything.
Yeah. I've been skinny and I've been fat. And let me tell you what I've learned. Women like neither version of me lol. I have no reason to stay in shape and I would just take the easy way out and be a fat bastard. Unfortunately that shortens your life span. Which is the ONLY reason I'm not Jabba the hut. Lol
Try working 50 or 60 hours a week or more and then find time to work out when your motivated to do so.
There is also genetic factors, the fat gene makes it extremely hard for people to lose weight.
I would not worry about others, focus on your own health.
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Why are you worrying about their appearance? Worry about your own
I tend to gain weight when my mental health is at its worst. No fucking way would I have the energy to do anything but the bare minimum to survive, much less use that energy to "look good" when I feel like shit. Even getting out of bed is a battle.
Of course- because they don't WANT to. What makes you think that people owe you a pleasant countenance to look at? What have YOU done for THEM that you're in a position to make demands?
I think that when someone gets that obese they stop caring because they know their chances of finding a good man is practically nil, so they figure why bother.
Not everyone obese is concerned, deary.
Some are suffering mental conditions.Maybe they don't have the material and spiritual means. Maybe they have no motivations. You have to leave people alone now. :)
I think people should just mind their business and just let people live their lives
I mean the main excuse is that they just don't give a fuck. That's a pretty legit excuse if you think about it.
Yes, they don't want to. As long as they are ok with the consequences, who cares?
Some obese people are healthier than slim guys.. to each his own.
If it bothers you so much, go blind or something
Can't get past my hips usually
No point in putting lipstick on a pig
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